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Apparently monogamy's not for me
Apparently monogamy's not for me Came to that conclusion as I awoke to the three different dildos and a vibe on my nightstand that I had used last night. |
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Nothing like variation to keep things interesting, yet having a reliable choice is always comforting.
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I can't say for sure if the use of dildos and vibes means that monogamy is not in your future --- but if there is a constant or pervasive desire for exploration, for variety, for more and different experiences then I think that monogamy would be difficult to maintain. Perhaps "serial monogamy" would function -- connected with one for a while (even an extended while) before moving on, yet keeping a return a possibility. Just some thoughts and observations.
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1/13/2010 9:04 pm |
Good question....is it monogamy if you play with others? Hmmm Maybe if you think of it as the only person you are one on one with, truly intimate with, and have sex alone with. When you played with others you would always be in the same room at the same time. Think that would work for me. Have to be very secure in your relationship to be able to do that. As much as I like that concept, I don't believe it is likely to happen for me under current circumstances. The times I have experienced anything similar are a poor copy - available because both people had so little to lose, not because they wanted to give to the other so much.
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Might depend on your definition too, Tres. If you find "the one" and one of the reasons he is "the one" is that you and he play together with others - is that monogamy? Not in the traditional sense of the word, perhaps - but maybe in your heart.
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1/13/2010 9:53 am |
Might depend on your definition too, Tres. If you find "the one" and one of the reasons he is "the one" is that you and he play together with others - is that monogamy? Not in the traditional sense of the word, perhaps - but maybe in your heart.
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I agree
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Boy!! What lucky toys they are! Monogamy is a very tough steak to eat while smiling and telling the other half that it is delicious.
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Gotta love a puny guy.
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You used a nightstand last night? Now that is kinky. Did you ever hear the one about the man turning into a bar (he says shamelessly)
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9/21/2009 8:29 am |
It's not for me either! But I am not one to be with several, prefer to fine one who is as interested in me as I am in she.
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9/21/2009 6:51 am |
Monogamy is a tough one. How many people really find the one? The one who completes you in every way. My answer is very few; so many people are victims of circumstance, up-bringing, location, etc. I have traveled the world and been involved with many cultures intimately. In my opinion, our culture is the toughest one of all to find complete happiness in. There are just to many rules to play by.
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