BigLala exit interview  

40Deuce 42M
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5/29/2017 8:34 am

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BigLala exit interview

I thought about calling this "BigLala shoot interview" but my usage of wrestling terms doesn't entertain people as much as you'd think . Kayfabe briz .



Conducted last night via nude webcam .

Why did you start blogging ?

After being on the site for three months I planned not to renew. The site offered Activity bonus deal that included a blogging requirement. I realized within a few months how much I enjoyed blogging and interacting with other bloggers, so I stuck with it.

What did you learn from blogging , if anything ?

Oh hell! That's too much to list, lol. Most importantly I learned about myself. Rather, I learned a deeper sense of myself, if that makes sense. I also learned more about men and how they relate to women with regard to sex and relationships...things I wish I'd known 20 years ago..things no one ever told me.

Those are the two key things I learned.

Have or will you blog elsewhere ?

I guess you could say I've 'kinda' blogged on Facebook, but not to the same degree. I look back at my posts there over the years and I see similarities in how and what I wrote about. But for TRUE blogging? No, I haven't and I don't think I ever would blog on another site. I like that I could discuss ALL parts of life on Meelp and you have a readymade audience of sorts. If I ever return to blogging, I'd return to the site.
Obviously, I didn't write about my naughty side on FB! 😜

When I had a comic book store whenever a black dude came in he always wanted Spider-Man , ergo I think black people love Spider-Man ; is that racist ? Also do they ?

I don't think that racist. It's a reasonable observation based on your experience. Do black people love Spiderman? Now that I think about it...I think black men do, lol! One of my male cousins LOVED Spiderman when we were , like Spiderman was his favorite hands down. Not the Incredible Hulk, not even Batman or Superman. You might be on to something there. Haha!

Does it bother you when white people ask if you something is racist like you're the queen of black people and decide such things ?

Sometimes, yes, depending on the subject. Mostly, when white people ask me a racial question, it's in the form of 'Why do black people _______?' as if our behavior is so totally different from any other race or is an overall foreign mystery to them.
Like...'why do black people talk so loud?' Ummm, who knows. I know plenty of white people and people of other races who don't seem to know how to use their inside voices.

What's the last song you danced to ?

Honestly, I don't recall. It's been a couple of months since I danced at all and even then it was just around my room. It was probably a hip hip song though. Ooops...I remember. It was All Night by Damien Marley.

That song just makes me shake my hips, lol.

Did you see Anne Hathaway's boobs in Love and Other Drugs ?

No, I have not seen that movie.

Too bad , they're pretty nice

Oh yeah? You know I have a thing for breasticles so I'll have to find a clip. 😈

Did you know that May is masturbation month ?

I recently found that out. Oddly enough, I've masturbated less this month than I have in a long time. I used to masturbate everyday but slowed down. It hasn't been satisfying.

Have you ever had an orgasm so powerful you blacked out ?

No, I have not.

How can you be sure ?

Point taken, lol. But I'm quite sure. Although, does rolling over and taking a nap count as blacking out? 😂

If you could travel through time and kick anyone in the dick who would it be ?

My 's father.
Perhaps even my father, lol!

How successful do you think you'd be figuring out if a woman you're having sex with was faking ?

Something got crunked up here and a little bit is missing , Lala said that she thought she could accurately detect a fake orgasm 90% of the time , I asked if she would ever fake with a woman or if faking is all about make ego - she said it was mostly about male ego but she couldn't really answer because she had never been with a woman .

Why did I think you'd been with a woman ? Wishful thinking ?

Haha, probably because I talk about boobies so much.

You might be thinking of an erotic story I posted. I've written three but only one was true. The other two were fantasies and both involved women.

Would you ever have sex with a woman or is that just fun pretend time ?

I would have sex with a woman. However, I have no interest in having sex one-on-one with a woman.

Because you love dick so much ?

Yes partially.

Mostly because the idea of a woman being in a more submissive role with me and 'my man' turns me on. She gets pleasure from being our toy to explore, play with and give pleasure to. For some reason I'm more dominant in my desires of being with a woman.

What's something guys do during sex that drives you nuts ?

They fail to pay attention, think they know what's best for my body or they simply fail to discuss our likes. THE worst thing I've had guys do is think I'm about to orgasm, often asking if I am and when I say yes, they changed up the pace, angle of penetration or something. When giving oral some started with a fast and forceful pace right with their tongue or fingers. Losing an impending orgasm because a guy changed pace or is too rough from the start is so frustrating. 😳😬😡

I will say that as I've matured, I learned to speak up more during sex than when I was younger. If I notice a guy starts changing pace as I'm about to cum, I tell him to go back to what he was doing.

Does that work ?

Actually, yes... I think it has the majority of the time that I recall. Most guys do like the ego boost knowing they 'made' a woman orgasm so if I tell them in the right way they're excited to comply. When I say 'tell' I mean...in the heat of the moment desperately say 'oh, I'm about to cum. I want to cum on your cock go back to what you were doing'.

Lil John and DJ Snake want us to get low when the whistle blows - what whistle ? Like a train whistle ?

What?!?!? Oh, so because I'm black you think I know about that? 😜😂

DJ Snake is white so who's racist now lady ? You’ve just been proven racist by the racist prover !

Hey, I never said I wasn't racist, lol. I'm an equal opportunity racist. 😂 Most of us all are!

Seriously though... I have no clue. I like most hip hop, but some songs I just can't even. I'm not a Lil John fan and I don't know who DJ Snake is.

Do you listen to music during sex ?

No I don't. I actually haven't had music playing while having sex since I dated my boyfriend in college.

How much money would it take for you to make out with Donald Trump ?

Oh gawd! Ummm, billions. His political personality and image aside, he's not even attractive to me. If you could see my face right now? 'Ewwwww face' firmly in place!

Ninjas or cowboys ?

Do I have to choose? Both are cool (and a bit sexy) in their own right.

We all know I'm greedy!

Cake or pie ?

Ugh, seriously why do I have to choose? LOL! Actually, with this one...I'll say cake. There's but a few pies that I like.

When judgement day comes and all souls all called home to answer for what they've how do you like your chances ?

Oooooh....better than some, worse than others. I've not done all I should in my life, but I've never carried hate in my heart against anyone and I firmly believe in Christ's teachings of treating people with compassion and kindness...not to be confused with weakness or without accountability.

Why do we only remember some of our dreams ?

I think our brains can't rationalize most of the information it processes. It only allows a few things to filter through to our memory and I think most of the ones we remember are messages to us.

Lingerie - what's the deal there ?

No clue. I rarely wear it...even for myself. A friend of mine is diligent about her bra and panties matching because she says she feels sexier that way...yet, she never exudes her sexiness the way I'd think she would. She doesn't even like being naked in front of guys and frequently comments on how confident she thinks I am about my body. I'm not always though.

She even asks me how can I do feel comfortable being naked in front of guys. I just shrug because I don't really know. I used to be the girl who only had sex at night with the lights off, lol. Now, if I'm having sex I don't care the time of day, lights are on and all clothes come off. I don't think about whether a guy likes my body or not. Of course, it's an ego boost if he does and shows it.

She's WAY smaller than me btw. So go figure.

Why is being naked so awesome ?

I know right. Weird thing, though? I really only like being naked when with someone...I don't walk around naked when home alone...it weirds me out. 😂
I'm working on that though. I really want to go to a nudist resort to see if I can do it.

When you blow out the candles on a cake what are you wishing for ?

Nothing usually. I can never think of anything to wish for and I never really believed birthday wishes come true.

When you blow a guy what are you wishing for ?

Haha, that he doesn't cum too quick or that it doesn't take too long to make him cum and that I can quickly find that one thing that makes his legs shake.

What do you see when you look at the night sky ?

Stars usually and I try to figure out which are actually planets. I would like to go to other parts of the world to see how the stars look.

At the end of Fight Club we find out Brad Pitt was really Ed Norton all along - if you found out that you're really Ed Norton how would you feel ?

Hulky, lol!

According to "Fuck White People" when white people do it missionary it looks like an uncooked chicken - true/false ?

I've never thought about what white people in missionary looks like. 🤔
True probably though

Would you rather watch people have sex or be watched having sex ?

Neither. I'd rather be having sex. 😉
Don't need or want an audience.

Squirting - bullshit ?

For me it is.
Never have and probably never will. It's not a must that I do it.

IF you die what do you want on your tombstone - if you never die what will you be doing in 10,000 years ?

I don't know what I'd want on my tombstone or that I'd care. My concern is that people have more positive and loving memories of me than negative. If I do my job right, they'll choose the right words. More importantly, 100 years from my death no one will know me anyway so what my tombstone says is irrelevant.
In 10,000 years I'll probably be yelling at the neighborhood for leaving their new fangled toys on my lawn.

Well that's it , you've been interviewed by me - how do you feel ?

My brain hurts. You always make me think too much. 😜


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40Deuce 42M
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5/29/2017 8:37 am

"a guy starts changing pace as I'm about to cum" I've heard this same thing from a LOT of women , I wonder why that is - is the amount of time it takes a woman to have an orgasm about the same amount of time it takes for a dude to get bored with that's he's doing ?

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superbjversion2 64F  
16911 posts
5/29/2017 9:02 am

Very good exit interview. And I'm barely sad that I didn't get one when I left.

I put the sex in sexagenarian


40Deuce replies on 5/30/2017 6:13 pm:
I was playing the long game there , I knew you'd be back and your jealously years later would drive you into my arms

kinkyfem73 46F

5/29/2017 9:35 am

I'm really gonna miss this lady 💔
Great interview!

Cum visit my blog Kinkyland


seems6666 48F  
2594 posts
5/29/2017 9:56 am

Like it


Dick4001567 59M
3939 posts
5/29/2017 10:16 am

Awesome sauce


TXArmyWife 47F
1945 posts
5/29/2017 10:46 am

Great interview!! It's nice to learn new things about other bloggers!
I can't believe she is leaving!!

I need a really great kiss!!


TicklePlease 51F  
12205 posts
5/29/2017 1:28 pm

Thanks 40!


wickedeasy 69F  
32359 posts
5/29/2017 1:46 pm

i'm glad you did this. I just wish she'd stay but that's me being selfish.

thanks Deuce.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


BiggLala 47F  
26673 posts
5/29/2017 2:41 pm

I really had fun answering your questions, which I thought were great questions. However, you told a big fib and I'm telling on you! You weren't naked during the interview...you had on a robe. 😜

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smartasswoman 61F  
31431 posts
5/29/2017 2:57 pm

I'm so glad that there's someone else whose head hurts after talking with you.

I feel bad that I only just recently started reading Lala's blog and now she's outta here. She seems very cool, like someone I'd want for a friend.


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1801 posts
5/29/2017 4:54 pm

Great post...loved the interview!

Lala...you are a funny and beautiful woman.....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


charmer961 60M  
14438 posts
5/29/2017 7:12 pm

Beautiful photo.


redrockrascal 60M
20304 posts
5/29/2017 7:52 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I really had fun answering your questions, which I thought were great questions. However, you told a big fib and I'm telling on you! You weren't naked during the interview...you had on a robe. 😜
Putting aside the robe visual amp;

Why is it when you and I talk I can barely get a word in edgewise but with this new "Lalaverse" guy you're clear and concise? Huh? What about the exit-girl?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


tickles4us 57M
6786 posts
5/29/2017 8:33 pm

Good interesting interview.

Vive La Difference


BiggLala 47F  
26673 posts
5/29/2017 8:37 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Putting aside the robe visual amp;

    Why is it when you and I talk I can barely get a word in edgewise but with this new "Lalaverse" guy you're clear and concise? Huh? What about the exit-girl?
Hey! I let you talk...sometimes.

I assure you...I had to work HARD at being concise since I was typing on my phone, lol. If this were a phone conversation where he took notes, you know I would have rambled and went on tangent after tangent...and so on and so on. He wouldn't have been able to post this for a week while he tried to organize my thoughts.

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redrockrascal 60M
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5/29/2017 9:09 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Hey! I let you talk...sometimes.

    I assure you...I had to work HARD at being concise since I was typing on my phone, lol. If this were a phone conversation where he took notes, you know I would have rambled and went on tangent after tangent...and so on and so on. He wouldn't have been able to post this for a week while he tried to organize my thoughts.
"organize my thoughts" Human technology will never be able to accomplish that.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


BiggLala 47F  
26673 posts
5/29/2017 9:15 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    "organize my thoughts" Human technology will never be able to accomplish that.
True story!

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BiggLala 47F  
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5/29/2017 10:00 pm

Read this, 40: [post 3988886]. Many women have experienced 'The Change Up'.

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40Deuce replies on 5/30/2017 6:14 pm:
It's uncanny really

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