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Responding to messages  

pblue12358 65M
6 posts
8/14/2017 12:48 pm
Responding to messages

I believe all messages should get a response. How do others feel? Maybe women are overwhelmed with messages and cannot respond to all of them. The only ones I don't respond to are ones I suspect are scammers. Forty years younger and slim women rarely are interested in 60 year old fat men or 58 as I am.

I_BRANDY 75M

8/14/2017 7:39 pm

 I agree! I try not to have expectations on here but, when someone accepts my friend request and then won't at least say no thanks to my request to chat on IM, I don't get it. I recently had someone I chat and message with tell me that she couldn't respond to my chat requests??? what's up w/ that? site problems?? Or, is it that I'm a non paying member??? I just go on to the next


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
8/14/2017 8:40 pm

 No not all messages should be answered. My profile is clear I am not meeting at this time. Doesn't stop some from writing. Even if I wanted to meet there is a few preferences. Must have or i am not interested. None of the men that wrote fit them. Once got a message like we could fuck weekly in his limo. At that time I was meeting. I answered but not one he liked. If I get a cock picture I would not answer or not with what the man would like. Not saying you do any of the above. Just letting you and those that read your post know the real reason why some women don't answer.
Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


pblue12358 65M

8/15/2017 4:50 am

 I guess I should say a reasonable and appropriate message. A guy sending a dick picture is not an appropriate message. Unless it was asked for. Guys can be real jerks. I have never heard of a woman sending naked pictures in their first message. I don't believe a dick picture is an appropriate main profile picture either.

Some women friends I knew used to say "men are pigs." I agreed, but added "some are just better pigs then others." i could be a pig. I just prefer not to be.


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