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cwazywabbit009 54M
6088 posts
8/21/2016 12:53 pm

No, I usually neg myself to save others the trouble

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CleavageFan4U 61M  
54624 posts
8/21/2016 12:59 pm

So that means you ARE a fan of pegging then? Nooo, not looking for that really - but it wouldn't be the first time I fell for "it would make me sooo hot if you'd...." coming from a pretty lady.

Negging seems manipulative, and I'd never deliberately engage. I will admit that sometimes a genuine compliment has come out wrong, however.

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justskin1 66M
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8/21/2016 1:02 pm

There is nothing like adding "for your age." after a compliment. I expect at least half the people who say it realize what a slap it is.
I don't believe I have purposely done it but admit that "hoof in mouth" can strike us all. Negging is despicable and those who do it deserve a poisonous putdown.

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papis_baby_girl 42F  
4677 posts
8/21/2016 1:07 pm

yeah...negging thing works on 20-year-olds...

to me...they are just jerks.

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nicelipss66 42F  
22897 posts
8/21/2016 1:14 pm

Don't forget the very common. Nice boobs, Are they real?

I do know pegging, I am guilty of that

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sexysixties2 71F  
37841 posts
8/21/2016 1:28 pm

I'm often told on here "Nice tits...for your age!" I don't reply....treat them with the contempt they deserve.

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satyrnsheepzskin 41M  
5957 posts
8/21/2016 1:34 pm

Men may be from Mars, but I'm from Hell.

Have never once been guilty of this. Compliments are honest when I give them, and honestly head games are not my bag either.

So you're from ... My anus? Did you find anything interesting in there?

Just curious ...

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azriel1970 48M  
22856 posts
8/21/2016 2:15 pm

Ummm No I have never done that nor would it even cross my mind to do so....
So this actually works on some ladies????????????

northshoretake2 54M  
1629 posts
8/21/2016 2:33 pm

Negging is also a technique taught by self-described pick up gurus. They advertise their expertise using "How to Get Laid" pop up ads and they target guys who have trouble getting dates.

Sometimes, you run into guys to whom negging comes naturally. They're cocky and possibly good-looking. And since some of them actually have success picking up ladies, the technique has been studied and copied.

I think many women have caught on that it's just another gimmick.

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CreativeType5 36M
3234 posts
8/21/2016 3:29 pm

This boggles my mind. Why the hell would I want to undermine a woman's confidence? I'm attracted to a woman with confidence. I mean granted I'm too shy to actually talk to women in the first place, but if I weren't I sure wouldn't want to intentionally insult them.

Tmptrzz 56F  
52562 posts
8/21/2016 5:02 pm

When I was younger in my first marriage, yes and it does horrible things to your confidence, but then you become stronger and NEVER let anyone do that to you again!!!

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smartasswoman 61F  
29289 posts
8/21/2016 5:24 pm

For sure...I think it's been mostly online for me, rather than in person (can't remember the last time anyone tried to pick me up in public).

The "for your age" qualifier a number of times. And I remember a gross swinger-type guy trying to convince me I should become part of his group of swingers because "No man would want a serious relationship with a woman who's open about liking sex".

tickles4us 56M
6776 posts
8/21/2016 5:48 pm

Jeez.. got me all excited then let me down.

No I'm not a fan of negging. I don't do complements I just say what I feel.

I do admit to picking/joking with people a lot though as I like to see people smile and laugh. The internet experience leaves something to be desired on that aspect of humor and sometimes it doesn't come through right.

You definitely didn't come from myanus as you're to big a turd to shit... say how did we get back to pegging...

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KItkat1415 56F  
19734 posts
8/21/2016 6:18 pm

I have gotten "Boy! She sure can talk!" To my friends.
I raised my eyebrow and laughed at him and pointed.
When asked by my friends why I was laughing, I responded
with "what an asshole! I remember the first time I tried to be funny!"
And the. We all went back to talking to each other and ignored him.

I have also gotten "you're pretty. Maybe you should think twice before talking."
I turned to him and said "maybe you should."


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ProfPlayful 55M
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8/21/2016 8:45 pm

I feel sorry for men who neg. They miss out on the sweetest part of intimacy with a woman.

It is possible to form a noun describing people who neg, but I won't post it on your blog. I shall simply state that those who neg are letting judgment interfere with life. It's a sacrifice of great consequence.

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japaneseass 51F  
47141 posts
8/21/2016 10:38 pm

i love you, cus you are a meany like that...

my quick come back would be, "so? but I like it" let them know i don't need their approval...i do what ever i like...

sensualpassion72 53M/46F  
3262 posts
8/22/2016 2:59 am

negging.... backhanded compliments...... make for terrible table manners.

wickedeasy 68F  
31953 posts
8/22/2016 1:01 pm

I've always enjoyed hearing.

you're very articulate for a woman

well shut my mouth you ignoramus

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