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japaneseass 51F  
47967 posts
9/18/2017 3:34 pm

captaindilf...sorry that happened to yah...

but only good thing came out of this is that, you made sure, she understood "you are not into a relationship", before both of you proceeded further into a relationship...

what if she turned into a clingy psycho like the one in a "fatal attraction"??? you have kids, and as a mother's point of view, that is an important part, in a relationship....

having fun/sex is one thing but we all have some more important obligation to meet in a daily life...such as work or family...someone got to pay the bill, and feed that kids...

well, i guess she did not understand don't need a person like that in your life...definitely's her loss...or more to say, you guys were not compatible...

she might have said differently, but i know, in this case, YOU are the one who really knows what you are looking for...and i can tell you, she is not one of them...

pocogato12 67F  
27333 posts
9/18/2017 3:59 pm

I think you let go just at the right time. She has no heart

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Readmoreofeveryt 46F

9/18/2017 4:20 pm

I don't understand why she didn't ask when you could meet and if you still wanted too but she probably wanted a relationship so you did her a favor so she can go find one. She probably heard fwb only and was saying fuck that.

Readmoreofeveryt 46F

9/18/2017 4:22 pm

You'll eventually find someone that understands because they have the same situation little time jobs and kids

s2ndegree 60M  
9042 posts
9/18/2017 4:35 pm

I wonder what she'd be like if she
had to go through the same results with 90%
of her messages?

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BiggLala 47F  
25991 posts
9/18/2017 5:19 pm

Did she say she wanted a serious relationship, or indicate that on her profile? What was the tone of your message exchanges?

I'm sure these reactions happen to guys too, and I doubt anyone thinks it doesn't.

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aflower2c 45F  
13596 posts
9/18/2017 6:03 pm

Is your profile clear that you are only looking for anonymous sex or hookups?
Is there reason for her to think you where looking for dating for a relationship?
Are you misleading women in saying dating but actually mean nsa sex?

I now I ask by the 3rd or 4th message what he is actually looking for and to not parrot back what he thinks I want to hear just so he gets laid.
So maybe you want to rethink your profiles and make it clear your intentions.

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