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rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
6/8/2018 7:21 am

The very first person I met on here years ago used a photo of another person altogether. I was horrified at the person that showed up. I would NEVER have met this guy had I seen what he looked like. Call me shallow if you will, but honestly looks are not everything, but they DO count!!

As for the fake dick pics, those are rampant on here. I have never understood using a fake photo like that when if you do meet and his photo showed an anaconda and as you said he has less than 3 or 4 inches it is obvious. My opinion anyone male or female using photos that are misleading is wrong. If you are 55 show a photo of you at 55 NOT a photo of you 20 years ago when you had the athletic body you liked and before you started losing hair or gaining weight. There are people that will like you AS you are, but it is guaranteed you will not go far lying when someone meets you and you are bald or have silver hair and the photo showed a strapping young gent or a younger lady. Lying is not the way to start out.

On a side note notice the fake dick pics seem to always be on gay porn sites and so many men actually choose the same dick photos. I had a list going of the same dick photos being used over and over and one photo stood out the most and I have seen it on over 15 profiles all at the same month all over the country. 3 men had it on their profiles in Michigan at the same time!! I think men are truly much more fascinated with dicks than the women are. lol


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/8/2018 7:30 am

My first 2 meets from here had posted older (more than 10 years IIRC) pics and they didn't look like those pics at all. I didn't recognize either when they showed up. If you're actually meeting people it's kinda dumb posting very old pics.

Since then everyone I've met looks pretty much like their pic - maybe a bit older.

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Hotbi415 60M  
29 posts
6/8/2018 8:00 am

someone stole my pic...it was the oddest feeling to have SOMEONE CHAT YOU UP. LOOK AT Their profile and notice that they have your picture........unbelievable


solardays 64M
4 posts
6/8/2018 8:50 am

Welcome to the adult dating scene. Misrepresenting oneself has been going on forever and will continue barring some drastic change such as every photo being verified by the site before it is sent. Yuk!


Prof10001 63M  
4094 posts
6/8/2018 11:11 am

I'm sorry that it didn't work out with your guy. Hopefully that means we'll get to see more of you.

Take care,

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Swing by my blog!


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
6/8/2018 7:38 pm

Don't know to much about male fakes.

But with female fakes, anymore, ages 22 to 39, damn near 95% of them are fake anymore.

Not being interested in them anyways, as my profile states (which the scammers don't read anyways) not interested in women under the age of 50.

As a rule, not to many read profiles on here anyways.
Especially the fakes !!


travellerabc123 54M
3989 posts
6/9/2018 5:14 am

I've missed you soooooo much. Sorry it didn't work out with your guy. His loss is our gain!

Embrace the suck


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
6/10/2018 6:23 am

Anyone that would use fake pictures OBVIOUSLY has no intention of meeting - or is REALLY dumb.

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Voyuer97 66M
484 posts
6/10/2018 6:15 pm

We've missed you, Gig!

To be perfectly honest, I've only met one person from on here and I can say without reservation, she was exactly as advertised, exactly as pictured, and exactly as sweet as I knew she would be. Of course, we also happen to live about 8 hours apart by car so that pretty well killed any chance of anything more than being a good friend.


voyeurs53 45M  
433 posts
6/11/2018 12:49 pm

I guess it is the keyboard warrior aspect of the whole thing. Someone can hide and pull an old “bait and switch...” and hope you are too polite to call them on it... I’m guessing more often than not, it leads to the fakes doing a lot of self “baiting” themselves... 😬😬 ... it sounded funny when I thought of it... 🤷🏻‍♂️... anyway, glad to see you back again... 😉


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
6/17/2018 12:42 pm

    Quoting  :

Quoting: SassyGigi replied on 6/11/2018 10:28 am:
I'll admit, I looked better 10 years ago but I want to actually meet people. I would rather guys not be attracted to me here and not even meet me than to meet someone and have them be disappointed. I try to update my pics every 6 months or so. But yeah, can't stand fake people! Have a great day!


I am not ashamed of the way I look and AM proud of myself, but I am not looking so therefore I don't need to update my photo in my book. I wrote right on the photo I am no longer available to help cut down on men thinking I am here to meet. I have lots of pride and trust me on lost of smarts and I am extremely real. lol I found what I wanted back in 2006 right on here and I choose to stick around and chat with people, blog, and answer in the advice lines. I have made some extremely wonderful friends here as well as a terrific lover and man. The site used to have the ability to shut off the profile and continue running your blogs, but they changed that. If I now hide my profile it hides all my blogs and my blog post answers as well as the advice lines. So I chose to write the profile reflecting I am NOT here looking. I also seriously look exactly the same. I have not gained weight, I wear the same size I always have. I am not taller nor shorter either. lol My hair is just a smidge longer is all, but not more than an inch or so. I seriously look exactly the same.


voyeurs53 45M  
433 posts
6/18/2018 8:49 am

And btw, you shouldn’t try and create someone different because you are perfectly sexy just the way you are... one of my favorites on this crazy site...


DytmLuv 56M
11 posts
6/19/2018 10:23 am

I've had a couple of meetings where the face didn't match the photo and more than once, the photo wasn't taken in the past decade. I guess everyone wants to appear as attractive as possible, even if they use an old photo or even someone else's (maybe they think they will never meet anyone).

Sorry to hear your relationship ended. We enjoy your smile.

B


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
6/19/2018 3:47 pm

I've never understood why people post fake pics if they plan to meet someone? Just be honest.


voyeurs53 45M  
433 posts
6/25/2018 6:50 am

Like I said, people are too polite to call them on their BS... ie, your response just above this one... but so long as you didn’t reward them, politeness isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but not sure if they get it... however, not sure it’s your job to give that lesson.... wow I just tied myself into a knot... 🤦🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️😂😉


Piper3654K 53M
141 posts
7/6/2019 3:53 am

Fake pics seem to be a way of life here. As to the older pics thing though:

I've been on and off here for about ten years. It seems like a long time because it is. Some of my acquaintances here have the same picture as they did when they first joined the site. It's not cool. I look young for my age but my age is real. I've met a handful of people who HAVE to be using ten year old pictures. People change (sometimes for the better btw) and using older pics is a sure sign of deeply rooted insecurity.

Oh well. There's a reason we don't sleep with every person we meet. LOL


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