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Little miss flower

Written from a small city middle of no where kink thinkin kinda gal.
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heartshapedcock2 36M
1677 posts
5/16/2017 6:37 pm

I would love to eat your pussy like that, it's so juicy...

aflower2c replies on 5/16/2017 8:08 pm:
kinda like a peach

LusciousLips575 44F  
117 posts
5/16/2017 7:09 pm

You have hit every nail on its proverbial head. I get so tired of that question. I was asked that question in an email once, well more than once, but I answered like this, a man that actually reads a profile in it's entirety AND can comprehend the words I typed. The guy replied with NICE. He later emailed me again asking the same damn question. I think the next time I'm asked that I'll say, nothing, nothing turns me on and see what they say.

Eyes are the windows to the soul

Are you made of vinegar and water? No? Then quit acting like a douche.

Not my monkeys, not my circus

Luscious Lips

aflower2c replies on 5/16/2017 7:58 pm:
hehe ya
or you get the response "ugh ur to much work" (typos an'all)
or "bye"

I don't expect a stellar intro and flying sparks right from the get go, but at least pretend like I am someone desirable instead of just another hole - and I will treat you the same way.

sakisj 46M

5/16/2017 7:16 pm

What turns me on? figuring out what turns YOU on, so I don't have to ask next time!

Nerdy, self indulgent and fascinated by bright, shiny objects, but harmless...

aflower2c replies on 5/16/2017 8:01 pm:
yes but in order to get there you need to break that ice and plant the lustful seed in her mind.

Generate that interest, what does it take for a woman to catch your interest?

scott6250 57M
22337 posts
5/16/2017 8:46 pm

I don't use lines but say whatever is on my mind and respond to what she has to say..I just go with the flow.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250

aflower2c replies on 5/16/2017 9:02 pm:
Yes, the ease of conversation, some are better at chatting than others. But then you still have to watch where the conversation is leading to.

dayzeeme 51F
6793 posts
5/16/2017 9:21 pm

so tired of lines. Met my newest friend because we talked about blogging. Wasn't even sure he was interested in me sexually until we had talked for weeks lol. Now THAT is the way you do it IMHO (Normally I would not wait that long to find out, but there were circumstances beyond our control that precluded finding out sooner).

aflower2c replies on 5/16/2017 10:17 pm:
I have met with men that I have "just chatted with" about other things, but then we didn't meet to have sex nor was sex even on the table. But then we had more info to share and then who knows maybe sexual chemistry develops, and if not then atleast I have someone to chat with.

ProfessorNaught 106M
980 posts
5/16/2017 9:32 pm

Articulate ! Succinctly

I'm looking for a man who wants to meet, spend six hours talking about any kind of bullshit from politics to world economics and solutions while sliding in and out of stupid stuff like hollywood, the deeper desires of kinky fantasy and the potential pleasures of passion without borders. Then spending the next six hours feeding me while feasting on my body making me cum all over for 60 minutes before we actually get to sex. (Wait, let me check my Bill Clinton dictionary of sexual definitions).

If you can you meet a criteria of conversation, interaction and passion, let's talk (chat) and see if we should meet?

Well, something like that - obviously customized to your particular interest. But given the definition of your expectations and options on the table, those targeting a quickie are going to stay clear.

aflower2c replies on 5/16/2017 10:14 pm:
Ya...but those seeking quickies still try

I just don't see the appeal in being a 2 min cum dump for some guy that probably won't even use the condom right then I have to make a doctor's appointment .... so I may as well masturbate than even bother meeting up. Lol

flowerkings2012 56M
4097 posts
5/17/2017 1:44 am

I think as we are specifically dealing with lines/questions and engaging in easy flow conversation, then the more natural and interesting query is 'what was it that led you to join this site?'

More chance of actually learning something than 'what are you here for?'

aflower2c replies on 5/17/2017 6:56 am:
'what was it that led you to join this site?'
To me that question I just don't bother answering now because I came here for other reasons and not for hookups with every recently single guy or every cheater that msgs me. I came here looking for men that also had an interest in a healthy sex life and just found a bunch of "any hole will do". Plus I was looking for kink friendly partners, and a casual partner to explore mfm with. Nothing but guys looking for quick hookups and a cum dump. I get it now, men can't have both sex and partner, it's always one or the other. Plus I fully understand now that men mainly just want a quick bang with no extra sexploration involved.

So..Ya. .I don't answer that question anymore. because I am searching for that place to find men that are into good sex. Lol

1tongue4yall 60M
2147 posts
5/17/2017 4:07 am

I guess what really gets me going is honesty and confidence. I like a conversation where we actually find things out about each other. maybe some joking, some laughing, some banter back and forth.
that is what catches my eye and gets me wanting to meet...not necessarily jump bones but meet and see what might transpire from there.

aflower2c replies on 5/17/2017 7:01 am: a point though. I am not fond the quick meet up because I found one too many men thinking that I also want to just fuck, seems agreeing to meet to see if there's any chemistry just automatically means that I will fuck.
So I am far more selective on who I will meet with now. Instead of meeting someone new and if it didn't work out then that's fine I still met someone new, now I will make sure I have some sort of attraction to him ..... even if I say no (which I say no to 95% of them bec they are just looking for a quick romp on his time, or they want drive thru sex service).

greekphilosopher 56M
4085 posts
5/17/2017 10:54 am

I do not use the IM and can not mail anyone, but say for example, for a woman's profile with a pic somewhere of a pair of nice tits, I would not mention "nice tits" for weeks! Just a thought of how many zillion times she has heard that one, would put me off been original.

aflower2c replies on 5/17/2017 12:12 pm:
I believe just because a man would love to receive empty flattery over n over again (male ego), that they think that women would want to hear to the same thing. Even though she may post sexy pics, you are not going to stand out when you say.the same thing as the last hundred messages/comments.
PLUS it really helps if you have something in your profile - at least for me bec I will look at your profile and make a choice of whether I want to chat or its not my problem that you haven't filled in your profile and I decide you are just another hole hunter. So at some point I am fine with a "hello" but have something in your profile that says something about you and gives me something to respond to.

VenusRedux2 44F
518 posts
5/18/2017 7:14 am

No one line can possibly work. The things that work with me are:

* Make me laugh by engaging me in witty banter

* Challenge me to think with thoughtful insights without telling me I'm wrong

* Be flirty and playfully signal interest without being brazen

* Respect all the social conventions required to put me at ease

Counter-intuitively, sex talk kills the mood for me. Make me want it before bringing it up ... not bring it up to make me want it.

Some notable exceptions: Rashad from Dancing With the Stars can do me wherever and whenever he likes. Or the guy from the Old Spice commercial "Hello ladies ... look at your man, now look at me ... "

Short of being those guys, neither a line nor sex talk in general will get me going.

aflower2c replies on 5/18/2017 8:21 am:
Counter-intuitively, sex talk kills the mood for me. Make me want it before bringing it up ... not bring it up to make me want it.
I have seen this line of reasoning around cock photos or action shots. Because many men are turned on by that type of photo, many think that women should also be turned on, so they post those photos. Bit from every discussion I have seen the majority of women felt indifferent or negative to those photo choices.

And I will not engage in sex chat with someone I have not met, and I won't engage in it until he is an established partner - I have found the majority of the men where just looking for online play or sexting and had no intention of ever meeting or they string you along with false promises of meeting again. Lessons learned the hard way and having an open mind that it's only a small few of the men.

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