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I'll say this, I am finding no one on here, and that's OK. I already have swing friends. I do adore this site though. How about you??
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I wish more people on this site were as sincere and real as you are.. Its so nice to read what you want in a partner,, Seems some either do not read profiles or use this site as a form of entertainment.. Thank you for your post XO Chris JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART
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11/14/2019 8:17 pm |
It takes effort to find someone who is sincere and caring. One in a million on here for sure. The issue I am having is finding someone who is real. If you don't want to talk on the phone or Cam.....before I have sex with you...You must not be real.. I had 2 guys give me a fake phone number...spam number!! I can see how this site can become a form of entertainment just for blogging... Maybe I will find a blogger partner in crime! That would be fun!!
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I saw a deal on the face place that said dating after 40 I like going to good will and looking for the cleanest used clothes. I guess in reality while trying to make a joke they hit on a lot of truth. Up until 3-4 years ago I had to many irons in the fire to worry about dating, I just got use to being alone. Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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Yes people over 40 still date. Regarding the dating sites most women want a relationship. speaking for myself most men want sex. There has to be sex to have a relationship. At my age if there is no hint of sex at 2 dates there probably won't be a 3rd one. Women also don't read profiles clearly. I state that I am not looking for love and I am looking for hookups and open to non-monogamy. Yet I get likes from women who are obviously looking for their one and only. It's though out there.
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I am very easy in the sexual compatibility area, so unless it is disgusting, or illegal, or crosses gender lines, I am probably willing to try it. But those who match what I like the most, are the ones I try to date multiple times. As to casual sex while seeking a relationship, well be honest everybody, no matter how much we like casual, if we find the magic person that we think we want to spend the rest of our lives with, we WILL change our tunes! Because deep down, that is really what we all want. Variety is all well & good, but it is also very unreliable, and a great relationship will take a long time if ever to grow stale. And, Practice does improve our skills for the future! ALL of my relationships have started out as possible NSA connections, I married two of them, sigh, and have had LTRs with nine more at last count ! I am way over 40, and yet, I still date, and for NSA, but in the back of my mind, an LTR is always possible. My dating is only limited by the limited income I have now! I tend to think I will never give up dating until the day I die, but seeking a relationship may end before then, and maybe has already. With three FWBs at my, or their, beck & call, I am getting about as much casual sex as I am capable of, but still I havnt given up the hunt for new. As to a relationship tho, at my age, with my issues, I dont wish to leave a widow behind, so .... casual NSA is my best choice.
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