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Listening  

myhoneyspot66 57F
0 posts
5/29/2017 9:13 am
Listening


How important is it to listen to someone.

There is so much talk now a days about sapiosexual. So many people say that is how they are. They are interested in a person intelligence.. That's what turns them on. But how can it be a turn on if that person doesn't listen to another?

I have been speaking with a man and I have clearly stated that I am not very attracted to women. I am bi-curious, but not to the point that I will go out and find a woman. I have been with a couple of them and as nice as it is, it just isn't my thing.

This man tells me he is saiosexual. He enjoys the mind. He has been trained in the art of pleasing a woman and making her crave the intense orgasm that he will give.. While all of this is erotic, I have never met this man face to face, only through chat and the occasional phone call.

He wants to give me my first MMMF, he also wants this other woman to watch as he fucks me and make me quiver from the intense orgasm he will bestow on me.. Again, I have told him I am really not into women, but he persists, saying after I have the MMMF and then enjoy him alone, she will join us and lick all the cum from my holes.

What the fuck is up with some people. I've said I'm not into women. I've never met this dude and he expects me to fuck three guys with this woman watching, then let him fuck me again, then let this woman clean my holes... LOL

I maybe on a sex site, and I have done things with men that I could never tell my friends about, but I have met the men I've played with and believe it or not, respect is a very important thing to me.

I would love to hear others opinions about this.

Love and kisses

Honey


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/29/2017 6:12 pm

No one will talk me into doing something I am not into. He would go in my red flag pile.


calmdownbestill 55M  
176 posts
6/2/2017 6:13 am

it's disrespectful not to listen to you, and more disrespectful to decide what you would want/like for you. Pleasure comes from connecting, and if that person isn't interesting in truly connecting then they aren't worth your time.


Iwanaliku2 59M  
68 posts
1/23/2018 6:39 pm

Sounds like his fantasy and maybe he is dreaming... I always make sure I can do what I say I can and ALWAYS listen to my partner... just common courtesy (which I fear isn't as common as it should be)...


Back_again_twice 64M  
128 posts
1/31/2018 6:33 pm

I came to the same conclusion that he wasn't respecting your feelings.


niaga16kcabe 64M  
33 posts
5/20/2018 7:33 pm

i think he enjoys the kinky side of his mind and not necessarily the intelligent side


boficle 70M
2 posts
12/23/2018 3:04 am

This man seems to be to simple and narrow minded, he doesn't analyze what you say and quickly reacts with his fantasy


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