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Hi BiggLala... as always, a joy to read... that's the first time that I've heard the term "regular maintenance sex"... I've heard "charity fucks"... "bend over, I'm driving"... "just do me already"... or... "give me your best shot"... but, not that one... I do like it... though... because it speaks to "greasing the skids" or "priming the pump".... and, if done on a regular basis, it is like eating an apple or being eaten to keep that pesky doctor away... thanks for the post!!! I posted this song on one of my blogs... you might like it... Abbe May - "Are we flirting" Are we flirting... You walk around like you don't give a fuck... stars collide & conspire for your luck... I'm not the first & I'm surely not the last... but, we're flirting... To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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Oh... btw, I like the nails... very nice!!! To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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You know what they say about paying for companions. You don't pay for the sex, you pay for them to leave afterwards.  Your nails are so purdy! I like the toe ring too! It looks a little tight, you may be choking that little piggy out! 
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You're nails look very pretty!! I keep mine very long, I like them that way like when I'm holding a cock, if one comes available I pay for myself, and often for both when I go out, so I don't owe anybody anything, even less sex!!! WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING
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When I see the reference to "freaky", I go no further. Major turn off. Maybe because I don't qualify for freaky and I find it to be the most unsexy reference there is.
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Nice storytelling, as always. Surprise to read this, though: What baffles me are the men who will not pay for sex, I mean absolutely refuse because, “I don’t pay for sex!” Why not? You know us men. It's all about the fragile ego. What they real mean is: "Paying is for losers. Guys with no game. Fat guys. Ugly guys. Desperate guys. Married guys. Not me! I'm a player! I got more game than Milton-Bradley. Girl please, I get more ass than I know what to do with! Shiii'iitt can't believe I even have to break it down for you like that." Or some such sentiment. But that's why we get all crazy when you suggest we pay for it. Paying's for chumps!
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Thanks for the insight into nail beauty culture. What are those black things though? I love the ironic way your observations about people complaining turns into a complaint about people not paying for sex. It was worth the read alone for the phrase 'good, regular maintenance sex as a basis'. That's not easy to find as so many people are hoping for a partner who will go further than that. It's a bit like kids at football trials – to get picked they have to show all their tricks! Read my blog here guy4frot
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I've paid for drinks, dinner, hotel rooms - does that count? I have a lot of sympathy for men who write "are there any real people out there" posts. When you start out on the site (as a man) it is incredibly difficult to communicate with women. Very few "real" women view profiles, they just wait to be asked - now that would be OK if men realized how bad the competition is. When you start why would you know that women are ignoring your emails because they get so many? Because women do just ignore emails, you have no way of knowing if they are real! All you know is that you're trying your hardest to talk, but nobody is listening. It's a peculiar form of rejection that takes some getting used to. And the only women who do view, flirt or hotlist are fakes. Hence the "too many fakes" posts 
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Yeah they probably do need to see a "professional."  Vive La Difference
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BiggLala wrote: (I know YOU know that...it seems some others...don't)  You made another interesting comment I wanted to pick up on. It occurred to me that all the complaining a lot of men do is fruitless and actually counterproductive I'm not sure if you were referring to its overall affect on blogland but it made me think about the impression they're making. For example, one guy recently posted about the lack of replies or simple "thanks, but no thanks." He claimed to be a nice person who could respect such a choice BUT THEN went on and accused women who didn't reply as being impolite, ill-mannered and inconsiderate. Oh, yeah, that's productive.  This one > [post 3841575]
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BiggLala wrote: I'll check it out ... ... I understand things can frustrate us, but it's a huge turn off...especially, when most people bring their own frustrations on themselves. True story. No need to go out of your way; I just wanted to confirm we were on the same sheet. The sad truth is that these "nice guys" are either hypocrites or fakes. They can talk themselves up all they want but the contemptuous, judgemental tone used to describe their disappointment belies their true nature. And not only are women turned off by such duplicity, they can sense it. To paraphrase a wise blogger from OK, these guys have no one to blame but themselves.
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LOL re: Pending Approval. At least you prefaced your comments with a *snark* alert. Brilliant question, though: If she's rude, why do you care? The "Pissed" guy seems classic narcissist, i.e. if you don't agree with me then there's a problem with YOU. Pfft!  It's a waste of time trying to reason with them--they NEED to be right. It's a compulsion.Symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, from mayoclinic.org: Having an exaggerated sense of self-importance Expecting to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it Exaggerating your achievements and talents Being preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate Believing that you are superior and can only be understood by or associate with equally special people Requiring constant admiration Having a sense of entitlement Expecting special favors and unquestioning compliance with your expectations Taking advantage of others to get what you want Having an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others Being envious of others and believing others envy you Behaving in an arrogant or haughty manner
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So first things first: in this area the local commercials pronounce it more like: jagwaar (coworker went off on a mini-rant about that again today....  )As for the complaining .... yeah it abounds both genders, many individuals and to be honest I wouldn't be surprised if everyone has moments like that (though on the other hand some individuals only seem to have moments when they aren't complaining ) Then again I suppose I could join in the ranting too, but the only thing I can think to rant about is heartless uninformed anti-gun (are those last two adjectives redundant?) politicians, and unethical journalists (I'd ask if that was a redundant phrase too, but I'm sure there are more than a few that are ethical)....
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Paying for sex is generally illegal so there's that but I assume moreso it has to do with machismo - getting sex is secondary to getting women to have sex with you . Its like paying someone to be friend - it marks you as a failure as a person . My neighbor used to hook and it really annoyed me because the dudes coming to bang her for money used to 100% of the time throw fast food bags in my yard . Why the hell would you stuff your face with a quarter pounder right before you go get shaggy ? I listed to a podcast with the lady who started Hookers for Jesus the other day , I support her cause I guess but she was super annoying . Putting clients first by putting employees first, immediately after prioritizing fiscal responsibilities and leveraging profitability towards exceeding by empowering our employees to put clients (and themselves) first, in a diverse and respectful environment of only those that come first, first.
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Speaking as a professional (Sex Coach and Domina), you are right, sugah! Do you know how many 28-year-old guys write to me hoping that I'll help them fulfill their fantasies? I say, "Baby, I am seeking a MAN who already knows how to give me what I want...not just what he wants."
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