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topherific 61M
5209 posts
12/12/2016 11:49 am

shared common experience brings a level of intimacy that a much younger lover lacks but then a hot set of perky tits and a high tight butt but i still prefer someone closer to my age(with perky tits and a high tight butt)


coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
12/12/2016 12:04 pm

The women I have been with have ranged in age from 19-82. All were true experiences.

Be safe, relax and just have fun!


ford91pu 68M  
63 posts
12/12/2016 12:15 pm

I have always had a thing for older women. Back in college, I had the pleasure of have sexual relations with a woman who was in her 40's. She was much more experienced and taught me how to please a woman and how to keep her coming back for more. I still use these techniques today at my age and I have no problems having a lover who is in her 30's - 40's. And yes, I have had a woman who was in her early 70's here recently and believe me, she could still keep up and by looking at her you would never guess she was 73.

age is just a number, its what is between the ears that counts.


benard69 66M/66F  

12/12/2016 12:18 pm

Mature...Especially women are always the Best Lovers!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
12/12/2016 12:19 pm

I have to share this with you, some of the younger men got it going on and it sounds like you really like each other so I say throw caution to the wind and go for it. I mean seriously what do you have to loose..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
12/12/2016 12:26 pm

For me, it is always about the chemistry, never about the age gap, whichever direction. I sometimes liked older women when I was younger - up to and beyond ten years as I remember. Less so lately I admit.

But always, it is about how she brings out the best in me, or a part of me I want to explore. What her thoughts and opinions are, whether she has a zest for life, whether she cares about things and in what way. How I feel when I am with her, how we "click" together.


Endlesspassion79 49M
152 posts
12/12/2016 12:29 pm

I generally try to stick to about 10 years difference, just because for most people that's where the generation gap starts to show. This isn't a hard rule but rather a guideline. It really depends on the person as an individual and how you connect with them. I have ran into people on this site that are in their sixties that act like children and I have met people in their twenties that are wise beyond their years. you have your preference but it is nice that you see people as individuals also. Great post! and I agree,
I feel older women have an incredible amount to offer! I think that every young guy should take the chance and experience a beautiful sexy older lady!


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
12/12/2016 12:51 pm

I kinda get what you are saying here, but I've got to admit it bothers me a little bit. You and I are about the same age. To be sure I don't have a lot of the baggage I had at 25 or even 30, but that doesn't mean that I'm better than a woman that age or that she's better than me. It's just different.

As women, we need to reject the patriarchal thinking that breaks us apart by creating false divisions. We need to be supporting and praising each other as women, not sniping over who's better in the sack. I'm a little sad you'd go to this place as I generally thought of you as someone who celebrates sexuality

Lately and especially here on Meelp, we are the ones in demand.We got it all going on and yes we are still sexy as Hell both in body and in attitude.
And this is definitely isn't true don't forget that on a site like this the men who comment on our blogs and send us messages are generally going to be people who are liking what we bring. I'm going to get primarily guys who like middle aged women with big boobs, you're going to get men who like athletic middle aged women.

But even if you look at the blogs here, let a 24 year old post topless pictures and "her milkshake brings all the boys to the yard". It's the same on any dating site or if you walk into a club, party or anywhere people meet.

Fortunately for you and I, we might be the spring chickens on the block anymore but there are enough men who appreciate what we bring to the party to keep us busy


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
12/12/2016 1:02 pm

I prefer men in my age bracket. 10 years in either direction is fine but beyond that we lose a certain shared frame of reference that I find makes for good conversation and an innate understanding of who we are.

plus, an older man recognizes the benefits of an older woman....the experience, the wisdom, the grace, the patience, the knowledge.

and we probably both see less clearly........snork

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
12/12/2016 1:31 pm

Within reason age is just a number, older does not mean more experienced, curious, attentive etc. My boyfriends were older then me, at 21 married a 21 year, my first around my age. he was first to hit my gspot, happened once in 13 years. kept thinking he is young and will learn, recovery took week, at the end sex once a year.
At 34, I had 21 year old lover, I was his second partner. He was my first true lover, together we learned, that I can cum from oral sex,multi orgasms, squirting, and he could go again right away. His curiosity, energy, need to touch matched mine.
Within reason age is just a number.


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
12/12/2016 1:48 pm

For me it's not so much an age or generational thing, more to do with communication.

Good luck, whichever path you choose


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
12/12/2016 1:58 pm

Sexual relationship is part physical, part mental and largely chemical. Meaning the attraction is in the mind as well as the body.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
12/12/2016 2:20 pm

I do see where you are coming from.I know if I was being wooed by a younger individual it would be an awakening experience.I tend to believe that all women your age are on the same kick of dismantling and blowing the doors off the notion that men are the only ones where this is socially acceptable.
I am glad you wrote this .It's what I needed to make the decision to stop looking.Most women my age do't have the guts to tell it like it is for fear of hurting peoples feelings so they'll continue to lie that they aren't looking for younger
people.It's always nice to know ahead of time who to stay away from.
Living at this time with such a radical change in attitudes is kind of like
winning the lottery and on the same day being told you have two weeks to live.

Using more than all the road!


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
12/12/2016 2:50 pm

    Quoting sunnygirl129:
    I've only been with one man who was older than I, and that was my darling husband who passed away several years ago. I discovered Meelp after he died, and jumped in - on an uninformed whim, never in a million years expecting to have all the exceptional relationships that I've had since joining. (or to still be here, all these years later!) For the first year or so, I rejected all the young men who wrote me, telling me how much they fantasize about older women. I thought they were yanking my chain! One guy was persistent, although he was not at all pushy. When I finally agreed to meet him for a beer, I warned him that nothing sexual was going to happen between us. He told me that he didn't care. He was happy just to meet for a beer, but then he asked why I was so certain that nothing sexual was going to happen. I told him that he was way too young. (20 years younger) Well, we ended up having a 4 year relationship! It wasn't exclusive, but we spent a ton of time together. Not only was it fun sexually, but he challenged me physically on demanding hikes and bike rides. (I drew the line at spelunking, though!) We cooked together, went for road trips, went out on the town, etc. He met my kids. (My kids were amused, as he was only one year older than my oldest son.) My kids were happy for me, given the tragic circumstances of their dad's death.

    At any rate, I'm not into guys that young any longer, but my first young friend opened the door to others after him. I have had many lovers 5-10 years younger, and I have found that guys in that age range have nothing on younger guys when it comes to experience in lovemaking. I've been amazed at how skilled and sensual young men are. Much more so than when I was dating in college.

    The other problem, if you will, with guys my age and older is that they tend to get very clingy very quickly. Many are still searching for a life long love. My husband was my life long love and in spite of the beautiful relationships that I've enjoyed since his death, falling in love has simply never happened again for me. I don't expect that it ever will, although I'm still a *tiny* bit hopeful.

    BTW, although I'm in good shape, I am definitely NOT unwrinkled, but it hasn't dissuaded my (former) young lovers from taking me out in public.

    So - I say - you've made the connection with this guy. I'm guessing that the sex will be phenomenal! (How's that for a long-winded response!?)
I love this comment, and it echoes my own view albeit in a very different way.


cwazywabbit009 59M
6313 posts
12/12/2016 2:52 pm

The majority of my "friends" have been younger but the most sexually charged was with a friend who was a few years older than me. Her confidence was intoxicating, as was her body. The half age +7 rule is interesting. Best of luck with your decision

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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
12/12/2016 3:38 pm

Oh... I demand you to tie me up....sexy legs!! WOW!!MMMMMMMMMMMM!!!


scott6250 61M

12/12/2016 5:27 pm

Well said my friend!!!! Happy Monday!!!

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
12/12/2016 5:34 pm

Well, Mick Jagar just fathered a baby again at age 73!


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
12/12/2016 8:10 pm

I am much more youthful looking than my age, so I hope I'm not being passed on because I'm 47. I prefer women close to my age, but I would say 25-60 is my current range.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
12/12/2016 8:11 pm

thanks for the post Joy...

I guess I'm going to have to learn how to read braille...

as many times as I've addressed these kinds of questions, with the types and ages of women...

I really need to explore that deaf, dumb & blind woman with big tits who wants to fuck my brains out... I think that there would be so much less drama... and I wouldn't have to fake being interested in small talk... and, yet... I am a chatty cathy, for what it's worth... but, still...

you would have to think that there would be so much less to deal with... i could watch the football game (Canadian or NF, baseball or cricket... whatever, and all to my heart's content...

I'm not sayin' that i wouldn't be communicative... it's just that I could filter it to my own needs...

oh hope that doesn't sound too shallow or selfish...

but, it does kinda narrow the field alot...

thanks for the post...

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proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
12/13/2016 12:39 am

All that you are saying is very true actually
But our choices may vary ,depending on the circumstances my lady

All I can say, is that I am thankful for the possibilities of choice that I have now

CHeers - P


scoupe42 60M

12/13/2016 2:53 am

Maybe having a younger person might be good for sex, bu I had the same younger person use me, then they left me for a younger person. To me the best sex is with someone in my age group 2 to 4 years younger or a couple of years older.


Story435 76M
3791 posts
12/13/2016 5:57 am

Hi Joy
My gf that I had is 14 years younger than I am. I guess we never though of her being that much younger than me. We had a very good time together could talk about anything. The sex was awesome we did it all wow!
I have though about a girl much younger had two that wanted to go out with me they were in their mid 30's but never did go out with them. I think it would be good to try one much younger just one time to see.
Butch


PyschoLoco 61M
1550 posts
12/13/2016 6:00 am

You little cougar, you Rules are made to be broken, especially self imposed ones As long as he doesn't have skid marks on his tightie whities, I say go for it. The way the world's heading, have as much fun as you can while you can Another thing about being older is we don't beat ourselves up over mistakes as much as we did when we were younger, unless they're senior moment related. Are you aware that Muslim men use the same formula for their wives as you do for your cubs ? The age thing,I mean.

Standards are people too.....kinda


scoupe42 60M

12/13/2016 11:09 am

If it just sex only relationship, enjoy it to the max!


studbird2000 58M  
1150 posts
12/14/2016 7:58 pm

thats one lovely joy box {=}


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