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pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
7/24/2017 4:28 am

This is so perfect and I truly hope the males on here read and "Get It". Perfectly stated- Thank You

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TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
7/24/2017 5:57 am

Many many good points here! (and a few points heading your way too) Perhaps some of the more-read ladies could pimp it so that the men who might NEED it can find it!

I can count on one hand the number of men who even KNOW there are blogs here. I think the majority of local American men access this site on their phone and the mobile version doesn't even show them.

The name part is key.... being vague is a HUGE turnoff. I just recently asked a guy where he lived and he said "The Philadelphia area." That's like saying "The greater Mid-Atlantic region." Oy.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/24/2017 6:40 am

One thing I've found is when I talk to a woman I've met here they usually complain about the "whiny bitches", dick pics, and weird vibes. I figure those guys actually make it easier for me because they instantly eliminate themselves from the competition. If half the guys are like that our odds become vastly better. So I say "keep on whining boys! ! !"

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
7/24/2017 7:31 am

Great advice...I think you covered it pretty well!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
7/24/2017 11:14 am

Great read and insight. If this was a message board, this would be a "sticky" for all the men to read.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
7/24/2017 3:06 pm

doing the research, no dick pic, etc all really good points. I hope men read this.

about the comb over. don't just block it in the photo, cut it off. i'd prefer a bald man to a comb over any day. way sexier. WAY sexier.

now I think i'll read some of your other stuff......

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/24/2017 3:42 pm

Popped over from Lala's - great post! I'm laughing at "Your wife didn't dress you to be attractive to other women". Good point.

As far as what men should put in their profile....

Bragging about how great they are at sex & how considerate they are of their partner - most of us will assume that's a lie

Sexual interests are kinda boring unless you have something non-standard like an interest in BDSM.

Agreed that the need for "discretion" is a huge red flag.

Basically I'm interested in knowing a thing or two about their OTHER interests. Because I don't really want to have sex with someone unless they're halfway interesting.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/24/2017 6:59 pm

Lala sent me: You nailed it, especially with the blog advice. I've pretty much limited myself to the blogger women - they seem the genuine and sincere ones here.

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
7/26/2017 5:25 am

    Quoting  :

Well it's great that you pay attention and take the "advice" and info we give, some men don't!

Good luck and thanks.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
9/27/2017 3:42 pm

Bravo!! You hit the nail on the head in so many places, Been here for more than 5 years, a fine place, you just have to be careful... I just cant figure it out, I have Straight all over my profile, I get bombarded with the "dick pictures" , first If you cant read my profile before you interrupt my CAM, I don't have any use for the picture or you... and when you come on with your shit and not even say "hello" , glad there is a ban button..

To gain the attention of some of the ladies here is sometimes a formidable task, as you have said show some respect, not only to her but in your own actions, you got you eye on this prize and you go about the site plastering rude and crude comments on other's photos, you think she doesn't see this? Wake up , just about all see all, and once you have this name of Mr. Crude or Mr Rude, you have just about lost any hope,, Just as you say, be polite, be respectful, be considerate, I consider my self to be one of the lucky ones here, to see my story see my blog..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
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BrandNewMoves 41M/43F
26 posts
10/16/2017 2:15 am

You didn't mention #6.

"Write blog post where you not only give a tutorial on how males on this site can improve their success with women, but make sure to be hilarious about it."

Seems like you got quite a bit of positive feedback from the female population already with tip #6... maybe you left it off your list to keep your competitive edge?

LOL

Jk, great blog, hope some guys read, follow and get the same result!

Mrs. BNM{=}
BrandNewMoves


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/23/2017 4:24 pm

NIce post.
Reasonable and informative.

I hope it helps those that need it.

I'm personally entertained by men that act like whiny bitches. HAHA!!!

Later




whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
11/11/2017 4:56 pm

Man, I got to say this is some excellent advice! I even think I could make some improvements myself on my own pictures and profile. Thanks again for posting this!

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


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Cheekyminx39 46F  
7 posts
11/18/2017 6:02 am

Very well said!

It is difficult for men to find someone on-line especially if they cant be bothered with a picture or decent profile in the first place. Expecting someone to be interested in a vague description of themselves is simply ludicrous.
I have been told numerous times that my profile hasn't been read and as long as they feel they're what I'm looking for, shouldn't be a problem.

Men really should pay heed to what women say and to what you have written if they truly wish to succeed!

Peace and love to all x


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
11/21/2017 3:37 am

Bookmarked


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