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PinkScorpio3 54F  
5 posts
6/27/2017 4:43 pm

It's a simple change to make. Go into My Account (upper right hand of screen)
Scroll down just barely to 2nd update field. Update location.

I think you'll be able to get it from there...good luck and safe travels!


s2ndegree 60M  
8712 posts
6/27/2017 5:35 pm

I couldn't give you an exact number but I know it's over at least 4 dozen
profiles and blog rants I have read in the last 3 months that absolutely abhor the
the guy that's passing through town and tries to look members up for "{playtime."
And I quote "What's with these guys thinking were with whores are us!"
I say three months but I've been here for over three years. So believe what I am telling you.You wanted advice. Good luck!

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pocogato12 66F  
25667 posts
6/27/2017 6:24 pm

I can see from your profile you already accomplished part of your mission. It says you're located in Asheville NC but the body says sunny California. Personally,
and I might speak for some of the other profiles on here- trust and respect are biggies and you do not give me that impression. I wouldn't meet you period not even for a drink!!
There's an airline attendant who posts her flight city schedule every week- that's dumb in my personal opinion.

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porterpiper1 52F
3739 posts
6/27/2017 9:19 pm

just let other members know thur blogs that you are traveling on this date in their town and if they want to get together message you, or message the people you are interested in and let them know you will be in their town on a certain dates, simple

BiggLala 47F  
25503 posts
6/28/2017 8:05 am

I have my personal opinion on this, which I'll keep to myself and just answer your question. The first respondent was somewhat correct about changing your zip code. You'll show up in those folk's search results. You can also search by the zip code of where you're traveling without completely changing your locale. Then message the people who interest you.

As Pocogato said, some (many) won't be interested. However, some people might be especially depending on how you present the situation. For example, if you just got to town and THEN send messages, my guess is that you won't find many, if any people interested. However, say you know a month in advance that you're traveling somewhere. Start sending messages to people as soon as you know your schedule. Let the person(s) know you'd like to begin a dialogue to establish a comfort level and then (if things go well) have dinner. That's it...just suggest dinner. It's assumed sex is a 'hope', but you don't want to put pressure on the person to think dinner is just a formality and that you expect sex in return.

You might also think about searching to see if there are bloggers in the area to which you're traveling. Someone who'd be willing to have an evening out with (hopefully) nice company and conversation. Whatever (might) happen after that depends on chemistry.

Good luck and safe travels!

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