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Wantingsexymind2 48F  
12660 posts
9/11/2017 9:20 pm

Oh lordy, how rude! I will never understand the need some of these characters have to be so hateful, it is not charming, funny or even entertaining. I see the negativity in the blogs makes me weary, and I often just take long breaks from this site because of it.

"She had a way of making you look at things differently. A way of making you close your eyes and see with your heart." JmStorm
"Her love happened to me a hundred times at once, in a thousand different ways, in a million different colours" Atticus

papis_baby_girl 41F  
4970 posts
9/11/2017 9:25 pm

You must be The Amazing Kreskin to figure all that out.

"The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say."
-Anais Nin

"I am big, it's the pictures that got small!"
-Norma Desmond

Here2plzunaw 29M
22 posts
9/11/2017 9:27 pm

I love reading these kinds of blogs. Mostly, because sometimes it is another woman, who is getting less attention than you, that uses a mans profile to belittle you in anyway. Though, there are a lot of guys who also do it and I think the number one reason for them to be doing that is because they want you and can't have you or because you do not give them enough attention.

I am sure every guy, maybe even gal, has had a fantasy to be with a naughty and gorgeous English teacher.

rick315875 60M  
7145 posts
9/11/2017 9:36 pm

He explains himself with every comment. It reflects how he feels about himself. Everything he says is a direct reflection on how he feels about himself. That's how it works with regards to negative comments. It reflects one's self.

. . .

cumblaster7766 26M
97 posts
9/11/2017 10:26 pm

thats not nice

BiggLala 47F  
25511 posts
9/11/2017 10:27 pm

Oh my, he's charming. 😳 At least my two charmers this week (I only posted about the one) were literate. I always wonder what gets these types of males so riled up that their egos are so bruised. Is it really that bad, dude? 🤔

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Wantingsexymind2 48F  
12660 posts
9/11/2017 10:55 pm

    Quoting  :

I nearly choked on my ice water when I read this!!

"She had a way of making you look at things differently. A way of making you close your eyes and see with your heart." JmStorm
"Her love happened to me a hundred times at once, in a thousand different ways, in a million different colours" Atticus

113 posts
9/11/2017 10:58 pm

i would punch out a man if i ever herd that in public in public and i always say treat people how you want to be treated

Wantingsexymind2 48F  
12660 posts
9/11/2017 11:03 pm

    Quoting  :

I understand! I have been on and off this site for 15 years and I originally joined for the adult chatrooms, the one I liked was the "clean room" but jealousies and personality conflicts caused so many problems it became a shit show instead of the fun it once had been. I deleted that account and left this site for years, when I eventually came back I joined the blogs. There are the same issues no matter where you interact, large groups of people are just not going to mesh well together "all of the time". Especially on this site!!

When I start to see the negative personalities stirring up....I just take a break from here because I have no interest in participating in it or reading it for that matter. I'd rather read a good book! **giggles

"She had a way of making you look at things differently. A way of making you close your eyes and see with your heart." JmStorm
"Her love happened to me a hundred times at once, in a thousand different ways, in a million different colours" Atticus

Readmoreofeveryt 46F

9/12/2017 12:09 am

Who did that? Let me at em!!!! However I like your responses! made me smile.

s2ndegree 60M  
8880 posts
9/12/2017 12:21 am

It must be the formaldehyde in
his second hand FEMA trailer!

Using more than all the road!

iwant2lickuthere 51M
3442 posts
9/12/2017 2:42 am

Hmm.. That shows the power of the internet. Here I can be anyone, say anything and act any way I want. Sadly for some it's like alcohol, the inhibitions are lifted and we can see what a miserable human being they really are. Such a pity.

cdkathy_1 58M
342 posts
9/12/2017 5:05 am

I'm sorry you have to put up with a asshat like him. Your blog is very good and entertaining, please don't let the few ruin it.

GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1745 posts
9/12/2017 6:57 am

It does get tiring getting messages from what I call a man/child and using the word man is usually a big

With some, the frail male ego can't handle the rejection and they feel the need to attack. It usually resorts, as you've illustrated, in verbal abuse and name calling. It's worse when they can't spell, have really crappy grammar or are just plain

Most I will just delete with no response, but occasionally I will clap back with some much deserved

These guys need to learn how to take rejection like a real man...but sadly it is never gonna happen! Or here's a thought...learn how to treat and speak to a woman correctly, and perhaps they won't get so much rejection. Sadly again, it is beyond the capabilities of some men...and they will never learn, nor care to!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL

_JKH_ 65M
5450 posts
9/12/2017 9:21 am

He's a chump.

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powercaps716 62M
9593 posts
9/12/2017 10:31 am

it's ashamed that people are so jealous , it's not nice at all

flaguy522 63M  
1438 posts
9/12/2017 3:11 pm

Good job on replying back to him. Some people are just not open to improving themselves.

bigblackman21221 48M  
4094 posts
9/12/2017 5:00 pm

I'm glad you didn't let that crazy bullshit get to you.
I get that type of stuff too but I find it hilarious.
I love the way you responded.

Just keep in mind that some of these people are only doing it to get attention from you.

redmercury1969 49M
114 posts
9/12/2017 6:34 pm

Thanks for the translation because he's really hard work. Glad I don't know him.
Not sure I would have got this one, 'drudge out itches'
Loving the phrase, white trash loser skank.

time4phun 59M
32 posts
9/12/2017 7:47 pm

Sorry to hear that you had to endure that, but it seems that there are those on this site who are just miserable want to spread their own misery upon others. The other is that such an ahole can be pretty bold on-line....there is really little cost to that person. A cyber coward's way out since that idiot in public - face to face with the person that they are confronting would probably wet their Depends. They are just not worth the bother, but can be very annoying which is the kind of attention that they are looking for. But I still worship you - does that count??

crypticxd 28M
77 posts
9/12/2017 9:44 pm

Reading what he was saying gave me a headache with me trying to piece together what raggedy pieces of English words he used to stitch together a coherent sentence.

I think his anger stems from a level of frustration and entitlement believing that he can have sex with any women he wants. When he is rejected, those emotions explodes in senseless rage and the only way to make himself feel better is through demeaning and belittling others. Shame.

sacto95825 51M
85 posts
9/13/2017 1:24 pm

Dear Blonde Rambler,

I just wanted to write to say, well handled that guy. It reminded me of Katy Tur's "wave and smile" response when called out by Trump.

On feeling afraid of the crowd at the rally in Mount Pleasant, S.C., after Donald Trump called her out by name - Trump (the one with the BIG HANDS) calls her little Katy ....

"I just remember thinking, Smile and wave. Because if you smile at them and you wave, I had learned up to this point, then you diminish the tension, you diffuse the situation, you mitigate it. Because if you look intimidated, if you look scared, people will take advantage, and people will push hard. ... I had felt uneasy before then, here and there, but that day I thought, This is taking it too far."

So wave and smile ...

Cheers - and congrats on a job well done.

On second thought ... I would get the guy Strunk and White's "Elements of Style" - it might be wasted on that mind, but he might read it, because one of the author's name is WHITE after all.

James35636 69M
48 posts
9/13/2017 2:06 pm

Listening to all the comments made me think of other possible scenarios....Do you think the guy was getting off with his rant?....he has no other way to communicate with woman he finds attractive....sad...and dangerous...hopefully no one falls for that approach.

Sorry just a thought and the fingers kept on typing.

passtheorb 43M/57M  
31 posts
9/13/2017 4:22 pm

"You only know what you know, Son." - Dad

Fascinating what people release out of their head when big emotions take over - love or fear. The only way others can see inside your head is by the words you attach to an emotion. The more words you know to arrange is most helpful. The words in your head are the words you read and hear everyday. You are limited to those words while communicating with others.

Either, he thinks himself as a "self degrading white skank"; which makes him insecure. Or, he knows a "skank" personally; venting his frustration on you. Regardless, IMaySayYes, you are not that "skank". You are a random AFFer he feels inferior to. Enjoy that.

Though, I suspect, it has something to do with you being hot AF and him being a toad.

BitchInHeatMd 43F  
35 posts
9/15/2017 8:50 pm

I think we all get stuff like that hon. I certainly do.

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