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5/16/2017 8:51 am |
Yes we love our friends...They're a Gift!
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That's an interesting philosophy. I might suggest that some friends can show you more love than some blood family.
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though provoking question; i have several very close friends; the girls are attractive, but i think of them like a sister.
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Definition of love: “An intense feeling of deep affection.” .... No , by adding the adjective , "Intense", that says infatuation. Love doesn't really exist. We are just feeling closer to those we feel more loyal to, and likewise, those who are more loyal to us. Mostly this is just a higher level of "Like" [or aka: attach bonding]. For example , your dog is extremely loyal to you , more than your wife would be. Blood love ... "Blood loyalty". And of course this is regulated by distance. The closer the proximity and daily contact, the stronger the bond. Eventually children leave the "Nest". Some move far, some stay close. and love by marriage ... No, you have just married a person who has shown more loyalty to you than she/he would show to someone else. This is often after the phase of infatuation, although sometimes after infatuation, no actual loyalty may exist there at all. But, per Nature, a biological fulfillment was satisfied. and love of family pets loyal to the end. ... Exactly. "Loyal to the end". This is why on a totem of closeness would go: a dog would rank at the top, then a wife, then any children, then a cat. Or, ....a dog at the top, then your husband, children , cat. Who would be the expected to bail on you , or more accurately, place their loyalty elsewhere? Easily a cat would turn on you in a heartbeat. Children move on to seek loyal companions of their own. Your spouse would flip on you if someone better comes along, but your dog, is there to stay to the end. We do not love our friends. ... You like your friends, you like-better those friends who are more loyal to you than other friends. To reserve love for family and each other is part of the way we prioritize others in our life. ... "Love" doesn't exist. What you're doing is prioritizing "Loyalty" among those in your inner circle, median circles, and then your outer circle. Others can and do love their friends. ... Often you might find this higher loyalty attachment to a friend or friends, when distance is greater from the inner circle.
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no, don't love them. like some of them a lot but its not love.
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I know it's sad, but I don't really have any friends, just lots of acquaintances. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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