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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

It's 3 a.m.....  

secret_lade 49F
14388 posts
8/6/2020 12:11 am
It's 3 a.m.....

Of course I'm waking a cat fight outside my bedroom window.

A literal.... Cat fight.

Want talk scary, here?

How about having it incorporate itself into your dream!

So, here I sit now, heart beating fast, shaking just a hair, with that bad dream cycling through my mind still.

Egads...

I may never sleep again.

It's moments like this when I miss the comfort of living with someone else. Moments when you can wake , in the middle of the night, and just snuggle close someone when your feeling scared or insecure.

jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
8/6/2020 9:49 pm

 relatable


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/6/2020 5:17 pm
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I haven't heard a cat fight in years, which is amazing because we have so many cats in my neighborhood.
Lucky you... It's got to be the most ungodly sound on earth... My half awake self thought I was being overtaken by demons when I first woke up. LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/6/2020 5:14 pm
    Quoting  :
Nope... I never was able to fall back to sleep. I've literally been up since about 2am. I like your new hair, btw.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/6/2020 5:13 pm
    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Egads is a good word.......

    Which one won?

    I'm a really light sleeper, often find myself awake staring at the ceiling wondering what that horrible dream was about. That way where you're wishing daylight would hurry up and come.

    Here's a wee hug from Scotland McLade, and a wee keek up ma kilt!
Well thank you! I needed a hug. I'm a bizarre mixture of heavy sleeper that can't stay asleep. Most nights I'm out before my head hits the pillow then wake up around 1 or 2 for a few hours.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/6/2020 5:09 pm
    Quoting citizen4722:
    Those cat fights can go on for hours!
    I'm having to close my bedroom window at night to keep the noise out at times.
    I hope those cats find somewhere else to fight
Is it that time of year that they are in heat? I don't normally hear that kind of stuff around here... It certainly scared the crap out of me.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
8/6/2020 9:35 am

 Those cat fights can go on for hours!
I'm having to close my bedroom window at night to keep the noise out at times.
I hope those cats find somewhere else to fight


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
8/6/2020 5:56 am

 Egads is a good word.......

Which one won?

I'm a really light sleeper, often find myself awake staring at the ceiling wondering what that horrible dream was about. That way where you're wishing daylight would hurry up and come.

Here's a wee hug from Scotland McLade, and a wee keek up ma kilt!


mc_justmc 63M

8/6/2020 4:51 am

 I haven't heard a cat fight in years, which is amazing because we have so many cats in my neighborhood.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/6/2020 3:18 am
    Quoting stringtime666:
    I hope you found someone here who could distract you a little?!
No.... but it's ok. I ended up just getting up, making coffee, and watching the news. Gives me a chance to read a few blogs and catch up.


stringtime666 62M
1128 posts
8/6/2020 2:15 am

 I hope you found someone here who could distract you a little?!
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secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
8/6/2020 1:53 am
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Cat fights just grate on the nerves, that's for sure!
    That snuggle you spoke of?
    It's worth listening to that cat fight if the cuddle is the reward. ❗
    I understand... 😶
I live in town, so I don't normally hear this stuff on a normal day. It totally scared the shit out of me. There's just nothing like waking up terrified and being terrified in that not quite awake state because you don't quite know what the fuck is going on. Needless to say, this is going to be a long day as falling back to sleep is not going to happen.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/6/2020 1:17 am

 Cat fights just grate on the nerves, that's for sure!
That snuggle you spoke of?
It's worth listening to that cat fight if the cuddle is the reward. ❗
I understand... 😶


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