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Oldmanaz2 60M
259 posts
5/11/2017 9:17 am

I think you example is spot on. Just about any female can look sexy if they choose the right attire ( in or out of the bedroom ). If that first sight releases the right hormones they the object is sexy.


BiggLala 47F  
25511 posts
5/11/2017 9:22 am

I think sexy is about attitude, and it's not something you try to be or do...it just is. Sexy is relative, and not necessarily based on what/who is attractive. I've seen many 'unattractive' men that I considered sexy as hell because of how they carried themselves.

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Resident_Bitch 102M/102F  
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5/11/2017 9:28 am

Lingerie doesn't automatically make someone 'sexy'.....wouldn't look good on me, but then, I saw a pic the other month of someone wearing a 'one size fits all', and it made her look like a man hiding penis, with balls hanging out.....she blamed the manufacturer, as her belief is 'curves and phat vagina' automatically makes her look better than slim women....

I don't consider myself either sexy or attractive, simply look good 'for my age' which is purely down to origins....




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BiggLala 47F  
25511 posts
5/11/2017 10:38 am

    Quoting  :

I don't understand how what I said translated to, "...trying to hard is definitely NOT sexy.", because I didn't say any of that. My point is trying to be sexy usually doesn't have the intended impact. I understand that viewing a one-dimensional photo we can think the image is sexy...especially depending on what the person is wearing or doing in the pic. However, does that mean the person IS sexy?

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Heathen_G 60M
6321 posts
5/11/2017 12:22 pm

What is sexy? ... Subjective. Whatever arouses you sexually, is sexy.

is Sexy the same as attractive? ... No, but "Sexy" is certainly a quality of being "Attractive".

I mean its all in your head what one person thinks is sexy another might find repulsive or at least not sexy. ... That's right. Your reaction to whatever you sense is "Sexy", is due to an "Imprint", that is stored in your brain. Think of "Imprint" as a file full of images, sounds, scents, tastes, texture, that attract you and repel you. These more pleasurable imprints cause you to be attracted -sexually- to certain people.

can someone or something be sexy WITHOUT being attractive? ..No.

I think so others may not. an example for me would be lingerie it can make just about anyone sexy BUT not necessarily attractive ...You "think" so [because that's your imprint], but I would disagree with "Lingerie can make just about anyone sexy", not going too happen.

For you, that might work, because it's part of your imprint. Like putting lipstick on a pig, it's not going to be attractive nor sexy, unless something in your imprint says "Pigs are attractive" , and "Lipstick is sexy".


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