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BiggLala 48F  
28222 posts
5/20/2017 8:27 pm

Then perhaps she's not for you in the first place. Most people know of the challenges with IM here, so if she's moving on that quickly or hasn't found a way to contact you (assuming she's not a new member and has a gold membership), she probably wasn't that interested.

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pocogato12 67F  
33190 posts
5/21/2017 7:31 am

The site has lots of problems and tech glitches. I happen to agree with Lala in that she should have found a way to reach out to you. You better move on or perhaps you should reach out to her( if you remember her handle)

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MissCinders 54F
1529 posts
5/21/2017 2:46 pm

Only two people that are gold members can contact each other. I cant contact a standard member via email. They can't open it. The only way is through IM and that is iffy at times. However, I do understand the glitches with it so if the IM stops working, I don't take it personally. Ive been here long enough to realize that. I, on the other hand, will not pay for a standard member to view profiles or whatever the site allows. It is not my problem that standard members can't view profiles. If I can pay, then so can everyone else. I hate when I get IMs and men try to make it my problem. It's not.

All I can say is keep trying to IM each other and hopefully they will re-connect. If all goes well, then exchange other personal information so they dont have to rely on this site to stay in touch.

LadyL1963letsfuc 56F  
41 posts
5/28/2017 10:26 am

I was paying for standard members to view and contact but many times they couldn't read the profile and could only view a few pics. If I am talking with someone on the I.M. and I am interested I will send a friend request just so we don't lose touch. Sorry that you had a hard time . LL{=}

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