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marriedcretin 48M
1133 posts
7/29/2017 5:46 am

Now hold on a moment! I know that if I stomped up to a woman and said "me beer, you naked" then I would get a resounding ding round the ear! But if I siddle up and say "darling, you look lovely tonight, wouldn't it be nice if we shared some special cuddles" then the chance for special cuddles might improve.
And may I suggest that you women are masters at not saying what you mean...I know that if she says "fine" to a request that means no. And if I ask what's wrong and she says nothing, then it actually means yes, there is something wrong but if you are too stupid to not know what is wrong then I'm not going to help you.

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classicalrebel4 63M  
1244 posts
7/29/2017 9:00 am

New Zealand women must be different from American women.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


BiggLala 46F  
24866 posts
7/29/2017 11:00 am

Men don't say what they mean either, so poor communication is not gender specific. Both genders expect the other to read their minds and know what they mean instead of just talking directly.

One would think by a certain age people would develop some emotional maturity and emotional intelligence to communicate...it seems not.

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marriedcretin 48M
1133 posts
7/29/2017 12:57 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Men don't say what they mean either, so poor communication is not gender specific. Both genders expect the other to read their minds and know what they mean instead of just talking directly.

    One would think by a certain age people would develop some emotional maturity and emotional intelligence to communicate...it seems not.
We're men,. We weren't put on this planet to obtain emotional maturity. I have a penis therefore I am. Qed.

Often its quite hard to communicate what you want as folk are afraid. Afraid that people will judge them, afraid it will effect the status quo. If I had a mistress and one day I dared to ask for anal sex, it could go two ways. Three ways. She could say yes and enjoy it, yes because she feels obligated, no and we never speak of it, or no and you're sick I never want to have sex with you again. Ok, that was four ways...
So me asking for anal could lead to no sex at all, so I don't ask as I'm reasonably happy with the way it is. As a poor communicator I don't know which outcome will happen so I don't ask and communication goes down hill. As a nerd, my decision making process is very flow chart oriented. I don't really understand humans but I've learnt enough to be able to function in society from watching and learning. But oddly, the anal question isn't often discussed and the few drunken conversations have lead to all four results being displayed.
I'm not sure what I'm trying to say with that other than that true open communication is quite difficult.


BiggLala 46F  
24866 posts
7/29/2017 4:10 pm

    Quoting marriedcretin:
    We're men,. We weren't put on this planet to obtain emotional maturity. I have a penis therefore I am. Qed.

    Often its quite hard to communicate what you want as folk are afraid. Afraid that people will judge them, afraid it will effect the status quo. If I had a mistress and one day I dared to ask for anal sex, it could go two ways. Three ways. She could say yes and enjoy it, yes because she feels obligated, no and we never speak of it, or no and you're sick I never want to have sex with you again. Ok, that was four ways...
    So me asking for anal could lead to no sex at all, so I don't ask as I'm reasonably happy with the way it is. As a poor communicator I don't know which outcome will happen so I don't ask and communication goes down hill. As a nerd, my decision making process is very flow chart oriented. I don't really understand humans but I've learnt enough to be able to function in society from watching and learning. But oddly, the anal question isn't often discussed and the few drunken conversations have lead to all four results being displayed.
    I'm not sure what I'm trying to say with that other than that true open communication is quite difficult.
Ahhh, as I said people (women AND men) are poor communicators.

What I find a shame is that so many men choose to be cave men instead of improving their communication skills to get what they want. Of course, that might present a fifth possibility with that anal discussion....she tells you to bend over. At least that's what I'd do if I had my strapon handy.

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