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Just a thought  

MissDReid 36F
0 posts
5/18/2018 1:04 am
Just a thought


Well, I abandoned my little experiment. It's honestly a lot of work talking to everybody! Ha. Everyone was onto me anyway after my last blog post. Apparently some do read these ramblings...

And I'm currently working 6 or 7 days a week, so your girl has no time for this mess.

Speaking of messes - I have noticed just a lot more hostility from the men on this site lately. I'm not sure what it's about... It's always been there with some of the more aggro bros, but fuck if I'm not seeing it everyday now.

It's even coming from my home state. Coloradans are pretty chill in general, but a guy today messages me and just says "Hey there sexy." I reply "Hola" which is pretty innocuous in my opinion. He replies "Fuck off!" ... But... But... You were the one who started this conversation?

I've got a friend who reaps the benefit of the gaping social niceties these boys lack. He is just kind to the women on here and he cleans up! You guys seem to always message me like THIS SITE DOESN'T WORK!
Mmmmmmmmmm I think it might be you, not the site...

charles20032003 61M
37 posts
5/18/2018 1:17 am


Romephius 47M
182 posts
5/18/2018 1:43 am

I'm nice and honest and all I seem to find is cam girls looking to grind as much money as they can, fair enough, that's what they choose to do. The non-cam women, well, apparently if I'm not aggressive as hell, well, I'm not manly enough for them. The funniest part about it though, is that the same women complain that they only find dickheads. I think there are many fundamental problems with people now days. I truly hope you find more of the chill and relaxed guys you're looking for (in whatever capacity) and that they don't get to you.

P.S. The women I'm referring to are Australian, based around my area.

Take care, have fun and all my best to you.


oldbstrd55 67M
3292 posts
5/18/2018 5:45 am

Maybe the guy is so use to getting rejected right away and throws that out for an automatic response.


wd40w 71M
6966 posts
5/18/2018 10:54 am

It's the age of "instant gratification"..."I want it now..."...It's ridiculous...This site is whatever you want it to be...What you put into it...Is what you'll get out of it for the most part...There is always going to be a "Fly in the ointment"...Unfortunately...Testosterone poisoning is a awful thing...I'll be in the Garage...

"Illigitimi Non Carborundum Est" W.F. "Bull" Halsey wd40w


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
5/18/2018 2:41 pm

All guys get rejected, alot! If they dont get used to it, they become the guys in the towers with guns ! But, as to hostility on the net, frankly I understand some of it. With all the sites getting hacked, and the probs it causes those affected to repair, the sites themselves changing policies which then causes probs of having to change your habits online, and with the general feel of helplessness in the light of quickly changing technology, it is getting hard to be civil anymore, even to those you think of as friends. The frustration factor is growing by leaps & bounds daily, and I know many who have just cut themselves off from everyone they cant see & talk to in person because of that frustration. I myself shut off my facebook for that reason, and I read everyday the folks here using Meelp getting more & more frustration with how they operate, or DONT operate, as they once did. I get constant bounce notices, from Meelp only, I dont get awarded points due unless I write to the admin, and much much more. SO I understand frustration, and while I cant specifically speak to the ones giving you grief, am betting this tech frustation issue is a fire under their pot, and your just getting the boil over. Just my opinion, for what it is worth.


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