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Wonder... Speakin' of walkin' in our own shoes-- I'd walk a mile... for a Camel ( toe, that is. ) Solar...
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My lady of 5 years cheated, looking back there were issues that were never addressed. We were the perfect couple for therapy, now its a case of too little too late OR how do we move forawrd
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2/27/2019 5:03 pm |
Thanks for sharing
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Aaaaand...I just got hard.
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I don't see anything offensive in your post.
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Tough subject. I have never cheated but have been cheated on. It is a fine line between a problem in the relationship and personal issues.
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Thanks for sharing. XO J
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Modern technology will be his proof of innocence... or guilt.
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The difficult thing about this topic is that we all arrive to it from different starting points and have mostly ended up colliding here at this particular moment by chance. And yet, we look out upon others making the assumptions that we know them, and they us, and we all began our journeys from the same place. When someone uses the word cheat, I hear many things, but the only one that matters is the one that bound that person sexually to another. There is no way I can ascribe the negative qualities of the word to the action without further information. Yet, that is, of course, what we do. We assume we are all talking the same language. For example, the same situation that causes one person to feel hurt can bring relief to another. A member of a couple interested in preserving the decades of shared experiences and a family may feel relief that the sex has been removed from a marriage, found by the other outside, despite the risks. It is often that one or the other partner loses interest in sex, not their partner. This is especially true now we live longer and have available to us media which presents different and broader perspectives on what used to be somewhat constricted views. We are left inventing a language on sites like this where many of us don't really know what we want or why. Or if we do, others misinterpret our interests and malign our attempts to speak and connect.
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Never apologize for offending someone.. nor for maybe offending someone. Sanctity of marriage? Try , "Insanity" of marriage. Most everyone, given enough time with just one, is going to seek "Someone else"..... maybe for sex, maybe for new conversation... maybe for validation, maybe for all three and more. Everyone who gets married, should accept that their spouse, at sometime, will seek someone else , if only for a different appreciation. I would take a guess that 75 percent of cheating situations, that happen in marriages ...does not always mean the marriage is over.
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SO hot! cock is really hard now! MMMMMMMmmmmmmm
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2/27/2019 7:27 pm |
Great perspective. I am have cheated and I'm In the "why don't you just leave" category. You get into a relationship hoping for the best, but over time you do more than just grow apart, you find out why you're different. I found out not only did my partner have a vastly different sex drive that wasn't noticed because we didn't see each other everyday but different work ethics. Leaving isn't easy when you have so much more on the table and sex is the major problem. You feel selfish because you're not being satisfied, but trying to keep yourself happy means quietly wanting something different.
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Yeah.. I never cheated. Never thought about it. Not my style... Whatever others want to do is their trip.. I have an ear for anyone who wants to share their thoughts with me. I don't judge. But I would never move in on someone who is married. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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A confidant. That's pretty much what I was first looking for on Meelp as well.
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Reasons for cheating are as varied and personal as the reasons people choose to be on a site like this one. What matters is being able to live with the decision and any of the ramifications that go with it.
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You know hun there really isn't a perfect answer to this, many cheat for the reasons you listed. And then there are some reasons, whether it be disability, illness issues. It's all about communication for the most part, and if you have partner that treats you miserably, and there are miserable relationships out there you just say "HEY YOU WEREN'T TREATING ME WITH THE RESPECT I DESERVE SO I FOUND IT ELSE WHERE!!" What can they say no they weren't well they can't and they usually don't they just get all butt hurt and upset, but honestly they need to take a long hard look in the mirror too!!! This was a very interesting topic today, and I hope your day is a good one..
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You aren’t the only one who was looking for a confidant. I have a friend (no longer on the site) who said on his profile that he was looking for an ‘emotional FWB’ - in other words someone who he could share sexy thoughts with, but no physical intimacy. I think he felt that way he wouldn’t be cheating on his wife. Personally, I feel emotional infidelity counts as cheating too. We did become friends but I was clear with him that I wasn’t on board with any fantasy sharing or other emotional intimacy.
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