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You know it seconds after it happens and cannot won’t for it again! group_post 4287205. post 4287205
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Long read but worth it. post 4287205
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What about the situation where libidos are headed in opposite directions? I want more, she wants less. Married a long time and very compatible in all other respects but sex. Once a week seems to be the norm, always at bed time so no chance of a "victory lap". Missionary only, no toys, no oral (or either). I have tried to talk it out but it's just not an issue she wants to discuss and I will not force sex. I have suggested she have a doctor check her (post-menopausal) but that just gets me "the look". She says the sex we have is fine and on occasion (mostly on vacations) it can be really great. What to do?
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What a great read this evening and you said it all and said it well my friend, sex is a very powerful thing and it shouldn't be forced upon anyone. One thing I will say sometimes in a marriage things happen where one of the partners become disabled or have medical reasons why can't perform, or enjoy sex like they used to. And the other partner is left feeling lonely and wanting to be cared about in a sexual way. I think as long as both parties agree for the one going without to get their needs fulfilled can be a good thing. I hope you have a great relaxing evening..  Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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thanks
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Quality sex is both common & rare for a guy. Often, you THINK you just had quality sex, mainly because you JUST HAD SEX, but that feeling fades quickly, so you probably DIDNT have quality sex after all. But the TRUE quality sex, are the times you remember days, weeks, months, & years later! You may not remember the specific details, but you DO remember the person you had it with, as well as the when! In my lifetime, am sorry to say, only a few people fit that memory recall, and my second wife tops the list, and always will. My first REAL GF (one I had sex with) also makes that list, as she taught me much that I have used with many other women over the years, and while we were both very young, it was a glorious time! My first wife DOESNT make the list, nor does my third wife, nor sadly, does my current FWB ! It is NOT something easily defined, you just KNOW it when you have it I guess!
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You're right, it's not something that should be withheld as a game. I think a more common scenario is that one or both partners are bored with the relationship, or over time a libido discrepancy arises. It's not an easy thing to resolve. If the couple wants to stay together, compromise is the only answer. The gentleman above who isn't satisfied with once a week - I hate to say it, but most married people his age are having sex way less frequently than that.   
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Nice. Thanks.
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1/9/2020 10:36 pm |
Truth
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No medical issues here.....she just has no libido!! 
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It's funny, I had to think back to recent times when female acquaintances talked about having had sex.... and in almost all of them, the conversations were centered about how average-to-poor of an experience it was. Between losing erections, not being able to get fully hard, not being able to last more than a few minutes, not being able to cum at all, being too out of shape to maintain a position where the woman was enjoying the sensation, the overall feeling was "I shaved for THIS?" Maybe the oral was good or the guy knew how to finger too but honestly, if we're talking quality sex, there's gotta be hard dick involved for a decent length of time. Dunno, maybe it's my age but the only women I hear from who are having quality sex worth shaving for any more are the ones with regular, younger, in-shape playmates. Guess we're not much different from the menfolk in that regard!  Sometimes it's not withholding or a lack of libido, it's just declining something that offers you nothing in the way of your own enjoyment by someone who doesn't care if you enjoy it or not.
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I'm only aware of one single case where I have been involved in a situation where sex was a negotiating tool. It was an incredibly intense sexual night - we explored all kinds of new things. But it didn't work for her - I still dumped her the next morning. OH YEAH - I knew what she was doing (but still partook of the opportunity  )Seriously Considering Taking the Chance Preparing for that Highly Unlikely Snow Storm, on HNW FINALLY What You All Have Been Waiting For [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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Sex shouldn't be a battlefield.
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Yes
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1/31/2020 4:39 am |
I have a gorgeous woman as a wife and I watch her beautiful curves move around as she walks. Teasing me relentlessly, but I can’t touch her or even see her nude. How sad and lonely I am😞
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a sign of a troubled relationship indeed. Well said
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2/4/2020 3:25 pm |
Think it was great lady !
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2/7/2020 11:46 am |
quality sex, did everyone cum and did everyone have a good time?
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.... in order to keep the fire lit, both partners in a relationship need to keep blowing on the hot embers... reciprocity is a wonderful thing.... end equal doesn't mean you have to blow on the embers the same way.... off to the gym... LOL
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