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benard69 66M/66F  

3/2/2020 5:09 pm

Of course hope you don't take anything serious on here...


sasha3676 66F  
114 posts
3/2/2020 6:07 pm

The thing about online conversation is this.Its not real.I mean who are you talking to??You just don't know.If someone doesn't respond to a message I think they are no longer interested or maybe I dodged a bullet.Maybe the guy who deactivated his profile was in a relationship.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
3/2/2020 6:12 pm

No you don't.

"Personality glitch" - I LIKE that way of explaining it!!

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jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
3/2/2020 6:21 pm

The same. Talking with someone and suddenly account is deactivated. I think to myself good thing we never exchanged numbers. But at the same time I'm thinking why did you even bother. It makes no sense. But not much around here does make sense. Except for the few that I know are real, live, and will snail mail with me, text, call, email. There are some who are cool like that.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
3/2/2020 6:42 pm

I feel ya, Sister (in a purely platonic way)

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


blllyjack765 50M
95 posts
3/2/2020 6:52 pm

Hope your not talking about me..or are u.👹


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
3/2/2020 8:03 pm

Hey... it's the internet... you hang your "Open" sign on your door... you're going to get attention... maybe ring-and-run, maybe bags of shit, or maybe decent people.

Any of us who don't like this environment, can always take leave.


MMXX2020 53M
174 posts
3/3/2020 7:45 am

I had a slightly different experience... She (gold) initiated contact and I responded. As a standard member, I had to use some of my points to IM her. I thought we had a good chat (both very respectful, we did not engage in any sexual conversation whatsoever) and all of a sudden she told me give me two minutes... And that was the last I heard from her. She did not reply to my messages later on that day.
I can understand if for whatever reason she did not want to continue with the chat. But at least say something, or even an excuse that you are tired or you are busy or whatever. Not give me two minutes and then stop talking. At least respect the fact that you initiated a chat with a standard member who used points to reply to you. As we all know lately , points do not grow up in trees for standard members.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
3/3/2020 8:15 am

Unfortunately this happens to many here hun, and well your so right you don't owe anyone anything. I hope you have a great day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
3/3/2020 2:47 pm

It's just a fake sex site with fake profiles filled with fake people.
Don't sweat the small stuff. It's just an illusion. 😶


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
3/3/2020 4:06 pm

You owe it to yourself more than anything
If that makes sense?


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
3/4/2020 6:19 am

When you get a message that someone’s account is deactivated, it’s usually been a deliberate decision on their part. For some, this place is like a buffet with too many choices...they can get a taste (chat/message) and then move on to the next, thinking they will find a better option. Until things move offline, it’s just friendly banter while you share the same space.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
3/4/2020 7:49 am

Early on in my tenure here I had long intense exchanges with a few different people who then ghosted me. That hurt, but I will say it lowered my expectations and nothing really surprises me now.

The guys who chat with you and then their account is deactivated two days after it was created? Likely their wife was away from home for a few days and they took the opportunity to walk on the wild side by joining a sex site, lol.


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
3/18/2020 10:00 am

....and like everything electronic..... timing is everything.... sometime it's an active chat.... sometimes it's just a note to say hi... where distance is involved most interactions are casual adult friendships where there are no expectations.... that being said, one can still have some fun dialogues with other folks.... and maybe for the lucky ones out of the smoke comes fire....in a good way of course.....


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
3/22/2020 2:32 pm

....no fires allowed....LOL ... Ms Wonder are you Smokey the Bear......

.....but seriously, your question is a good one... I do wonder how people in touch on here... sometimes folks pop in frequently.... and sometimes real life has them off for weeks at a time....


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
4/14/2020 4:40 pm

It shouldn't really go any further than the attention and in the rare case that it does. we're quickly reminded that ruining it for everyone else isn't gender specific!

Using more than all the road!


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