Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
| Blogs > JaniceJanes > Jan's Thoughts |
Size does Matter
|
Size does Matter Size is important in some ways but also in other ways to a Transexual or Crossdresser. The problem some Transgendered or Crossdresser have to deal with is height. Seldom addressed or mentioned is the fact that most of us who strive to be accepted as a woman is that we are too tall. The average American woman is 5’4 to 5’6’ according to various data sources. The average male in America is 5’10”. That puts the average Transgender M to F at a height disadvantage if they wish to be viewed as a normal woman. I talked to a Crossdresser lately that told me she is 6’4” and in heels 6’8” or taller, depending on the high heels she loves to wear. She said that’s the reason she doesn’t go out in public and only dresses in feminine wear in private. I have no real solutions/advise to this problem so don’t hold your breath. I don’t believe a person can change their height. I can only sympathize and encourage those who struggle with this to be brave and go forward because I had to deal with this issue myself, somewhat. 5’8”, so shorter than the average male but also still taller than the average woman. I can blend in the crowd as a “slightly” tall woman. I don’t usually date men that are shorter than me but I also consider other “size” factors in a date. I don’t feel comfortable binding over to kiss a man. Being taller, even in high heels, makes me feel masculine which working on to put behind . My partner is slightly over 6’2” so we look like a normal tall couple when we go out together. Men normally like or date or marry women shorter than they are. Just look around. America, and the world, should be more acceptive of tall women of all types. Jan |
|||
|
Very interesting perspective, I have lost some of my formerly 5'9 1/2" over the years, now 5' 8". .
| ||
|
Very interesting post u made, Janice. 
| ||
|
Very Sexy!!
| ||
|
I also try to wear heels that match my date's hight. I don't think that too picky, just considerate of the person you're with. Six inch plalform heels are sexy but not always appropriate. Jan
| ||
|
I agree. The maximum heel height I wear is 4 inches so at 5 foot 7 inches tall (I was taller but age took away an inch) I would need someone to be at least 5 foot 11 inches tall for my comfort level. That is of course if I go the maximum heel size. Comfort level is really 2 inch heels so the range could be from 5 foot 9 inches on up. I know, sounds picky right! Gina
|
Become a member to create a blog
