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bubbl3zs 38F
1 post
9/13/2019 4:06 am

Could not have said it better.


Prof10001 63M  
4094 posts
9/13/2019 4:27 am

There are plenty of men, women, and couples that are real. However, sorting the wheat from the chaff takes time, effort and luck. I've found the real ones are worth the effort.

Prof10001
Swing by my blog!


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
9/13/2019 4:38 am

I think we REAL women have seen that loads of times. I got curious and went and looked at profiles that post such comments
Maybe those that post these kind of remarks need to take a good look at their profile and see what they could do to improve it and attract REAL women.

(Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
9/13/2019 4:51 am

Yes that would be more accurate. I find it interesting when the question is asked by someone with no pic a d almost blank profile


bitchkitty2017 71F

9/13/2019 4:54 am

yep i see that statement all the time and once in awhile it gets posted on the A/L line ...kind of makes me give a chuckle and a hearty HI ,HO Silver and away ! lol


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
9/13/2019 5:04 am

Sadly, the question is usually worded "Is there any real woman here?"



I think "real" to a lot of men means immediately available and indiscriminate.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
9/13/2019 6:21 am

I have always thought that a very stupid question. It also strikes me as the sort of question that would make most women write off the asker as not worth any sort of contact.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


KStittylover 64M

9/13/2019 8:16 am

So true. My question are there any real women in the Kansas City metro area, that are real , and will meet


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
9/13/2019 10:18 am

Concur.

There are plenty of authentic people in this community. And yes, although we have made *common cause* in this social network, we are NOT mandated to provide support and therapy to any (much less all) of the existential crises that are played-out here.

A more interesting question: are we that much *different* than the four-dimensional life that we all engage on a (presumably) more regular basis? Other than the high proportion of our population that behaves as if they are in a Nudist Camp, I have yet to be surprised (or disappointed) by the cross-section of personalities I have encountered.

To be sure, at the *extremes* (where Life actually gets interesting), the Meelp phonies and phonier (in itself worth a few moments of futile communication)....but conversely, the genuine connections are intense, fascinating and more erotic.

At the end of the day, Jean-Baptiste Alphonse Karr still resonates: "Plus ca change, plus c'est la meme chose."


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
9/13/2019 12:57 pm

I'm FAKE.
I stole my profile from the internet. You know you can find anything on there, right? And the blog entries were written by a ghost writer that sells them on ebay. That's why they're so strange sometimes. Of course, my lack of a profile pic definitely means I'm fake.
Also, you can ask the bloggers I've met...BiggLaLa and CleavageFan...and I'm sure they'll be happy to tell you I'M FAKE!

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
9/13/2019 6:07 pm

In my past experiences, people who are "real" will take the time to ask detailed questions about you, regardless if their intent is "just for sex/hookup/one-nighter".

For me personally, there has to be more of an intellectual connection beyond the physical/visual one. Most ladies I know of are hard-wired that way, and some men are too. If this connection is established first through emails, chatting online, and/or maybe texting, the odds of a face-to-face encounter and finding that elusive chemical spark we all see out are increased.

May the odds ever be in your favor.

For the record: the only thing "fake" on me is my hair color.


"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


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