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too young? So I got invited to small party by my friend. she then introduced me to this hot guy (really really hot) which is her younger brother. she said he has crush on me for sometime. cool. he's totally my type..good dancer, looks really naughty...and did I mention hot? lol. we just hit it off in the dance floor all night. I'm thinking..this is great! it was really great...until we got to talk in between dancing. and I found out that he was 23 years old. I was like....wtf? 14 years younger than me??? I mean fourteennnnn years???? even my younger sister still much older than him lol.... no, I didn't freaked out...but I'm surprised. we keep partying all night but it stop there. let him know that I'm not into dating or whatsoever at the moment.he said age is just a number and he doesn't mind at all.... but I can't get that 14 years gap out of my head. I got home and it got me thinking.... I never been with a much younger men before... don't plan to start either lol...I know he's already at the legal age but it just feels not right for me. I've been with a man maybe only couple of years younger...not even 10 years younger and to be honest....not a really fun encounter. so met him last night and knew his age kinda kill the feeling of having sex with him lol. am I weird? I do love being with older men...I mean not that much older...not more than 10 years is perfect. so I wonder...how much younger is too young? I just can't do it even though I'm attracted to him lol.. |
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5/13/2019 7:16 am |
fuck his brain out and post pics here
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Some are mature at a young age and some are immature at an old age.
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Young guys and gals can benifit from more experienced and mature partners , as you said you like older men , if they are legal what's the harm
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There was 14 years between my parents (dad was older). This caused no problems except that mum was left alone for a long time when dad died aged 70. I had a relationship with someone who was 15 years younger than me (like father, like son!) and that didn't bother me - did seem to bother her either. I see your dilemma is "the other way round" where the female is much older than the male, but that shouldn't affect your decision. If he's mature enough for you, then give it a go - you wont find out unless you try.
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5/13/2019 8:14 am |
This is your choice, and the only person you have to please is YOU. Since you're clearly uncomfortable with the idea, just let it go. Myself, if it was just for the fuck, of course I'd do it, but then comes the problems of where it leaves each of you emotionally.
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No we are in the same boat our oldest is 42 but we hang out with people his age. Have had several women interested but were not sure we want someone that much younger.
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i like the older mature women 63 is the oldest so far but she is the hottest and freakiest of them all!
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If it is just for sex I don't see a problem. As for a relationship I doubt he is as mature as you wish or thing he was.
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There is a different kind of hurt when cutting someone younger loose. They don't grasp the concept quite yet that older people are mostly after one thing.Some can revisit the hurt they've been through in order to make a more conscious and thoughtful selection. Using more than all the road!
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5/13/2019 9:39 am |
Whatever LEGAL age both parties feel comfortable with is acceptable, imo.
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You are both adults. If it is just a Sexual thing go for it. But if it turns into a relationship it may or may not work out. Just like all other relationships. Since he is younger than you, you will now in time. What do you want??
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Nothing wrong with that at all. In the end, you do what makes you comfortable. Down the road, you may change your rule and be with someone younger. It all comes down to the vibe and just keep doing what you feel comfy with.
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Ouch .... ( Been there, done that ...  )Lots of parameters here to take into consideration , least one being his age ( meaning that from the start it is going to be something to take lightly) 1) Your friend's brother 2) Long time crush on you 3) Environment you're into .... 4) ability to keep it to a contained NSA level On the other hand : a)How long are you going to be able to enjoy this invigorating attention ? b)Wouldn't like too have tried once ? This doesn't pan out well my lady My 2 cents , really Cheers P
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5/14/2019 2:24 am |
I think people are too hung up on age and not looking at the matuirity level ..I am not ashamed to say i can relate with way much younger guys and being the age i am i am so fustrated with older men always having a snide or snarky remark because i would much rather chose to be with someone younger than myself..I really have met and talked to younger guys who show more maturity and respect for me than any older guy my age ...It is all in the way an approach is made to me..some great comments here....
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Hey Darlin, .........I’ve always preferred older women,.......For me, if she’s younger than thirty there’s a good chance that we’re going to have Nothing but the physical in common and that’s fleeting at best,........ Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
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..."soooo in your case...who's younger? you or her?"... ---------------------------------------------------------- It was her my lady A very long time ago Skated thin ice for a cpl of years, and had quite a few repercussions ... Wouldn't change anything though Cheers - P
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It would be a mistake to discount someone because of their age. I know it might feel a bit weird at first, but give the guy a chance at least. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent 
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