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Foreseeing Potential Positives and Problems in a Hookup
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Foreseeing Potential Positives and Problems in a Hookup Online hookup sites are one of the most popular reasons society uses technology today. It's fun, time-consuming, and for some of us, it's pretty effective. However, for others, it could be a destroyer of their hearts, bank accounts, and even their time. As much fun as the online hookup sites are, it can be scary if you don't take precautions. We have three warning signs that your online hookup is bad news and three tips to make sure you find your match made in horny heaven instead. Red Flags They Won’t Video Chat or Call If your online hookup prefers that you text all the time, then this is someone that you need to be careful when starting a relationship. They should be calling to talk on the phone or even video chatting, especially as the relationship grows over the months. It should be something they actually want to do more than texting. If this is something they don't do at all, then this is a red flag. You will have to play it by ear to see how this will work out. They Ask For Money If the person you're messaging is continuously asking you to send them Money or to come to see you, then you should block this person completely. Remember not to give out any of your personal information to anybody, ever. You need to wait to give out information about where you live and work until you really know someone. Most scams involving Money occur within the first month that you start talking online. They will say they had to visit family in another country than a few days later contact you asking for Money to get home. They spin elaborate stories that are very sad but not true. What kind of person asks for Money from someone they have only recently met? The only person that does that is a mooch, and they will keep asking you for Money until you end things with them. Their Photos and Profile Description Seems Off This is a classic red flag. If someone can't be bothered to post accurate and representative information about themselves, even if they're not a scammer, do you want to associate with them? Since pictures and profile details are the basic features by which you learn about people online, if someone's dishonest or you think they're deliberately withholding information about themselves, take it as a sign that you probably shouldn't communicate with them. Green Flags Continuous Communication When taking online, you'll encounter a lot of people who are good at pulling the disappearing act. You'll be mid-conversation, when - poof! - they disappear for days and then appear again as if nothing ever happened. If you're talking to someone who is very consistent in their frequency of communication and that frequency is frequent, that means a few good things. First, it means you are probably the only person they are talking to. They don't have time to message a dozen people multiple times a day. Second, the biggie, they are into you. They don't just forget about their account because work got busy or guests came into town. You Are On The Same Page You both hit the "Perhaps we should meet" point at the exact same time. This means, you act on the same instinct - your instincts respond to the same stimuli. Something about that last conversation you had said to both of you, "It's time to meet this person." Odds are, if your timing matches up on that, it will match up on other things, like your sexual interests and needs. They Don't Hide Anything When you ask them questions, they'll answer them honestly and tell you everything you want to know because they have nothing to hide. It won't feel like you're pulling teeth the whole damn time. If it feels like they're not telling you the entire truth, there's probably a reason for it - always listen to your gut. |
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another good, informative post !
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Usually I agree with your responses but . . . Hookups, 64 yrs old and too old for that silly game, I don't think so. I've been contacted a couple times here by a usually younger woman for a 1 night only stand. I don't think age is a sole limiter. I will never video chat with anyone except family Agreed, no family left but I don't do video. Also, all my dates are arranged by phone - voice not text. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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FWIW, the first one I referred to surprised the heck out of me. I was suspicious that it could be a scam and nearly blew it with asking questions. My guess, partly based on conversations with women I've met, is that in a rural area (like mine) there are fewer choices (both male and female) so reaching out is not unusual. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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9/13/2019 3:12 pm |
Personally I don't feel too old for a hookup but maybe that's just me. Mainly it's just that my priorities have changed and I'm now looking more for a long term relationship. However, where ever I do find them, whether on the Internet or some lady I meet on the street or in a bar, they still do happen from time to time, no matter what my priorities are. It seems that it's not always what I want that counts for everyone. As to whether this post was copied from another site, that is true, but it seemed to be good info that needed to be shared. Had the other author laid claim to it, I would have put their name on it at the top, but it just seemed to be another anonymous posting that I had enjoyed and wanted to share.
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