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(ro)bots up to no good ! Danger Will Robinson.
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5/27/2019 9:37 pm |
Get hit up by bots all the time too. Usually one pic with a cookie cutter bio is big red flag
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5/27/2019 9:39 pm |
The sad truth is that unless you bring something exceptional or a female partner your chances as a straight guy are slim. Not that it doesn't happen, but the odds of a real meet up with mutual attraction are basically nil. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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5/28/2019 2:11 am |
good question how does one cock stand above the others in a sea of cocks? how does one pussy stand out in a forest of pussies? the answer my friend is in the mouth the fingertips not the way you use them on bodies yours or theirs but the way you use them on their eyes and minds so blogs, chats, groups would be the best bet for hookups, be they short term or long term as for the women 20 + years your junior that are so horny they want you to add them to another site...credit card required. well you really do not need a PhD you know where she/he is leading you! there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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I do met couple of guys from here. too bad you're too far away though  love the ink ...
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Go into chat rooms you will find the real people. Although some bots hit those rooms - they are easy to figure out. There are way more men then women on here so yes its difficult to stand out.
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It is definitely not your looks. I do think it is the big ratio here and the bots. And, no matter the platform of this site, women still want to be courted, pardon the old fashioned term. For me, I grew out of the mindless fuck. I sense you doing better out in the real world than here. Unless you are a total dick and put women off in real life. There are successes here but there are no guarantees.
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Yes, there are actual "hookups", if you're into that. There are a few people who are here for other things besides NSA. Or at least a meet and greet that involves lunch (or dinner) and/of drinks in a public place, to get to know one another and have a feel of things. Where it goes from there is all up to chance and chemistry. It does happen, and I've experienced it. Unfortunately he found someone more akin to his liking, which is okay. On the matter of scammers and bots, they are in every online dating site out there. It's almost impossible to avoid them. But if you know what to look out for when someone contacts you, your chances of meeting someone real tend to get better. If you notice something in an email or message that is full of misspellings, improper grammar usage, or just gives you a weird feeling when you read it.. chances are it's a bot or scammer. Trust your instincts; if it looks like it's to good to be true, chances are that it is. Good luck!  "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
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I've met a few men from here so it does happen. But like positively4you said, I want to be courted. I want the man to attempt to cultivate a friendship to which benefits could be added. I'm not interested in NSA hookups. They do nothing for me. So spend some time *talking* to women as people. Around here, that'll definitely help you stand out. You're in your 40s so realistically, if a woman in her 20s contacts you, she's probably a bot. But a woman in her 40s is more likely to be a real person. Are there any bots posing as 40s-something women on here, ever? I doubt it.
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