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Inadequate  

Devilsadvocat119 36M
45 posts
9/11/2019 10:22 am
Inadequate


It hasn’t been a week since a recent back and pelvis injury that will have me laid up for awhile. It’s going to be a long road of recovery if I want to do this properly. This is not the first time I’ve been out with sports related injury but I can’t help but feel inadequate. My dad said something to me years ago that stuck, he told me “a rolling stone gathers no moss.” This has something I’ve lived by. I’m always on the move and thinking ahead. My doctors have said no physical activity for at least 6 weeks. Well this doesn’t do me any good because I’ve recently met a woman that I’ve developed strong feelings for and now suddenly I’m not fit to perform. She’s assured me this is ok and has been very supportive and persistent in telling me not to rush this. As someone who loves to please I think this will be challenging for me. I have been given time off work until the end of October to rest so on a positive note this gives me lots of opportunity to surprise her when I’m back on my feet.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
9/11/2019 10:33 am

best wishes with your recovery


Devilsadvocat119 replies on 9/11/2019 12:17 pm:
Thank you!

bitchkitty2017 71F

9/11/2019 10:44 am

be lucky its not worse and she dumps you for something who she thinks is way better...I go thru it very regularly ..lol They are losers and not worthy of me anyway...good luck in your recovery and well maybe things will work out for you...


Devilsadvocat119 replies on 9/11/2019 12:20 pm:
Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately that seems common on this site so it is refreshing to meet someone who’s genuinely interested in something exclusive rather than racking up numbers or replacing you when things change.

seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
9/11/2019 10:48 am

You have to give yourself time to heal, if you rush it, God knows what might happen, and you don;t want to have a lifetime of pain for the sake of 6 weeks and a legover. Get her to give you a massage

Also, can I just say that the pic of you with the bike is one of the hottest on here ... The rest aren't bad either


Devilsadvocat119 replies on 9/11/2019 12:22 pm:
Thank you for your kind words. Much appreciated. I’m a sucker to be touched so having her hands on me would surely help the recovery process

Edua2013sw 57M

9/11/2019 11:04 am

Life is like a camera. Focus on what's important.
Capture the good times.
Develop from the negatives and if things don't work out,
Take another shot!

Great ery godd comparison


Devilsadvocat119 replies on 9/11/2019 12:41 pm:
We’ve had many great times in our time together and you’re right, there’s no need to be hung up on this bump in the road when I can see there will better days ahead spent with her. Thanks

jeannie409 70F  
503 posts
9/11/2019 11:49 am

Devil I think she probably understands about healing, the idea of giving you a massage sounds like it would be a great plan for her, maybe you need to make sure you have the oil all ready for when you see her again. Do not rush this and do she will wait if she's the right woman, she will be patient for when the time is right.


Devilsadvocat119 replies on 9/11/2019 1:13 pm:
I will be patient in the recovery process awaiting her presence. A very romantic time is in order for her arrival. Just what the doctor ordered.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/11/2019 1:41 pm

LOL... you recently just met her. Geez so what? There will be more women in your future, if that one gets infatuated with someone else. That one woman is going to date other guys while you're recuperating ... unfortunate for you, but this is the way life is sometimes....Just relax.


jeannie409 70F  
503 posts
9/11/2019 2:30 pm

heathen, if he has meet someone who truly likes him why would she be interested in meeting up with other guys while he's recuperating, give a woman some credit they are not all douche bags, your painting women negatively with those comments, I have appreciated things you have said in the past on my blog and others but this is not a really fair statement...


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/11/2019 2:47 pm

    Quoting jeannie409:
    heathen, if he has meet someone who truly likes him why would she be interested in meeting up with other guys while he's recuperating, give a woman some credit they are not all douche bags, your painting women negatively with those comments, I have appreciated things you have said in the past on my blog and others but this is not a really fair statement...
heathen, if he has met someone who truly likes him why would she be interested in meeting up with other guys while he's recuperating, ...... Ha... simple. "Truly liking someone", doesn't mean you put your sex life on hold for that someone. We all know attractive women have men calling on her. [I'm guessing she's attractive because he wouldn't be making a fuss over a any woman below a 6 rating]. Even if he was able bodied , [and she "Truly liked" him], ha...she isn't going to just stop seeing other men for at least a couple of months.

give a woman some credit they are not all douche bags, ... Credit? That would be foolish. Douche bags? No... this is nonsense women apply to men when he dates more than one woman. And , like it or not , dating more than one does not make either person a douche bag.

your painting women negatively with those comments, ... Nope, I'm painting women fairly with those comments. IF, a woman wants to just sit there and wait....that's up to the individual woman, but being realistic, while he is recuperating, she is going out with other men. Ha.. whom she may , too, "Truly like". .... Come on... "Truly like" doesn't spell , "Complete absolute devotion". She likes the guy.... but she' NOT a douche bag for seeing other men.

I have appreciated things you have said in the past on my blog and others but this is not a really fair statement... ... Thanks, but yes, what I just said is a fair statement.


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
9/12/2019 4:21 am

There are many ways to seduce a woman... imagination is key.


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