A Tantri Guide to Women's Sexual Fulfillment - MUST READ FOR ALL!!  

Califgoldenrod16 64M  
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1/19/2017 8:38 pm

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A Tantri Guide to Women's Sexual Fulfillment - MUST READ FOR ALL!!


II discovered this article on the Blog of a world respected Certified Tantric Practitioner while waiting for a business meeting to start. Needless to say that I wasn't able to complete the article before having to run o ut to my car to take matters into my own hands so that I could function during the meeting.....I hope you enjoy this....

Even though it appears that adults are knowledgeable about sex, sexual anatomy and sexual functioning. In my experience of having worked with thousands of people, the important subject of sexual relations remains under an obscure cloud of confusion in the minds of many.

Too often, a woman tries to force her sexual response to become like a man. This happens because both men and women are unaware of their opposite and yet complimentary natures in regards to sex.

The woman has three areas in her genital region, which are important for sexual orgasm to take place, the clitoris (and clitoral network inside her body), a nerve in the sacrum (which is the trigger for orgasm), and the vagina, (where contractions of orgasm take place.)

Generally, a woman will become aroused firstly through touching, caressing, kissing or holding her entire body in deep loving embrace. She needs to experience a quality heart connection before opening up sexually. This slow buildup of arousal may take approximately 20 minutes. The woman has 3—5 thousand nerve endings in her clitoris all devoted to pleasure. These nerves come from erogenous zones all over her body. When she is touched and embraced, these nerves all over the body are activated, and her clitoris simultaneously ‘wakes up.’

It is best not to go directly to the clitoris as a way of stimulating a woman. A more teasing approach works much better. Nipples have nerves linked directly with the clitoris, so touching and massaging her breasts is of great importance.

If a lover holds the lower belly of his beloved, and simply remains present with her, within a few minutes, she will begin either laughing or crying. This is signal that her second chakra is open. The second chakra of the woman is of tremendous importance for her to open up sexually, as it is from her lower belly that she will be able to discover the phenomenon of multiple orgasms. Emotional fluidity helps a woman to know all the joys of her sexual response, and a man needs to discover how to be comfortable just holding space while the woman moves into emotive waves.

Stroking the outer lips of her Yoni, her inner thighs, slowly and teasingly working your way to her inner lips, and finally encircling her clitoris with wet fingers or tongue, will drive her wild.

When her yoni is copiously wet, and her outer lips, inner lips and clitoris are in erection, then it is time to move into penetrative sexual union. A woman is changeable according to where she is in her monthly cycle, so the approach to her sacred portal may be different each time.

After having one orgasm, a woman’s body remains on an orgasmic plateau for at least 20 minutes, ready for more orgasms. If a man has his orgasm before she has enjoyed more orgasms, she may be very frustrated with the sex act. The game ended just as she was getting started!

In ancient Taoist Tantric texts, it is stated that a skilled lover will stimulate the woman at precise points and in particular ways, all over her body as part of the build up for sexual union. He is advised not to move into penetration unless she begs him to, with tears in her eyes because she is so aroused that she cannot wait anymore!

In our culture, of instant coffee and instant everything, we have forgotten the joys of slow food and slow sex. A woman has been designed by existence to savour timeless, intimate and loving sexual union. For women’s sexual fulfillment, the art of Tantra is not a luxury. It is a necessity

Msmealsonheels 25F  
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1/30/2017 1:43 am

Do you remember where the blog was?


Califgoldenrod16 replies on 2/22/2017 3:53 am:
I know what web suite I found it on but don't have the link.....or do I? I'll check it out for ya. If you don't hear from me by the weekend shoot me a reminder.....

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