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Hmmm I would say she felt like a FB and not in a "proper" relationship, which it sounds like what she wants. Words are cheap, are you just saying you love her now because you will miss "kissing her ass"? Maybe you should have said it a while ago 
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My take: She's kind of angry that the fun boyfriend-y relationship is over and she made a comment that she knew would probably hurt your feelings because... angry. Don't take it too personally, given all your time together, it's guaranteed that she knows that you find her beautiful as a whole, not just saying some bullshit hoping to get laid. It's just easier sometimes to get angry about a relationship (of any kind) ending than it is to be accepting of the reality of life at first.
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Darren, I read your responses to your other commenters and I read your post. I get the whole "free spirit" thing, because that kind of applies to me. But even in one of your responses above, you responded to the commenter with "oh I was grateful for being "near" her. she was after all beautiful. " I think maybe she just heard all the physical comments and not the "I love your brains and personality" comments you probably gave her or maybe you thought you gave her. Live and learn, dude. She could have been angry and just doesn't know how to transition a relationship from FWB to long distance friends, but more than likely, you could have done a better job of emphasizing why you liked being around her, other than you finding her outsides so fantastic. JMO kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Dude... you mentioned "FWB" all over your article? If you care, why didn't you discuss moving with her? I know you are probably not, but your writing conveys a materialistic lifestyle when it comes to the FWB lifestyle. If you care for her, fight for her!
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You said: What word would you suggest men start using to convey some of these feelings/observations?; naming a few here (cant type everything) hope you get the point. your smart, funny, talented, a little crazy in a good way and I like the way you express yourself and think when things are good and bad. I also think your sexy as hell you have a great body and yes the sex is great but I enjoy standing next to you holding hands while watching the sun set just as much as laying next to with beads of sweat glistening on your breast. see to me (this guy) I think beautiful is the best word to use here. Me- Dude... for THAT woman you can only live and learn. Not all women are the same. The next one might be totally fine with you saying "beautiful" and know you mean inside and out. You might want to say "I would totally still do you because of the way you think" or "You know you are damned sexy because of how you act, and because of the way you look". It's ok to state the obvious, she is beautiful. She didn't hear you say the rest of it clear enough FOR HER to hear it. Do you get this? For her, you didn't say the right combination of words. For another woman, you might have. I don't know. Your description of your relationship with her, could be construed as poly (but that is just a label, I know ) but if you had said that you were not just FWBs, but not the traditional type of relationship, either, that might have helped. Again, I don't know the lady in this story. Communication is EVERYTHING. kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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