What I've Learned so far about AFF  

FrankBone1 44M
11 posts
7/1/2016 6:25 pm
What I've Learned so far about AFF

It's been 6 months since I've joined Meelp and here are some observations during that time:

1) It can be addictive: Yes, I admit it, I am addicted to Meelp and checking out other people's profiles, chatting with them and hoping to hook up. I mean that's why we are all here, right? On that, more later. But being the always horny devil I am, and having made a conscious decision to explore my sexuality to its max, I find myself on here a lot!

2) There are really nice, normal people on here: Yes, it's true! There are really nice and down-to-earth people on here who are just as nervous as you are in meeting other for casual NSA sex.

3) There are lots fakes: Sadly, this is also true. I have found many people are not really interested in actually meeting and are likely living out some online voyeur fantasy. So, I've learned to curb my expectations and not to put too much faith in someone's words. Their intentions may be entirely different. I know we are all very busy people, hell, nobody is busier that me (at least I think so) but if I make an effort to try to meet, I would like the same in return.

4) Being honest and upfront with what you want and how you look, etc, is crucial: I have met some people and no they did not really look like their photos. Now I know there are a whole lots of tit, cock and ass shots on here but for goodness, please be honest. I am all the time. That includes what I like, don't like and want to do. If I say I want to fuck, well that's what I want to do.

5) Being bi-sexual can really suck: Well, yes being bi means sucking cock but what I meant is that being bi on here is not easy. Now, I am not seeking sympathy or am crying a river and I know this may get some negative reaction, but a lot of "straight" guys on here actually like/want cock. But do they do something about it? Not many. And to get a woman's attention on here is very difficult. Again, not seeking sympathy but stating a fact that I have experienced. Yes, some women prefer younger or older or less hairy but lots when they see "bi-sexual" turn and run the other way. I've been told several times that they would never touch me. A personal choice, fine and I respect that but just saying that it's not easy meeting a woman on Meelp when you;re bi as the pool gets smaller and smaller. Now guys, I love being with guys but there is a disproportionate amount of much older guys on here that younger, which I prefer. Everyone to they own.

6) It's a wild place: This is true and that's why I'm still here.

mufdiver69er2 58M  
1119 posts
7/1/2016 6:49 pm

2007 and im still here for all those reasons and more.

1seeking1 53F  
1635 posts
7/25/2016 4:52 pm

All good and valid points, do not agree with view on bi sexual, my question is how safe a potential partner is.

SensualBliss22 48M/49F
1 post
8/14/2016 11:16 am

I totally agree with what you said. The fact is bisexual guys are still shunned even on a site like this where one would think people being open enough to have sex with other people would not be homo-phobes, but I guess there are. If everyone were honest on their profiles i feel there would be way more hooking up than there seems to be. Oh well, we can hope and lead by example.

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