Lingerie for Men ! ?  

Michaelmjblucas1 49M  
42 posts
7/23/2017 1:04 pm

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Lingerie for Men ! ?

I've been wearing women's undergarments since I was very young. I know I shouldn't, but I do, thus do it discreetly. I like feeling the satiny fabrics on my skin and how it makes me feel. Why are only women allowed to have these things !!!

I'm not Gay though I am BI. I understand why most women don't like men wearing such things, but are there women out there that WOULD want a man that had this desire?

Men - would you like to be with a guy that discreetly enjoys feminine things to wear?


Being curious and asking questions is a good thing!


Heathen_G 60M
5514 posts
8/19/2018 3:32 pm

Michaelmjblucas1 replies on 7/29/2017 12:05 pm:
I guess I should have also added, WHY do some (most) women find a man wearing lingerie a turn OFF ? Does lingerie on a man tell a woman that he's too feminine for her? Does a woman feel like she has to compete with not only other women, but her MAN too ? Do women not like men to feel good about themselves? Do women think that men must be bi, or gay because they wear lingerie, or even satiny fabrics ?

I'm attracted to women! And YES, I like wearing nice things. Why is I that only women can wear such things?

I don't like wearing cotton underthings, nor do I like always wearing cotton shirts. I like what feels good against my body, as many women do, I'm guessing !

I have many questions about this. I'm not Gay (Yes I'm bi). I'm more straight, then bi. Also, I'm not sure if sexual orientation has anything to do with wearing clothes that feel good! But yes, I get it, that a guy wearing clothes that are generally meant for women is odd. But Women wear men's clothes, and it's sexy !!!! ???


WHY do some (most) women find a man wearing lingerie a turn OFF ?..... Why would you expect most any woman to be aroused by a male wearing girly underwear?

Does lingerie on a man tell a woman that he's too feminine for her? ... Yes... pretty much.

Does a woman feel like she has to compete with not only other women, but her MAN too ? ... Women don't want to compete for attractiveness with her man. Women typically choose to have a man as a mate, whom other women want. So likewise she's not going to choose a man whom causes her embarrassment among her peers.

Do women not like men to feel good about themselves?.... Women are not intended to be your mom. Women really don't give a shit if a man feels good about himself, if she has no vested personal interest in him, and she isn't going to have any personal vested interest in him if she is not attracted to him enough to keep him around.

Do women think that men must be bi, or gay because they wear lingerie, or even satiny fabrics ? ... I couldn't fault any woman who thinks that.

I'm attracted to women! .... Well good for you, but changes nothing. If you tell a woman , "Look at my lingerie", you're done, unless she just has a kink for that sort of thing.

And YES, I like wearing nice things..... Armani suits? Or Victorias Secret?

Why is I that only women can wear such things? ....Nobody is going to tell you , you can't wear such things, but there are consequences to wearing girly underwear. So "Only women can wear such things", is a false statement.

"Only women can wear such things and be accepted", is a truer statement.

Because the average heterosexual male really doesn't care what women wear as long as she looks attractive.

But the average heterosexual female actually does care what the men wear, not because she wants him to feel good about himself, but because she wants to be attracted to him. The more masculine , the more attraction he is going to receive from women, and women want men whom other women want. [However , ever see the mass disappointment in women when she finds out a hot looking man is gay? It's a sad thing.]

I don't like wearing cotton underthings, nor do I like always wearing cotton shirts..... That's fine... some people actually are allergic to cotton.. Men stores carry underwear of different fabric. .... Or are you looking for an excuse to wear women's stuff?

I'm not Gay (Yes I'm bi). ....Then you are gay. You can't tell a woman you are gay sometimes, but not today..... You're either gay, or you are not. Just the way it is.

I'm more straight, then bi. .... Cookie with one raisin is still a raisin cookie.

Also, I'm not sure if sexual orientation has anything to do with wearing clothes that feel good! .... It can, but doesn't have to. Sometimes it's a fetish.

But yes, I get it, that a guy wearing clothes that are generally meant for women is odd. ..... Should have lead off with that sentence.

But Women wear men's clothes, and it's sexy !!!! ???.....ONLY if the woman is sexy to begin with, and even then she may not be able to look attractive wearing it. ..... If she is not sexy, then absolutely she wearing men's clothes is not going to make her look sexy. HA!!! Just isn't going to happen.

Likewise , if she is not already sexy looking , even she wearing sexy women's clothing is not going to make her look sexy.


playingalone55 67M  
104 posts
11/5/2017 8:49 am

I LOVE panties


albl8888 48M
816 posts
9/18/2017 5:34 am

Love to wear wommans panys myselves. One of my former girlfriend made me wear hers. Vi bout loved it.Have meet two girls later that loved to see me in pantys.


BiggLala 46F  
25187 posts
7/24/2017 12:09 pm

It's not a turn on for me.

You just have to find people that share your interest...they're out there.

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azlyn4562 65M  
1279 posts
7/23/2017 6:56 pm

Nope.


positively4you 69F  
3033 posts
7/23/2017 4:53 pm

A turn off.


misskissin 55F  
75710 posts
7/23/2017 3:08 pm

To each their own and do what feels good to you but I will be honest and say this is a turn off for me. Just my personal preference.


Michaelmjblucas1 replies on 7/29/2017 12:05 pm:
I guess I should have also added, WHY do some (most) women find a man wearing lingerie a turn OFF ? Does lingerie on a man tell a woman that he's too feminine for her? Does a woman feel like she has to compete with not only other women, but her MAN too ? Do women not like men to feel good about themselves? Do women think that men must be bi, or gay because they wear lingerie, or even satiny fabrics ?

I'm attracted to women! And YES, I like wearing nice things. Why is I that only women can wear such things?

I don't like wearing cotton underthings, nor do I like always wearing cotton shirts. I like what feels good against my body, as many women do, I'm guessing !

I have many questions about this. I'm not Gay (Yes I'm bi). I'm more straight, then bi. Also, I'm not sure if sexual orientation has anything to do with wearing clothes that feel good! But yes, I get it, that a guy wearing clothes that are generally meant for women is odd. But Women wear men's clothes, and it's sexy !!!! ???

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