NawtyLipz 48F
15 posts
6/28/2017 9:59 pm

So there's this one guy that on a few occasions I have intimate moments with and he basically just wants it at his convenience as a fwb. Which is ok with me I guess, I don't get me wrong I could take him for more than that but that's not gonna happen and so I just deal with it. But anyhow one day we were talking and the subject came up he was wanting boobs shots and I replied as what just you and he replied yup only me. So I took it farther and said I cant show anyone anything but to you only and he said yes and if ur sharing other than me then I am Done. Excuse me your done because you think its only for you. Theres no commitment, I only see him 3x a wk but its not that type of seeing...its no alone time. I mainly just hear from him when he needs a little encouragement picture while at work. But tells me if I am sharing that means I found another dick to fuck and that's it he is done.

Now is that what you call a FWB?

Wait now if I seen him on a regular basis and I spoke to him like normal friends would do and not when he is wanting something then I wouldn't really look elsewhere, But hell I haven't had fuck session with him going on few weeks and just because he doesn't get none doesn't mean I shouldn't get none. Until there is more of a commitment there, don't you all think? Yes he has a family and I do take that in stride and understand but hey I need a little play time to?

Anyone please leave ur comments or your own situations. I need to know what to do in this type of situation?

kku2000 48M
51 posts
6/28/2017 10:42 pm

I don't call that FWB.. You should be able to call and have him come over.. I think you are just friends now

BowiesFan73 45M
14 posts
6/28/2017 11:40 pm

fwb's can be a touchy situation....considering someone will always get hurt

1Hardlicker69 56M
24 posts
6/28/2017 11:53 pm

Sounds like he wants to have all for him and you can have what he decides and when.Had a FWB 25 years ago that thought like that when she explained this weirdness to me I just walked away even without a relationship there must be fair play and equality. FWB

NawtyLipz 48F
5 posts
6/29/2017 12:46 am

True on some of the comments and appreciate the feed back. The family thing was kinda broken before I got into the picture. I mean I think he is kind of into me because why would he get so defensive about me sharing my nice tits to others. Like before I was just giving him a hard time about his brother and like him and its like that at all. His brother just has a contagious smile and a laugh that I just like,,,,its different. He was like I don't care but now that has change,,,,,if he told me all this. He's just a keeper, he knows my situation and my flaws and accepts them.

NawtyLipz replies on 6/29/2017 5:19 pm:
You are right porterpiper....I very much lust for him. I think the first time I met him over a yr ago that I have already lusted for this guy and I, myself was shocked that he flirted with me the way he did....I took it in and enjoyed. But more than anything I think I was just kinda wondering to everyone else how would the defined FWB? I have my idea in my head but was curious how everyone would explained it. Yes he can controlling in some ways but I don't always give in because I am very stubborn and don't give in that easy. But I understand what you are getting across to me and thank you.

porterpiper1 52F
3763 posts
6/29/2017 1:44 am

ok from my point of view , you want more than he want to give , no matter what he has a family and will tell you anything to keep you the side piece the sign are there . You are making excuses to hold on, You care for him more than you are telling us, nothing is wrong with that, sometimes FWB turn to more than we thought they would but it happens, It is time to think about what you want instead of waiting on him to give it to you, he is in control over you right now. Read what you have written and really think about what you wrote with an open mind.

par28655 49M/49F  
92 posts
6/29/2017 3:06 am

would not call that a fwb at all

banjo6660 53M
614 posts
6/29/2017 4:09 am

I understand your needs I really do but it is not a FWB situation he just wants it at his time and not when you do. So I wold dump his ass, it not I believe you are going to regret it.

boroguy1235 33M
31 posts
6/29/2017 10:41 am

Yeah I agree seems pretty one sided I'm sure you have plenty of cock chasing you anyway

Han54boat 66M
11669 posts
6/29/2017 11:25 am

My two cents: not a FWB but NSA. FWB should be two way. No pictures until commitment. This pictures can go anywhere.

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