Go fast ... go slow  

NorthfieldGuy76 48M
20 posts
9/11/2017 11:57 am
Go fast ... go slow

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BiggLala 47F  
25511 posts
9/11/2017 1:38 pm

Nope, my mind wasn't on sex at all. I was too busy pondering my response to your question, "You'd think if you want to forge those kinds of bonds, why not throw caution to the wind?"

I'd think, when the pursuit is of a more serious relationship, slowing things down better serves to build a foundation for the relationship. People are less apt to make the best decisions when emotions are involved. Throwing caution to the wind when in lust, which is typically the real 'feelings' during the first few months of any new relationship, usually leads to fizzle down the road.

There's a reason whirlwind romances are named after destructive weather events. Tornadoes happen when opposing pressure conditions collide, they form unexpectedly, you cannot predict their path, their force leaves a lot of destruction in their wake...and they disappear just as quickly as they appeared. The cleanup, recovery and rebuild is expensive and exhaustive.

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NorthfieldGuy76 48M
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9/11/2017 4:43 pm

Well said Lala!


BiggLala 47F  
25511 posts
9/12/2017 7:41 am

Why thank you. I do try!

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