Why I Don't Instant Message With Standard Members  

OlderButNot2Old2 68G  
99 posts
11/8/2016 6:53 am
Why I Don't Instant Message With Standard Members

I very seldom answer an IM from a standard member and never from a male playing as a single. Occasionally I'll answer a local woman/couple who really intrigues me.

Here's my reasons
• I put a lot of information on my profile about who I am and what I am looking for on Meelp. Invariably as soon as I start messaging with a standard member, I start having to answer questions that are covered and answered on my profile. Sometimes in a lot more detail than I'm willing to type in an instant message. This becomes very frustrating to me very quick and will have me saying I have to go or even worse I disengage and start giving one word answers
• Very quickly in the IMing they start asking for pictures (to give them some credit that is usually after they have provided one). I have a shit load of pictures on my profile that include me and the type of sexual fun I enjoy. Why do I have to dig through my profile to provide again.
• The third reason and last reason, is do I look like an idiot. Why is it okay for me to spend my hard earned money on a premium membership and be serious about my pursuit of sexual fun. Whereas the standard member acts like you've got to be an idiot to pay the money for a premium membership. Plus a financial commitment speaks to your seriousness.

Am I wrong to feel this way?

wil82000 60M  
60 posts
5/29/2018 7:02 am

Agreed, you are correct.

sonnny49 87M
261 posts
12/10/2016 9:29 am

You are making sound sensible decisions

bi1946 72M  
22 posts
11/9/2016 11:16 am

nope,, not at all.

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