Why Not Blog While Drinking... An Apology... and Other Excuses Included... ๐Ÿ˜ถ  

Paulxx001 62M
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1/29/2020 6:22 am

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Why Not Blog While Drinking... An Apology... and Other Excuses Included... ๐Ÿ˜ถ

Don't drink and blog - unless you want to get into trouble. It's a good tip to follow. I almost wish I had been drinking, when I posted those comments here the other day - then I'd have an excuse. Albeit... a sad and pathetic one.

My foibles are coarse and simple to analyse. I'm expressive, passionate - and occasionally arrogant - with an explosive (but quickly defused) temper and a harsh tongue. Oh... and my inner monologue is non existent. There you go. Does that make things better or erase what I said? No. But hey... those are my mitigating circumstances ; what the fuck are yours?

There are other do's and don'ts, of when NOT to post your thoughts anywhere, on social media. Let me suggest a few.

Definitely avoid the days where you're horribly sad or joyously happy ; few are interested in opinions painted with extremes. Anger will taint any point of view you express and so will apathy. Try to stay off the web if you're impatient, overly assertive or you've had a bad day. And obviously avoid the internet when you're on your period. Having hot flashes? Keep your fingers in your pockets and don't even open the computer.

Are you really horny and need interactive inspiration? Sure... there are sites for that ; just don't lose control and flash an uninvited vagina (or dick) pic. After eliminating all these don'ts - does that leave you with any perfect days?

There's such a fine line between glib and witty - and flimsy and stale. Your goal should be to leave a positive impression and give it your best shot here - and across the web. One thing's for sure, those subtle differences will be obvious fails - after a few drinks.

I'm just wondering... Might they absolve me if I had gone with the - 'I was under the influence' plea? Yet... that defence, would have been a lie. I prefer to be honest and admit - it was just me. Hmmm... Which is worse? ๐Ÿค”

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... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
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1/29/2020 6:22 am

It's happened that I've gotten on the web with a beverage in hand. It hasn't always turned out bad. I've had a bunch of laughs. But it hasn't always been great either. Two drinks - is my internet commenting limit. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜ถ OK... three.

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/29/2020 6:23 am

Have I ever left a comment somewhere that I'd like to take back? ๐Ÿค”
Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚... You're kidding, right? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/29/2020 6:50 am

What do these pictures have to do with my post? ๐Ÿค”
Nothing... they're for those who can't read. ๐Ÿ˜ถ

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


positively4you 70F  
3763 posts
1/29/2020 6:54 am

Blogging while drunk. What could possibly go wrong?


smartasswoman 62F  
32582 posts
1/29/2020 7:52 am

Explosive temper....so I take it you're an angry drinker...

I have to be very restrained with drinking these days because of my a-fib. But back in the day, i was more of a happy horny drinker.


author51 57F  
88311 posts
1/29/2020 8:06 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Have I ever left a comment somewhere that I'd like to take back? ๐Ÿค”
    Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚... You're kidding, right? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
When you were describing your foibles my coffee mate, they sure sound an awful lot like mine....No wonder we are friends....lol.. Having said that we passionate people are also human and most of us forgive just as quick as we explode..We let things go until the next time we get pissed..I have a glass of Merlot at lunch when blogging and one more at dinner..My excuse is that Irish red head thing I got going on....lol. Cheers my coffee mate and I often think I should heed your words of sound advice you have there.. I just do not always take advice given....lol. Brilliant like always Hun....xx

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author51 57F  
88311 posts
1/29/2020 8:10 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Have I ever left a comment somewhere that I'd like to take back? ๐Ÿค”
    Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚... You're kidding, right? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Now I have to go back and read over your comments on your other posts....lol

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/29/2020 8:31 am

    Quoting positively4you:
    Blogging while drunk. What could possibly go wrong?
Seriously... like what could happen? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜Ž

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
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1/29/2020 8:40 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Explosive temper....so I take it you're an angry drinker...

    I have to be very restrained with drinking these days because of my a-fib. But back in the day, i was more of a happy horny drinker.
Angry drinker? No... Not usually. I count to ten or twenty and breathe. It usually works fine. I think I'm even more expressive and entertaining than normal... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Yep. I'm full of myself. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท
Happy and horny is fine! ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿ˜Ž

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
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1/29/2020 8:50 am

    Quoting author51:
    When you were describing your foibles my coffee mate, they sure sound an awful lot like mine....No wonder we are friends....lol.. Having said that we passionate people are also human and most of us forgive just as quick as we explode..We let things go until the next time we get pissed..I have a glass of Merlot at lunch when blogging and one more at dinner..My excuse is that Irish red head thing I got going on....lol. Cheers my coffee mate and I often think I should heed your words of sound advice you have there.. I just do not always take advice given....lol. Brilliant like always Hun....xx
Well... I don't know how valid my advice is... I keep messing up... here and there... ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ—... and there... ugh... ๐Ÿ˜Ž

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
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1/29/2020 8:53 am

    Quoting author51:
    Now I have to go back and read over your comments on your other posts....lol
I might be a bit sarcastic in EVERY comment I make. Some laugh and get it.
Some... not so much. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ Oh well.. Life moves on. I've no patience to dwell on it. Ya need to have a sense of humour here and in life - otherwise... you're constantly fighting with someone. And THAT'S not me๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŒน.

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Tmptrzz 57F  
74919 posts
1/29/2020 10:38 am

You know we have all had those days I am thinking. And I have always tried to be nice when leaving comment's although I have left a few funny sarcastic ones therefore getting my point across and do I regret them Hell No..lol

You know when one is drinking and they are making comments that's usually when the truth comes out whether it be wrong or right. I think one shouldn't leave comments while drinking. Although I have done that a couple of times myself, but didn't say anything wrong or regretted.

I hope you enjoy a Humpilicious Hump Day..

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scoupe42 56M  
8234 posts
1/29/2020 10:40 am

well one thing about alcohol is it's truth serum! I seem a drunk motherfucker , that told his wife all of his wrong doings, but the next day, he wonder why she threw him out!


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/29/2020 11:04 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You know we have all had those days I am thinking. And I have always tried to be nice when leaving comment's although I have left a few funny sarcastic ones therefore getting my point across and do I regret them Hell No..lol

    You know when one is drinking and they are making comments that's usually when the truth comes out whether it be wrong or right. I think one shouldn't leave comments while drinking. Although I have done that a couple of times myself, but didn't say anything wrong or regretted.

    I hope you enjoy a Humpilicious Hump Day..
The truth comes out? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
But you're the most polite person on this whole island ๐Ÿ.
Yep... I wouldn't expect you to ruffle anyone's feathers.
I'm looking for an A F F blog monitor. I'd send you the stuff to proof - before I press enter... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Hmmm... I should follow your example. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿทโ—๐Ÿ˜Ž

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
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1/29/2020 11:06 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    well one thing about alcohol is it's truth serum! I seem a drunk motherfucker , that told his wife all of his wrong doings, but the next day, he wonder why she threw him out!
Eeee... THAT, doesn't sound like a happy ending at all. omg ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
So it's a truth serum, is it? ๐Ÿค”
Hmmm... okie dokie. I'll triple check my comment next time, to make sure. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜Žโ—

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


BeccaLuvs 58F  
17993 posts
1/29/2020 1:42 pm

Guess Paul it is better then "drinking and driving", eh?! And maybe just a bitty safer!

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kimberliejo1 43F  
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1/29/2020 2:25 pm

Hey Paul Sweetie... how ya doin' babe,,, did you do something wrong sweetie, Lol...
I was reading thru all your stuff on this post,,, yeah... and you know... I was covered
under all the 'don'ts' on here, yelp I was Lol... If it's not early morning, I'm drinking...
I'm always joyously happy,,, especially if I'm drinking, Lol... I will comment whether
I'm on my period or not... and I'm HEATED when on here,,, possibly 'hot flashes',
possibly 'horny',,, not sure... my face is always red! I probably shouldn't ever comment,
should I... man,,, I want to though!!! That's where we go wrong isn't it? Lol KJ

Putting your heart on your sleeve is a step towards making a lifelong friend!


Paulxx001 62M
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1/29/2020 2:46 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Guess Paul it is better then "drinking and driving", eh?! And maybe just a bitty safer!
lol ๐Ÿ˜‚... I rarely ever comment if I've got a glass ๐Ÿธ in my hands. I'll bet you.... could teach me a thing or two. Ice? ๐Ÿค” lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ Take care... ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
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1/29/2020 3:02 pm

    Quoting kimberliejo1:
    Hey Paul Sweetie... how ya doin' babe,,, did you do something wrong sweetie, Lol...
    I was reading thru all your stuff on this post,,, yeah... and you know... I was covered
    under all the 'don'ts' on here, yelp I was Lol... If it's not early morning, I'm drinking...
    I'm always joyously happy,,, especially if I'm drinking, Lol... I will comment whether
    I'm on my period or not... and I'm HEATED when on here,,, possibly 'hot flashes',
    possibly 'horny',,, not sure... my face is always red! I probably shouldn't ever comment,
    should I... man,,, I want to though!!! That's where we go wrong isn't it? Lol KJ
Hey...! โ—How have ya been? Life got a hold of you? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ‘Good for you.
Wow... Yep. Ya covered all of the bases... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ omg... THAT'S... when I rattle off, some of my best comments. Unless I slip.
Me? Mess up? ๐Ÿค” Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ Ooops...
No worries. It's all good.
So good to hear from you. I'm sure you've got tales to weave. I look forward to them. In fact I can't wait... โ—๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐ŸŒน

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


pocogato12 67F  
32105 posts
1/29/2020 5:24 pm

Hmm some sage advice here along with some thyme and rosemary. I try always not to leave rude or disturbing comments on others blogs- sometimes I just wander away if I either dont get it or it makes me angry. Have to do a re-think if I go back. I rarely post anything if I have more than 2 drinks- cant type worth shit and my secretary leaves at 2. Cats are no help at all

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Paulxx001 62M
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1/29/2020 6:35 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Hmm some sage advice here along with some thyme and rosemary. I try always not to leave rude or disturbing comments on others blogs- sometimes I just wander away if I either dont get it or it makes me angry. Have to do a re-think if I go back. I rarely post anything if I have more than 2 drinks- cant type worth shit and my secretary leaves at 2. Cats are no help at all
Nobody should take my advice... I can't take my own.
I don't post anything worthy past a certain glass ๐Ÿธ ๐Ÿธ count, but.. I have drifted on to comment... somewhere. And THAT has been less fun
.
About that cat? What if you trained her to dial 9 1 1...? ๐Ÿค”

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/29/2020 7:44 pm

    Quoting  :

... well... there WAS, a thought process there... somewhere... ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿท๐Ÿทโ—๐Ÿ˜Žโญ•
Well... visual is good.
hmmm.. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—
Cheers... ๐Ÿ˜Š I'll be good. You? ๐Ÿค”

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


mc_justmc 59M  
5562 posts
1/29/2020 7:47 pm

My last 2 posts didn't get a result I wanted, so after a few comments I deleted them and now choose NOT to blog. Problem solved.


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/29/2020 8:51 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    My last 2 posts didn't get a result I wanted, so after a few comments I deleted them and now choose NOT to blog. Problem solved.
Don't be discouraged by that. Numbers are down all around. My comments are way off.
If u feel like writing it, go for it.
I... got nailed with a comment I made. I wasn't paying attention... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Yeah... if it's in your head - share it. โ—

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Koffla 63M
55743 posts
1/29/2020 11:58 pm


I am glad I quit drinking years ago.



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sexyldy1000 59F  
4602 posts
1/30/2020 4:07 am

Written words leave a lasting impression; once they are published, they cannot be unseen. People are mistaken to think, simply deleting them, absolves them from responsibility. I respect someone who acknowledges they have screwed up and apologizes. Itโ€™s a lesson many could learn from.

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.


azriel1970 49M  
29001 posts
1/30/2020 4:56 am

I will say I wish I was drunk when I commented on here as I am sure they would be far more interesting than what I do now. As far as I know I have never seen anything that you have posted that crossed a line in my humble opinion. So I say comment away my friend!


TicklePlease 52F  
12632 posts
1/30/2020 5:52 am

I'd like to think I can be just as cunty sober as I am drunk.


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/30/2020 7:21 am

    Quoting Koffla:

    I am glad I quit drinking years ago.

THAT my friend... is A GREAT accomplishment. You have much to be grateful for. ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘ Best of luck to you.

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
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1/30/2020 7:26 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Written words leave a lasting impression; once they are published, they cannot be unseen. People are mistaken to think, simply deleting them, absolves them from responsibility. I respect someone who acknowledges they have screwed up and apologizes. Itโ€™s a lesson many could learn from.
Once you write it... you can't un see it. Hmmm... Sorta like when I accidentally saw my 77 year old neighbour naked? ๐Ÿค”
Yeah... Silly me. You just can't delete stuff and hope people never read it.
Oh well... I wonder what I learned. Except not to press ENTER, next time.
So... you've never made a boo boo here or elsewhere? โ—โญ•๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜Ž

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/30/2020 7:29 am

    Quoting azriel1970:
    I will say I wish I was drunk when I commented on here as I am sure they would be far more interesting than what I do now. As far as I know I have never seen anything that you have posted that crossed a line in my humble opinion. So I say comment away my friend!
Thanks for the vote of confidence.
I may (or may not) have made a comment on someone else's blog....
I think... ๐Ÿ˜ถ๐Ÿ˜Ž
Anyway... I'll be good, from now on.
Until next FUCKING time... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ Ooops.. Have a good one buddy! cheers ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ‘

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
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1/30/2020 7:32 am

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    I'd like to think I can be just as cunty sober as I am drunk.


Oooo... eeeee.... Ahhh
... Scary ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ”ฅ
Yep... Go for it. ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿ˜Ž
I'm sure your inner monologue holds you back from time to time.
Although... when I read your comments - I often say ;"Damn... I wish I'D have said that!." ๐Ÿท๐Ÿทโ—๐Ÿ˜Ž

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


sexyldy1000 59F  
4602 posts
1/30/2020 12:41 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Once you write it... you can't un see it. Hmmm... Sorta like when I accidentally saw my 77 year old neighbour naked? ๐Ÿค”
    Yeah... Silly me. You just can't delete stuff and hope people never read it.
    Oh well... I wonder what I learned. Except not to press ENTER, next time.
    So... you've never made a boo boo here or elsewhere? โ—โญ•๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜Ž
Yes, I have made a mistake with a comment I posted on another blog. The backlash shook me to the core. As with all experiences, I learned from it and it shall never be repeated.

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/30/2020 1:07 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Yes, I have made a mistake with a comment I posted on another blog. The backlash shook me to the core. As with all experiences, I learned from it and it shall never be repeated.
Shook you to the core? Really?
Wow... sounds intense. If you want to talk about it.... feel free to share.

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


sexyldy1000 59F  
4602 posts
1/30/2020 3:22 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Shook you to the core? Really?
    Wow... sounds intense. If you want to talk about it.... feel free to share.
Thank you for the offer. It's not something that will be discussed or shared for all to see. I was fortunate to have a close friend who provided a shoulder to cry on and advice.

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.


misskissin 56F  
84827 posts
1/30/2020 3:31 pm

Paul, I think your writing has gotten better of the years. I always look forward to your posts. I have never seen anything you have said where I shook my head... nodded yes, but never shook. I think you are fine honey. Don't be too hard on yourself. We are all human.


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/30/2020 7:17 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Thank you for the offer. It's not something that will be discussed or shared for all to see. I was fortunate to have a close friend who provided a shoulder to cry on and advice.
I understand... ๐Ÿ˜Š

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/30/2020 7:21 pm

    Quoting misskissin:
    Paul, I think your writing has gotten better of the years. I always look forward to your posts. I have never seen anything you have said where I shook my head... nodded yes, but never shook. I think you are fine honey. Don't be too hard on yourself. We are all human.
You... are too kind... ๐Ÿ˜Šโ—
I get into spots where my sense of humour isn't always understood, sometimes mistaken for something else.
And then, I've had moments where my inner monologue disappears.
We're only human? Ya mean ALL of us? ๐Ÿค” lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ Ooops... Have a good one! ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ‘

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


author51 57F  
88311 posts
1/30/2020 11:50 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    The truth comes out? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
    But you're the most polite person on this whole island ๐Ÿ.
    Yep... I wouldn't expect you to ruffle anyone's feathers.
    I'm looking for an A F F blog monitor. I'd send you the stuff to proof - before I press enter... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
    Hmmm... I should follow your example. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿทโ—๐Ÿ˜Ž


One can never have enough JOY in their life...


Paulxx001 replies on 1/31/2020 1:53 am:
i misspelled the word 'combining', that's why I erased my remarks to you. I was going to fix it.
You're too quick for me... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿ‘

author51 57F  
88311 posts
1/31/2020 1:01 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Well... she's polite with me.
    What? ๐Ÿค”... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ I should ask YOU to help me edit? ๐Ÿค”
    Omg... we'd BOTH be banned, don't you think? ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’ฆ
    Imagine combing BOTH our tempers?
    Wow... What a shit storm THAT would be.
    Who cares. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐ŸŒนโ˜•โ˜•โญ•๐Ÿ˜Ž
    On second though... never mind the coffee โ˜•. Let's just go with the wine. ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท
LMFAO!!!!!! Seeing I am a published author and have done some online editing for a publishing company,I think you and I would make a great team my coffee mate....lol. Interesting to say the least...lol.Make it Merlot and ya got a deal...lol.

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/31/2020 1:08 am

    Quoting author51:
    LMFAO!!!!!! Seeing I am a published author and have done some online editing for a publishing company,I think you and I would make a great team my coffee mate....lol. Interesting to say the least...lol.Make it Merlot and ya got a deal...lol.
Ooops... I'm messing up here. Tried to correct something and I accidentally deleted it...
Ok...
I'm not talking about editing skills.
I KNOW you /we could edit.
I'm worried about me - not having an inner monologue... and YOU cheering me on... FFS lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿ”ฅโญ•โ—
We'd be in deep doo doo.
Would we have fun? ๐Ÿค”
Of course...
I'm about to make a pot of coffee. โ˜• Wanna stay for a cup? ๐Ÿค”

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/31/2020 1:10 am

Well... she's polite with me.
What? ๐Ÿค”... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ I should ask YOU to help me edit? ๐Ÿค”
Omg... we'd BOTH be banned, don't you think? ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’ฆ
Imagine combining BOTH our tempers?
Wow... What a shit storm THAT would be.
Who cares. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐ŸŒนโ˜•โ˜•โญ•๐Ÿ˜Ž
On second though... never mind the coffee โ˜•. Let's just go with the wine. ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿท ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท

I'm messing things up here... ugh... ignore A F F fingers... ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/31/2020 1:16 am

    Quoting author51:
    LMFAO!!!!!! Seeing I am a published author and have done some online editing for a publishing company,I think you and I would make a great team my coffee mate....lol. Interesting to say the least...lol.Make it Merlot and ya got a deal...lol.
Here's the thing...
I don't know about you but... sometimes I have my finger on the ENTER button and then I read the shit that I've written and I say.... "Woah... Wait a minute. Nobody will get THAT joke."
... or... " Holy crap. I can't tell that person those words."
You and I in the same room editing? lmao... Wow... There would be fireworks... on those pages.
And perhaps elsewhere. ๐Ÿ˜ถ

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Koffla 63M
55743 posts
1/31/2020 3:21 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    THAT my friend... is A GREAT accomplishment. You have much to be grateful for. ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘ Best of luck to you.

Yep, it's been 23 years without a drink, I don't miss it either.



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Koffla 63M
55743 posts
1/31/2020 3:22 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    My last 2 posts didn't get a result I wanted, so after a few comments I deleted them and now choose NOT to blog. Problem solved.

What! You stopped blogging?



Bikes Are In My Blood

Check me out @ Welcome To The Dark Side


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/31/2020 5:30 am

    Quoting Koffla:

    Yep, it's been 23 years without a drink, I don't miss it either.

I'm pretty sure, you're setting a GREAT example for those who are close to you.โ—
I'm not a slave to that liquid, but I know a friend who is. It's sad. And... I can't seem to do anything to help him.

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


author51 57F  
88311 posts
1/31/2020 8:33 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Ooops... I'm messing up here. Tried to correct something and I accidentally deleted it...
    Ok...
    I'm not talking about editing skills.
    I KNOW you /we could edit.
    I'm worried about me - not having an inner monologue... and YOU cheering me on... FFS lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿ”ฅโญ•โ—
    We'd be in deep doo doo.
    Would we have fun? ๐Ÿค”
    Of course...
    I'm about to make a pot of coffee. โ˜• Wanna stay for a cup? ๐Ÿค”
But I have no filter either my coffee mate.. God it would be fun and yes I can see fireworks happening for sure.. No I have had my fill of coffee and now on my lunchtime glass of Merlot..Cheers Pal.....lol.

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


Paulxx001 replies on 1/31/2020 8:46 am:
You too. Later... ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜Ž

Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
1/31/2020 1:30 pm

    Quoting  :

True! โ— And your observations make a lot of sense. ๐Ÿ‘
I do get into hot ๐Ÿ”ฅ water when I stick my foot in my mouth.
Any tools or advice on how to get THAT thing outta my tonsils? ๐Ÿค”
Lol.. ๐Ÿ˜‚ Hey. Thanks for popping in. Drop by any time. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
2/3/2020 5:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Good safety tip ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿน๐Ÿบ๐Ÿฅƒ๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿป

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
2/7/2020 5:01 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Written words leave a lasting impression; once they are published, they cannot be unseen. People are mistaken to think, simply deleting them, absolves them from responsibility. I respect someone who acknowledges they have screwed up and apologizes. Itโ€™s a lesson many could learn from.
30 cm of snow on the ground.
I'm snowed under but my car is equipped and capable... so am I.
wanna go for a drive? the road is smooth, the sound is chill and I've got plenty of food for us.
That's where I'd be tonight. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’ฆโญ•

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


lusciouslessa22 54F
2 posts
2/9/2020 7:47 am

I have never read blogs before. Im going to do this too....drink and blog that is! lol I think all strong, ballsy women are the same way...you described me to a tea. Very enjoyable! I will be looking in again. Thanks so much for the advice! Happy Sunday..


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
2/9/2020 10:28 am

    Quoting lusciouslessa22:
    I have never read blogs before. Im going to do this too....drink and blog that is! lol I think all strong, ballsy women are the same way...you described me to a tea. Very enjoyable! I will be looking in again. Thanks so much for the advice! Happy Sunday..
Happy to oblige. I look forward to reading your blog.
Welcome to the Abyss. ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿ”ฅโญ•๐Ÿ˜Žโ—

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


HornyBoy6969767 43M
61 posts
2/10/2020 3:35 pm

Don't know what to say. I need a drink.


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
2/10/2020 3:53 pm

Yep... lol ... sounds like a plan.
Cheers... ๐Ÿ‘

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


sexyldy1000 59F  
4602 posts
2/10/2020 9:20 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    30 cm of snow on the ground.
    I'm snowed under but my car is equipped and capable... so am I.
    wanna go for a drive? the road is smooth, the sound is chill and I've got plenty of food for us.
    That's where I'd be tonight. ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’ฆโญ•
No doubt you are 'equipped and capable' for just about any situation.
Going for a drive with no destination in mind is the kind I enjoy the most. I am ready; are you?

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
2/11/2020 5:59 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    No doubt you are 'equipped and capable' for just about any situation.
    Going for a drive with no destination in mind is the kind I enjoy the most. I am ready; are you?
hang on a sec... I've gotta plow outta my driveway.
More snow ๐ŸŒจ last night... I could be there by early April? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐Ÿ’ฆ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ โ—
... at this rate... omg ๐Ÿ˜‚

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Vixn_Vella 45F  
14917 posts
2/11/2020 7:37 am

As far as I'm concerned, anything anyone says or does whilst imbibed is their authentic self. They don't refer to it as liquid courage for nothing.

I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella

Its not me....It's you.

And no...we cannot be friends


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
2/11/2020 8:58 am

    Quoting Vixn_Vella:
    As far as I'm concerned, anything anyone says or does whilst imbibed is their authentic self. They don't refer to it as liquid courage for nothing.
Reeeelee... ๐Ÿ˜Š? ๐Ÿค”
I'm 50-50 on that. Is it possible that it's just their judgement that flies out of the window?
I've known those who regret their decisions after a drink and I know others who don't give a care. Which one are you? ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


Vixn_Vella 45F  
14917 posts
2/11/2020 10:50 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Reeeelee... ๐Ÿ˜Š? ๐Ÿค”
    I'm 50-50 on that. Is it possible that it's just their judgement that flies out of the window?
    I've known those who regret their decisions after a drink and I know others who don't give a care. Which one are you? ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Judgement is judgement and of course people regret actions and decisions. But unless you are blackout drunk, you know what is right and wrong and what you feel and want.

There's two types of people, forgiveness and permission. I am a total forgiveness person.

Fyi....I don't drink.

I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella

Its not me....It's you.

And no...we cannot be friends


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
2/11/2020 11:09 am

    Quoting Vixn_Vella:
    Judgement is judgement and of course people regret actions and decisions. But unless you are blackout drunk, you know what is right and wrong and what you feel and want.

    There's two types of people, forgiveness and permission. I am a total forgiveness person.

    Fyi....I don't drink.
Wise words to live by. I like that way of thinking. I've had to forgive a bunch of people along the path of my life... and I'm sure a few of them, had to forgive me.
Not drinking is fine. Keeps the head crystal clear... more or less. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ‘โ—
Nothing worse than regrets... found in a bottle.
I think the rear view mirror is for those backing up, isn't it? ๐Ÿค”

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


longtimecuriou2 60M
5 posts
2/14/2020 12:41 am

Have to be honest and say I read stuff on here out of boredom mostly , not mad on social media but am very old , still can't understand how or why anyone attaches any importance to it , but sadly to a lot nowadays its how they live their lives it seems.


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
2/14/2020 6:27 am

    Quoting longtimecuriou2:
    Have to be honest and say I read stuff on here out of boredom mostly , not mad on social media but am very old , still can't understand how or why anyone attaches any importance to it , but sadly to a lot nowadays its how they live their lives it seems.
True... about social media and the importance people place on it.๐Ÿค”
Hey... We're not THAT old yet... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿ‘

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


BAMPB 41F  

2/18/2020 11:10 pm

Dammit Paul, you're killing my blogging time....lol


Paulxx001 62M
15253 posts
2/19/2020 4:35 am

    Quoting BAMPB:
    Dammit Paul, you're killing my blogging time....lol
Such a pleasure to do that when you visit me with that cute bum of yours. ๐Ÿ’ฆ๐Ÿ”ฅโ—
Happy to oblige! ๐Ÿ‘ โ—๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ๐Ÿ˜Ž

... is there another way to look at it.
Coincidence... or destiny The Bench


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