"We exist because of sex. It's not something to be afraid of.  

Red_Elf 46F  
672 posts
6/9/2017 12:14 am
"We exist because of sex. It's not something to be afraid of.


It's something to honor, to enjoy." --Sun Ba, Sense8

Sun's perspective on sex in this tiny bit really spoke to me.

See, I know my healthy intimate relationships have been life changing experiences. If they are worthwhile, the relationship becomes something that motivates change, growth, and helps improve my own self-respect.

On the other hand, the marriage that became emotionally abusive and harmful, stifled change, growth, harmed my self-respect, and derailed my life.

If we are all the sum of our experiences, then these experiences can be meaningless, but they also have the potential to alter our mental, emotional, and physical trajectories.

It is those moments when I am able to fully engage, and fully enjoy that are the ones that have changed me for the better.

I won't discount some sex just for fun here and there, but what I definitely am looking for is the next experience that allows me to explore the depth of existence, and to honor, to enjoy, like Sun says here.

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ProfPlayful 55M
3859 posts
6/11/2017 3:54 pm

In our human intimacy we should honor each other. The greater the intimacy, the greater the honor.

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Red_Elf replies on 6/11/2017 4:13 pm:

Mystic_Writer 45M  
3153 posts
6/13/2017 6:16 am

Sense8 was awesome. To bad Netflix canceled it.


Red_Elf replies on 6/13/2017 7:32 pm:
I haven't counted it out yet.

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