Just the way you are  

Rumble59 59M
68 posts
6/4/2017 8:37 am
Just the way you are

As I was reading through the blogs this morning, I saw a post of a 41 year old female who was worried about losing her desirability due to age. My thought was you are beautiful and my response to her was "I like you just the way you are."

It started my mind thinking. I have or had all the problems associated with being over 50. Low-T, too much weight (although I am now just 5 pounds from my long term goal), frequent heartburn, arthritis, a reluctant penis, and sometimes an inability to ejaculate. Yet, amazingly enough, most of my sexual partners want to see me again and express satisfaction. Have I just found the most understanding women in the world or is something else at work?

I believe it is the latter and best summed up as when life gives you lemons, make lemonade. The low-t was cured by a trip to the urologist and the heartburn by the EN&T specialist. Watching my caloric intake and stress from a divorce helped me lose 45 pounds over a two year period (currently 6 ft. and 200 pounds). Working out keeps the arthritis under control. As for the reluctant penis, more foreplay with my partner and patience on my part goes a long ways. I find if I am unable to cum during the night, I follow the advice of my FWB. "Wake that bitch up in the morning." Guess what? Usually achieve release and my partners tell me morning sex is their favorite.

The point is I am not perfect. I can only play to my strengths and find ways to overcome my weaknesses. Those who try to be perfect or only seek perfection are in for a lifetime of disappointment. We are people and people are human. All humans prosper or fail at various times. Give me a partner who accepts herself and me just the way I am. The sex will be great and we each will be begging for more.

Rumble in the Jungle

PonyGirl1965 53F
10737 posts
6/22/2017 1:44 am

You have the right idea. Women are too hard on themselves. The media likes to imply that we should be full busted yet slender, smooth - no wrinkles ever aka perfect and thats not real. Acceptance is beautiful

Rumble59 replies on 6/22/2017 5:20 am:
Acceptance is beautiful ... and very sexy. 😍

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