Misleading profiles  

SassyGigi 54F  
5867 posts
6/27/2017 7:26 pm
Misleading profiles

I have received a lot of messages lately from couples that it doesn't turn out to be a couple. It's a single guy. They all say that they were a couple but have broken up. Funny thing is one guy just joined last week but is already saying he's now a single male.

Is it cheaper to join as a couple instead of a single male? Why can't people just be honest? How do you expect to get it you are lying about who you are? Hmmm!


SassyGigi 54F  
7616 posts
6/27/2017 7:27 pm

Why not simply edit your profile?


sphxdiver 69M  
20558 posts
6/27/2017 7:33 pm

Seems the flood gates have opened up, the site is loaded with all kinds of fake profiles right now.

guys do that in an attempt to try and get a free gold membership, thus avoid having to pay for one.

voyeurs53 40M/39F  
326 posts
6/27/2017 7:36 pm

It costs $9.90 to update your gender... if you don't want to pay and keep the friends you have, you're kind of stuck... however, that is a very fair criticism...

redrockrascal 60M
20177 posts
6/27/2017 7:46 pm

Why can't people just be honest? This is the inter/web/nets, anonymity rules honesty not so much.

How do you expect to get it you are lying about who you are? Many liars are also kinda not so smart.

On my default search, which is the Phoenix area, there are loads of women who have single female profiles but are couples. But when I look at a list of members in AZ there are lots of couples looking for other couples. It doesn't make much sense to not post yourself as whom you really are. It defeats the sites system.

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CedarsPrince 39M
790 posts
6/27/2017 8:08 pm

It's very common

Just got this message from a member on here

Speaking of... before we push ahead I want to cam chat through my site to break the ice more personally. Which I totally get if that weirds you out, so I'll lay everything out and break it down so there's no surprises.

First off I don't want ur money... and I'm not some kind of call girl, cam girl or fake chick (just putting that out there). I can't use skype, facetime, kik, snapchat or other messengers n apps because I'm replacing my phone (water damage) and switching to a new carrier. Also have some weird cam compatibility error issue on my laptop, so my site is the one way I've found that actually works. Just really bad circumstances which is why I mentioned my site in the first place.

Can also vouch for integrity and confidentiality since I put my own info on there to have my cam connected. But like I said before... never intended that this be about money, but will tell you upfront the tokens are 10.99... one time thing... and I can give it back when we meet or treat us for drinks if its going to be a huge problem, so I'll make sure we're totally square. Anyway, once you're connected there's no per minute charge or anything screwy like that.... and I mentioned this as a way for us to chat more personally, not an invite to a cam show with an audience... if you chat with me it would only be you and I. So all that said... if you're willing to give me a chance let me know and I'll give you my cam link. If not, then I totally understand and no hard feelings, but sorry for being so lame

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porterpiper1 52F
3762 posts
6/27/2017 8:44 pm

I am still trying to understand why lie too, I got a message from so call women turn out to be men, saying they are a couple looking to add a third person, yet you never here from the woman, I got one message from a couple I did talk to the female but I notice the male was pushing her to get me to me with them, I said no not interested anymore, I felt uneasy about this couple, so now I just come here to blog, read blogs, and comment on blogs, it is sad because I know there are a lot of nice and honest people on here, but the bad ones make it hard for the good ones

CeriosEros 34M
644 posts
6/27/2017 10:07 pm

It's hard for a single guy to get a response. You just disappear into a sea of other guys who are trying to get noticed but if you have a couple on your profile at least you stand out.

readyforgoodnite 52M/52F  
99 posts
6/27/2017 10:47 pm

It is not just people posing as single. It seems that, (or appears so) that the majority of the womens profiles are either misleading or not real. You read their profile and match up very closely. They say they want something and say message me. So you do and never ever get a response. No matter how tasteful you respond. We have come to the conclusion that 80% or more of the female profiles are just old or completely fake

MyBaffies 49M
3559 posts
6/28/2017 1:23 am

There are a number of single female profiles which start off with "We are a couple and we always play together" or something like that.

So why didn't you create a couples profile then? Just think of all the single guys who match with your location and have had to pay to view your profile and then find out it's a couple?

I did report some to the site, but they don't do anything.


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s2ndegree 60M  
9177 posts
6/28/2017 3:25 am

People lie enough to make this site and a good majority of
it's members not wanting to meet anyone.
It's an perpetual disbelief that has more
people crouched behind their overturned sofa(s)
waiting for the doorbell to stop ringing.
Even with the door chained that's all they
need to get a foot in there.

Using more than all the road!

CleavageFan4U 62M  
58043 posts
6/28/2017 3:30 am

I TOO have been approached by "couples" where the male wants to meet first "jut to make sure everything is safe". Uhh, yeahhh - NO!

As I know all too well, single males on here are a dime a dozen, and this is just a lame attempt to stand out a bit.

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pocogato12 67F  
27764 posts
6/28/2017 5:08 am

All I can say is get your hip waders on and step carefully. They are back-and they multiply - the invasion from the Cornfield

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Tmptrzz 56F  
62129 posts
6/28/2017 8:38 am

There has been a lot of chatter and complaints about this very thing, and I know the sites used to give free gold to the couples, and I think that's the reason many do this. It's sad and ruins it for the real couples joining the site. Great blog hun glad you brought this subject to the fore front..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!

GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1788 posts
6/28/2017 1:06 pm

It is a pet peeve of mine! All the BS is ridiculous on here...with the fake profiles. Pretty pathetic for someone to make a fake couples profile. Can we say desperate? Always a good idea to try to start something with a lie!

I actually wrote a blog the other day about a profile that I watched go from a single/divorced profile to a couples profile and then back to a single/divorced one again.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL

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