About One Night Stands  

Suppletitties 58M
107 posts
8/30/2017 11:14 am
About One Night Stands

OK LET ME BE CLEAR THIS IS MY PERSONAL OPINION ON ONE NIGHT STANDS.

One night stands are not a bad thing, it's not a thing about the man either, because at the end of the day it's a woman who determines whether a guys gets another bite at the apple or whether he is left begging.

the logic being that men are always asking for sex and women are granting the sexual opportunity.

In my lifetime this is what a typical one night stand looks like:

the woman is not on the top of my list of conquest, she's not the most attractive, she might have some weight, but she makes herself available so we get together and fuck and it's ok not the greatest, but it's also our first time and most dudes know you gotta get it a couple of times to really determine whethers it worthwhile.
well call her again and get together and then again and again and then 14 years later you are still doing six or seven times a month----geez long one night you think.

2. You get together with a woman, because her boyfriend wants to break up with her,,,,,you are his go to guy you fuck her real good so she forgets him and then she's your regular one or twice a week you go bust that ass out,,,,,for two or three years and then she gets a boyfirend and cuts you off.....which is cool I respect her getting a boyfriend. Then she realizes that she's got a damn fool, he smokes, he drinks and above all he doesn'e know shit nor does he want to know shit,,,,,so she thinks about the one night stand who bust that ass out and then leaves........eight weeks later she's back and wanting a spot in the rotation.

Finally 3. You met this lady, she's adorable, nice etc....so you go over and get up in that ass and you'relike cool, cant wait until the next time and she's like elusive, non conmitted etc.....she's not all in and that is your one night stand.

now it's funny, because one night stands apply to women of a certain generation usually born before 1988, because older women have been told by their mothers, grandmothers etc that men will take advantage of you and think you are a slut, whore, B or something less than an honorable woman a tramp...while younger women go for the "hook up" and keep it moving without thinking like their older counter parts.

So, anyway you ladies that refuse to allow that second or third bite at the apple are the ones that are one night stand candidates,,,,,,no man really wants to hit it and quit it,,,,,,he'd rather have an ongoing REGULAR FUCK.


BiggLala 47F  
25511 posts
8/30/2017 12:02 pm

This post is not quite accurate. However, I recognize everyone's mileage varies.

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Heathen_G 60M
6321 posts
8/30/2017 1:01 pm

at the end of the day it's a woman who determines whether a guys gets another bite at the apple . ... As it happens, the man also determines if she is going to get any of his dick again.

You may have a self esteem problem since you didn't even consider you could reject her pussy after hitting it once. Some women you need to just hit-it-and-quit-it.

no man really wants to hit it and quit it,, ... Oh sure men do. No man with any self esteem has to commit himself to hitting one pussy. He can if he is over 30, sure, but he can quit it after tapping it.... and move on just the same.

,,,,he'd rather have an ongoing REGULAR FUCK. .. Not necessarily. He can have booty calls, fwbs , dating [having sex with different women]....Men who want to anchor himself to just one pussy, usually has self esteem problems or the fool thinks he has to get married.


seems6666 48F
2022 posts
8/30/2017 1:19 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    This post is not quite accurate. However, I recognize everyone's mileage varies.
Lala you're slacking,, you missed out the bit where he said" she's not the most attractive, she might have some weight, but she makes herself available"
(I'm sure she was grateful... obviously)


Suppletitties 58M
198 posts
8/30/2017 2:32 pm

serious look at this site,,,,,,,,,,,,

and think about what you considered a first round draft pick and thoroughbred (triple crown winner) you see all kinds here,,,,,,,,,,,,and they are first rounders to some and bottom of the barrel to others..


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1745 posts
8/30/2017 2:33 pm

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeahhhhhhh I'm glad you stated it was just your opinion....lol

I don't do one night stands...not because I was told I'd be a slut or whore or any other kind of woman if I did. I love sex...

BUT........

It's because for ME......I put a higher value on myself. I feel I'm worth the effort of time spent knowing me, cultivating a friendship with me, learning the kind of woman I am. And me the gentleman as well. If it's not worth some time to a guy......well that's perfectly fine! I will wave as he walks away.....

That is just my opinion......

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


Suppletitties replies on 8/30/2017 8:02 pm:
The one night stand start when the woman says yes, otherwise it's just conversation and begging and you know that.

Suppletitties 58M
198 posts
8/30/2017 2:36 pm

at 56 in 2017, it's almost as easy as it was in 1979-81 when I played basketball at the Univ. of Cincinnati......


BiggLala 47F  
25511 posts
8/30/2017 4:43 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    Lala you're slacking,, you missed out the bit where he said" she's not the most attractive, she might have some weight, but she makes herself available"
    (I'm sure she was grateful... obviously)
Nah, I'm not slacking. I chose not to dignify that portion of the post in my comment. As I said...this post is not...quite...accurate.

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positively4you 69F  
3224 posts
8/30/2017 9:33 pm

Now I'm really confused.


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