Where to go Next  

TopTwentyPercent 56M  
201 posts
9/26/2017 9:02 am
Where to go Next


This last week, I lost my primary partner and playmate. We have been together for 3 years. She is/was my best friend. I will only say that we are very different people and the chasms finally became too wide. I actually went to church with her and she did some swinging with me.

Ya, the differences were vast.

Now I am at a bit of quagmire. Where do I look for my new primary partner. I have found the highest quality women on more vanilla sites. I have met a few good friends here on Meelp, but they tend to be at a temporary point in their life. They want to experience something fun and wild and then move on to their next best thing.

I have several women in my life but while we have really cool friendships and some amazing sex, but there is probably not a true partnership in the offing.

Another lady that I was going to try and connect with said that one of her friends had her download "Bumble" where she met a man. This lady and I have been out a couple of times, but since I was with "Blondie", she was really not interested in seeing me as a prospective primary.

Last night, I downloaded "Tinder" and started swiping.

It is all about attitude, approach and presentation! What is your AAP?


author51 57F  
92491 posts
9/27/2017 10:38 am

Good luck to you but always remember there are also some High quality women on this site as well. We are human beings with hearts still, who can also be highly sexual at the same time.. Thank you for commenting on my blog so I could return the favor.

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


TopTwentyPercent replies on 9/27/2017 11:07 am:
Thank you for dropping by my blog. I figured that there are some high quality women here, but they have not made themselves known to me. It seems like as soon as I got on other websites, it was amazing. I think for the ladies here, there is a lot of distraction!

author51 57F  
92491 posts
9/28/2017 12:05 am

    Quoting author51:
    Good luck to you but always remember there are also some High quality women on this site as well. We are human beings with hearts still, who can also be highly sexual at the same time.. Thank you for commenting on my blog so I could return the favor.
Yes there is definitely a lot of distraction here...The ratio between men and women is astounding..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


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