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"You There?" -- No, I'm not, get over it
"You There?" -- No, I'm not, get over it Before discussing this any further, let's get it out of the way: NO! IF I DIDN'T RESPOND THE FIRST 4 TIMES YOU TRIED TO GET ME, THEN I'M NOT "THERE"! Ask yourself, do you really want me saying that to you before the conversation has even started? So then why ask the question? Now, getting into it, here's why she's not "there": I'm Busy Whether I'm talking to someone else or putzing around elsewhere on the internet while the site is open, either way you somehow drew the short straw. You know something, too bad. Seriously. I recognize no obligation to spend X number of minutes talking to X number of new chat requests. Get over it. I'm On Mobile I thought everyone knew this, but apparently not. When you log into the site from a mobile device, it automatically puts you on IM. So I may be checking in for various reasons, yet have no intention of talking to anyone. That has nothing to do with you. So no reason for you to be offended. I Don't Like You That's right, I said it. You know something, I'm standing by it too. Honestly, I don't want to hear your whining on this. I was polite enough to keep it to myself. You were the one who pushed it out of me by insisting to talk to you. So there it is. But you don't even know me, you're not giving me a fair chance I don't need to know you. You're 54 years old and you're coming at me with a dick pic and a username along the lines of HARD4U or some other nonsense. I know everything there is to know about you. There's only one type of guy who fits that mold, and you are NOT the exception. If you're a sophisticated and worldly man, you wouldn't have used that pic or gone with that lame and thoroughly uncreative username. Plain and simple. Plus, your age bracket and lack of experience in this arena also tells me you're married. But I didn't call you out on that, I simply ignored you. You forced it out of me. Happy now? In conclusion, asking someone "You there?" after she's repeatedly ignored all your earlier attempts is a one way ticket to being permanently ignored. There's really nothing you can do instead. Take it like a man and just try again next time. And if she still doesn't talk to you, then accept the fact that she doesn't want to talk to you. If you can't handle that, then this is a sandbox you shouldn't be playing in. This one is for big boys. Ok, I ranted enough for one day |
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I deleted my preferences and have no answer means no answer. Also have it on my auto reply. A few wrote a second time thinking if they mention something like love giving oral I will answer. Ummm no. If men could respect what a profile says ALL men who wrote before deleting my preferences would not of wrote. No but I love older women or I am a fast learner. They just wasted their time. They THOUGHT they was special. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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I'll concur wholeheartedly. If he is married he should keep who he has.For the death knell rings at 50 in here anyway. Using more than all the road!
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Bless you for this post. The majority of females on here are not rude women. We have busy organized lives and when we have time to inter-connect with you we will respond. In the meantime, grow up and take it like a gentleman if we are not responding to your "pleas" please. (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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My biggest pet peeve is when they start off with gentlemen conversation and then after a few lines of chat when you don't answer right away they get upset and then start calling you names. I guess it shows their true colors.
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A million times yes! I even answer all emails that ask a question or give me an opening to continue the conversation. Now we need a post about messages that start with just, "You interested?".
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I wasn't even planning on writing this. But seriously guys, 3 times in one morning??? Are you all reading the same playbook? If so, it's failing you. Stop it.
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