What's new here?
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Posted:Oct 14, 2017 7:19 am
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2018 5:16 pm
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I've been away form here for a while. Life has been complicated. Extremely busy at work. My father became quite ill and over a month moved from the hospital to a hospice passing a couple of weeks later. Then it was planning a funeral and now it's dealing with the estate.
So I'm back checking things out here looking for some fun distractions. Some bloggers seem to have gone. Others are still quite fun.
So what's new with you all. Share!!
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Interesting time
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Posted:Jun 9, 2017 3:37 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2017 7:33 am
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NO this is not a political post. It could be. God knows that is beyond interesting. but this is about my life and the changing tides.
work is still overwhelming. Home is still difficult as a caretaker. but I think I may have found an outlet. A few weeks ago I answered a CL ad looking for a partner to write erotica. It was quite fun. She started a story and I would contribute and we would write back and forth until the story was complete. Then on to a new scenario. After a few days of this we began chatting and that let to a live meeting.
It was amazing. There is sexual chemistry that I have never before experienced. I've never been with someone this sexually open. It is refreshing and freeing. My limits are being stretched, but it is enjoyable. She is not the body type I would normally gravitate toward, but the lesson for all is that being open to new attractions can provide tremendous experiences.
This isn't bragging. It is celebrating with those in blogland who know the treasure of finding someone who is a great playmate and much more.
I hope you all can be so lucky.
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Coming up for air
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Posted:May 9, 2017 4:52 pm
Last Updated:May 11, 2017 4:10 am
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It has been way past busy for the past few months. Work has been almost overwhelming. I was already doing two people's jobs and recently had to take on two more. On top of that I'm deeply involved in two major projects, the type that happen about every ten years and rarely at the same time.
Add to that many sleepless nights over y father's failing health. And just as that started the relationship I was having with an amazing woman ended. In fairness, we mostly communicated via email and met when we could. It wasn't sexual, but it was intimate and fulfilling and over two years I had fallen for her big time. Knocked me on my butt that it ended.
But now I'm coming up for air. Work is calming. Dad is better. And I'm beginning to adjust to not having her in my life. But not having her to talk to multiple times a day has left a huge hole. It's time to fill that hole. So my mission is to figure out how. I am undaunted. She was rare, but I have a lot to offer. I know there is someone who would be the kind of supportive friend I need. Just not sure where to look.
Onward!!
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Lazy Saturday
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Posted:Mar 11, 2017 6:44 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2017 4:01 am
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It has been a long intense year so far, but today I am doing nothing. I have quite the cold and it's kicking my ass so I'm laying low.
I did treat myself to a massage this week. It turned out more interesting than I expected. I really wanted just a muscle relaxing therapeutic massage. All was going well, nice and firm, working my back, my shoulders, my arms and my legs. Then she started working my butt. Normal enough until a finger traced my crack and started lightly pushing on my asshole. Didn't expect that at all. It was ok so I didn't protest. Then she had me role over and in short order she was massaging my balls. It felt great but she didn't touch my shaft.
She grabbed my hand and wrapped it around my cock poured on the lube and told me to stoke myself.
I get the whole happy ending thing and would have enjoyed that, but DIY? Not really the kind of relaxation I went in for.
Life is an interesting adventure.
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What I'm missing
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Posted:Feb 4, 2017 7:03 am
Last Updated:Mar 6, 2017 6:21 pm
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This living a celibate life is getting tedious. Meelp and the blogs are entertaining but not a replacement for the real thing.
I so miss the touch of a woman. Kissing, caressing - the change in her breathing as I kiss her neck and collar bone. The feel of her body against mine as I grab her ass and pull her close so she can feel my hard cock against her through out clothes. I miss slowly undressing her, taking my time to appreciate her beauty as she is slowly exposed, looing at her body and locking eyes before I touch her tits lightly and lean down and suck on her nipples.
I could go on and on. but now I'm hard with no place to put it. I guess it's time to be a "handy" man. LOL
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What a week
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Posted:Jan 7, 2017 2:51 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2017 6:00 pm
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I haven't been posting much for a while. I have been extremely busy at work with a new job earlier this fall followed quickly by a major promotion.
A few weeks ago I had a health scare and landed in the hospital and last week my father had a very serious health scare.
ON the bright side there is this woman. She is beyond amazing. She is beautiful, caring, sensual, smart, passionate and so good to me. WE are platonic, but I am in love. We're both in situations that we can't leave for various reasons. Right now we are each other's support system and both are celibate.
Being celibate is no damn fun. Really not sure how to deal with it other than to write it off as a stage of life. But a guy does have needs.
I hope the New Year is shaping up well for you all. Keep writing in blogs.
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That's LIfe
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Posted:Dec 3, 2016 2:17 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2016 7:16 pm
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Life is a very up and down experience. Lately it's been pretty rough. I've had some health concerns, dizzy and passing out now and then. Just an unplanned nap I guess. I have been working extremely long hours and at work have had to make some pretty difficult personnel decisions that have not all been well received.
But the most difficult thing of all concerns a nephew that I'm quite close to. He has suffered with various mental health issues for years and over the past few weeks It has overwhelmed him. He has been planning his suicide. WE have gone through everything available in both treatment and legal options and were at the end of our options. Earlier this week, he made an attempt, which allowed us to get the police involved. He is now detained in a treatment center where he is safe and beginning to respond. A relief, but certainly not the end of the line.
So if you have a friend or loved one who is despondent, depressed, withdrawn or acting in abnormally defeatist manner, don't ignore it. I likely won't go away and could get much worse. Get involved and find a way to get them the help they need. You never know how impactful you can be until you try. A life may depend on it. Over the years I have talked a few friends "off the ledge" It's not easy, but it was more than worth the effort. I urge all to keep an open eye on those they love. You could be the one to make that difference.
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Tonight's Dilema
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Posted:Oct 9, 2016 2:20 pm
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2016 7:41 pm
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So I am a die hard Packer fan. It is my one distraction from the stress of real life. They play tonight at the same time as the debate. I always pay attention to Presidential debates and the one tonight may be the most interesting in our history.
Our local paper runs a live blog on the game and tonight they are adding another blog that combines the game and the debate. A possible solution.
I am recording the debate but I'm not sold on that solution. What is a guy to do. Ignore them all and just get laid? LOL
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The Conundrum
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Posted:Oct 1, 2016 7:58 am
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2016 1:34 pm
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It's a lazy Saturday. the first one in many weeks. Work has been all encompassing so no playtime at all. I'd hoped to meet with a new friend this morning but no response to an email. Sort of disappointing, but I haven't been great about emailing for the past couple of weeks, so it's more on me.
The new job has been great but exhausting. but as exhausting as it is, I actually seem to be even hornier than normal. All this desire and no time! LOL
Hopefully it will all even out soon. It may be time for some real fun soon.
I hope all of you are having a fun sexy Saturday
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Back in Circulation
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Posted:Sep 24, 2016 1:45 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2016 3:15 am
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I've been away from here for a few weeks. I started a new job, which is more than great but also very intense and busy. I had a connection with someone who might have been a long term friend, but has seemed to drift away. I guess that happens. But now I'm back on Meelp to see what/who is new and who that is not. So talk to me. What's happening in Meelp land? Who's having fun?
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First day
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Posted:Aug 30, 2016 5:51 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2016 5:19 pm
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Well the first day at the new job is under my belt and it was a great success. I was more than warmly welcomed and all the people who will be reporting to me seem quite nice and very dedicated. I may have found a home. The expectations of me are sky high, but I think achievable with a good team.
On another note, I have found a new friend. Not on Meelp though. We've been emailing since Sunday quite a bit. Hope to get together Saturday morning. She seems wonderful and pretty seductive. This could actually go somewhere.
I think I'm having a good week! Tell me about yours.
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Random thoughts on a quiet Satureday evening.
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Posted:Aug 27, 2016 5:34 pm
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2016 7:42 pm
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Having a quiet Saturday evening. Nothing going on. Just watching a great old movie, The Great Escape. I still enjoy the old classics. Maybe next I'll go for Casablanca. Any suggestions of favorite old movies would be welcomed.
I need the distraction tonight. I start a new job next week and I'm nervous as hell. Rationally I know I am more than qualified, but until I get there and get into it it is such an unknown. It is a newly created position that is not fully defined yet. Could be a good thing, but you never know how it will work out. I just hope I can sleep the next couple of nights.
I need to cook dinner yet. I get to do it all here. Cook, clean, maintenance, bills etc. So cooking it is for tonight.
And of course, since it is a day ending in the letters d-a-y, I'm horny. I really have a desire to lick a nice wet pussy. (had to get sex in here somewhere, right?) Unfortunately, there is none available to me. HRUMPH!!! That makes me think of a movie quote. "I didn't get a Hrumph our of that guy!" Can you name the movie?
So thanks for reading my random, rambling, nothing better to do Saturday night blog post. Feel free to entertain, seduce, pillory, trash or please with your comments.
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Good Guys vs Bad Boys
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Posted:Aug 24, 2016 12:41 pm
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2016 6:02 am
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I suppose for most it's just a matter of taste. But is often seems like the larger number of women prefer the bad boy type. The danger. The excitement. Whatever it is that is the attraction.
But I wonder if those of us who at least try to be the good guys are at a disadvantage. It has been sort of true for me going all the way back to high school. I made a point of trying to be supportive, caring and thoughtful with all of the girls I knew. When I would ask one out, more often than not the answer would be "we're such good friends, let's not ruin it." I was always told that the girls would outgrow this and eventually see the value in someone who tried to be "good" and do the right thing.
As I have matured (aged?) that hasn't really been true. As a matter of fact, in too may cases being the good guy has me stabbed in the back. Several friends of mine have had the same experiences.
So, I think more than anything today, I would like to get your input on this phenomenon. Guys - have you had this experience? Ladies- which do you prefer? Just thought it would be an interesting discussion.
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