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Round #2
Posted:Oct 1, 2017 7:04 pm
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2017 9:01 pm
Tomorrow is round number two of my treatment for Peyronie's disease! The injection will hurt, I won't be able to ride a bike for a week, I will have painful stretching for a few weeks, but hopefully the end result is worth it.

I'll be perfectly honest, I didn't see a big change in the curvature after the first set of injections, otherwise you would have seen some big new pics on my profile. But, they say it can take three to four treatments, and up to a year, so I will just wait it out. Thank goodness for good health insurance!

I'll post pics soon!


Couples Teasing!
Posted:Sep 4, 2017 6:33 pm
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2017 5:30 pm

Fist off, I love playing with couples! I have had several opportunities, and when it happens, it is always amazing! I know most of you couples deal with long lines of idiots and pushy jerks, just trying to get all over your wife. I understand that most guys are awful to deal with, and it probably isn't easy just getting a "normal" guy to show up and not act like a complete idiot. I totally get that.

Here's my problem. I am super nice. I'm not at all pushy. I act like a gentleman. I ask for your rules. I want to buy you guys drinks first, or bring a bottle of wine or a six pack. I'm on your turf, so it's your game!

So why do I keep getting dragged along to the meeting stage, and they left in the dark? Are there a bunch of fake couples in the Chicago area? People testing the water, but not ready to meet?

I will continue to be patient, but I really love my MMF's, and I'm waiting for my first in Chicago after more than 2.5 years! Come on couples, I'm waiting!
Xiaflex Injections & Recovery (For Peyronie's/Curve)
Posted:Aug 2, 2017 7:05 pm
Last Updated:Aug 2, 2017 7:28 pm

Hi Everyone,
Today I am writing with the first update on my procedure to correct the curvature of my penis, otherwise known as Peyronie's Disease. Today was my second Xiaflex injection, which is collagenase. This is a mixture of enzymes meant to break down the "plaque" that has formed in the penis, causing the curve to form.
The procedure involves an injection on Monday, another on Wednesday, and then a checkup plus stretching session on Friday. Depending on how well it works, I might have to go back every three to four months for a year or not at all.
To say I was nervous on Monday would be a huge understatement! When I first sat down, the doctor said he cold use a local anesthetic to numb my penis, but that would probably hurt, so I might as well just get the injection without it, which would definitely hurt. And it hurt quite a bit! But, the pain was over relatively quickly, and as I right this I feel perfectly normal after two injections with the exception of my penis being sensitive to hard pressure.
It will all be worth it if everything works out as planned! This has been about three plus years of waiting, and I'm glad I'm getting it done. I'll update you all again next month, hopefully with more progress!

Heads up to iOS and iPhone Users!
Posted:Jul 3, 2017 7:51 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2017 8:43 pm
Hey All,
I'm not sure how many folks know this, but the way you use Meelp on your mobile phone or tablet might be changing soon if you are an Apple person like me. I'll explain some of the details for those that aren't super tech-minded.
With iOS 11, iPhones and iPads will no longer be supporting 32 bit apps, which the FriendFinder app is. You may have noticed when you downloaded iOS 10 and some of its versions that a warning came up saying something to the effect of, "in future versions, this app won't be supported". Well, with iOS 11 you can't event open the app. I have been a beta tester for the new app, and now the only way to use Meelp on my iPhone is to use Safari and use the website, which is not super easy to navigate.
There are lots of apps that are 32 bit, and the developers are taking different approaches. Meelp is aware, and did respond quickly when I send them a message, but it seems that they are looking for more people to sway them to make the change. So please, if you use and iPhone or iPad, and plan on updating to the latest iOS in September, just send a quick e-mail, and ask Meelp to please make the app 64 bit. That's all it takes, ONE e-mail.
Oh yeah, they haven't updated the app in 4 years, so maybe there will be some other improvements as well!!!
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Fun meeting, but why isn't it happening more?
Posted:Jun 3, 2017 1:22 pm
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2017 11:32 pm

I recently had a great time with another Meelp member, and I wonder why it doesn't happen more often. We were both looking for the same thing, a one time FWB, we planned a time when it worked, we didn't bullshit, we met, had fun, and that was it!

I'm just not sure why this can't be the case more often. Not that we couldn't be friends, and this couldn't be a more regular thing, but isn't this the type of thing others are looking for?

I have many interests on Meelp, but when I'm looking for a single night, I express that. I set up a nice hotel room. I offer to buy drinks and provide food. I'm polite, well dressed, and the pictures I provide prior to meeting are recent.

I guess I wonder why there aren't women who are looking for the same thing as me. Or, if there are, are they so used to being fucked over that they don't trust anyone any more?

As always, I welcome any comments, questions, and/or opinions.

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Still Waiting...
Posted:May 15, 2017 7:37 pm
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2020 3:53 am


I finally got approval from insurance, but I am still delayed. I don't have a car, so getting to the doctor isn't as easy as just driving there for an appointment. The office is about 20 miles north of the city, and they don't have weekend appointments. Plus, each time I have one procedure, I have to be back in two days for a stretching and straightening follow-up. I tried to schedule it before work, but my hours can be unpredictable, and cancelling one appointment would mean rescheduling both, as well as costing me $150 if I don't give enough notice.

At this point I have scheduled with another oncologist who is closer to the city, with some Saturday hours, in the hopes that I can get this process started this month. I have had one sexual partner in the meantime, and I wasn't as good as it can be, which I can attribute to this issue, which is pretty frustrating.

I hope it all ends well.

Until next time...
Update on Peyronie's and Treatment
Posted:Apr 4, 2017 9:13 pm
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2020 3:53 am
Hi All,
In a few weeks I will begin treatment for my Peyronie's Disease, otherwise known as curved penis. There has been a little delay, as the doctor needed to get insurance approval because it is pretty expensive. Because I'm not doing this for cosmetic purposes, this can lead to painful erections and also sometimes loss of or shortened erections, it has been approved and I can move forward.
Here's how it works: over the course of nine months to a year I will have three to four rounds of 3 appointment with the doctor. The first two appointments of each round will be a collagenase injection directly into the area of the penis that is curved, usually caused by scar tissue. The third appointment will be for stretching and modeling the penis in order to shape it back to its original form. After each session there will likely be bruising and soreness, and I won't be able to have any sexual activity for two weeks.
I'm hoping this all works out for the best, and my sex life can return to normal. I'm looking forward to pain-free, longer, straighter erections, and an overall more pleasurable sexual experience once again.
Wish me luck!
Dealing with Peyronie’s Disease
Posted:Feb 11, 2017 6:56 pm
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2017 9:14 pm
I have been dealing with a secret for about 3 years. The name if it is in the title of this blog. Many of you probably don't know what it is. This is the name for the condition more commonly known as a curved penis.

Like it said in the first line, three years. As you can see in my profile pics, before that, I had a pretty straight, pretty long, penis. Not anymore.

Here's what happened. I was behind a woman, penetrating her, and she was very lubricated. I slipped out, and didn't go back in correctly. I heard and felt a small pop. It wasn't super painful. Nothing happened right away. Slowly, scar tissue started forming in two different areas of my penis. Then, I noticed my long straight dick wasn't as long and straight as it once was.

That's not even the worst part. Often erections are now painful. Sometimes, erections don't last like they used to because of pain. I have been embarrassed and dejected for quite some time. I lost confidence with women. I gained a bit of weight.

I have good news! I have recently seen a urologist, and newer treatments have been approved for Peyronie's Disease in the last couple of years. As long as it is approved by my insurance, I will have a few injections in the next few months that will break up the scar tissue, and allow my penis to return to its normal shape!

I am very excited to begin this new chapter, and I have decided to share it with all of my Meelp friends. I hope this can bring some hope to other guys who may have suffered from this problem. I am including some before pictures that show the curvature, and once I have been treated, will include new ones.

Ready for 2017!
Posted:Jan 2, 2017 7:44 pm
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2017 6:57 pm

Hi All!
I am very excited for 2017 to get moving! The last year was fun, but I think the next one will be more fun. I am back in a more familiar part of the city, Wicker Park, after a short stay in Rogers Park, and I love it. I have roommates for now, but it's temporary, and I'm excited for the spring when I'll be back in my own place!
In 2016 I met a few of the lovely ladies of Meelp in the Chicago area, and I look forward to meeting a few more in 2017. I would also like to find a few couples in the area that like an extra "M" for an occasional MFM, as this has been one of my favorite activities in the past.
I will be posting some updated pictures in the next few months, and I hope to add a new "action" gallery with the help of some participants from this site. Cheers to 2017!
The city life after 2 years
Posted:Dec 10, 2016 6:46 pm
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2020 3:53 am

Hi all!
I'm loving Chicago, and having lots of fun in "the big city". There are definitely lots of things to do in a metro area with a population of around 5 million. From sporting events to museums, to concerts to parks and just people everywhere, there is hardly a dull moment.
Sometimes, after many years on and off of this particular website, I wonder if I've been looking for the wrong type of person. When I'm on Meelp, I look for people to function simply solely as playmates, and when I'm off, it's because I've found someone with whom I'm in a relationship with that I don't think would approve of my "other" lifestyle.
I am starting to think that I should be looking for someone who is interested in both, so that I can share my lifestyle with someone, and then feel comfortable being myself while in a relationship.
If anyone out there cares to give feedback, it would be greatly appreciated! I would love to hear from those of you who have a partner that plays with you!
Bigger city, fewer Meelp meetings.
Posted:Nov 1, 2016 6:19 pm
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2020 3:53 am

I've lived in Omaha, New Orleans, Colorado Springs, Peoria, and now I'm approaching two years in Chicago, and by far I have had the fewest meetings on Meelp in this city. You would think that strictly by the numbers, I would statistically have more encounters here. Unfortunately, that is not the case. Why do you all think that is? Are people more friendly in smaller cities? Is it because the higher number of people means there are more fake profiles? I would appreciate any feedback you have.

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