I miss the old you... when it was on... we was on fire...thanks for the read...  

easy_going2014 52M
6568 posts
6/17/2017 7:31 pm
I miss the old you... when it was on... we was on fire...thanks for the read...


I miss the old you... when it was on... we was on fire...thanks for the read...

I've written blogs like this before... but, this one... is from a different point of view...

why... you might ask...

this week was unique...

First, an old flame I hadn't seen in five years texted me... I've written about her before... she is a special woman... every time we've been together has been a first... after first... after first... do you wanna know why... it's because there is a chemistry that has existed between us for over 30 years... she's told me that when we are in the same room, she gets wet, in anticipation of being made luv to by me... of me taking her to that place every single time we've been together... no one has done that for her... so... I think I will be seeing her soon... no expectations... but, I feel good... she is a free spirit... with me... it's like breathing the same breath each time... at a younger age... she was gorgeous... long blonde hair... melonlicious breasts that wanted to be sucked on... one time... I just asked her if I could just suck on them forever... initially... she said yes... but, after twenty minutes she proceeded to fuck me blind... luckily, for me, it was only a temporary condition...

Second... a co-worker took me to lunch... innocent... no sexual innuendos... just two people from work going out for 90 minutes of enjoyment at a mexican food restaurant, near the office... I had asked her to go out to lunch... we'd gone a couple of times before... and, she had shared some sadness in her life with me... I listened and let her talk... but, this time was different... we talked about many things... we laughed... she picked up the tab and thanked me for making her feel good... no sex... but, eating lunch with a man... and feeling good about it made her week... I have no issues with picking up the tab... and, I have no issues with women paying for me... I'm just a simple man...

Third... a blogger that I hadn't heard from in months... returned, and not only read, but, actually responded to my blogs... She is a fine woman... melonlicious to be sure... some day, maybe fireworks will happen between us... no expectations... because... none are required... but, I had a great week...
and, so when I heard this song... it got me to thinking about... I do appreciate

what I have, when I have it... because too often pain last too long, and happiness is gone too fast... ain't that the truth...

Give this one a read... and, then... give it a listen...

"I miss the old you
The one that held me down and kinda told the truth
At Warwick every Wednesday
Can't control you
Partyin' with rappers
Actin' hoeish too
You got yourself a singer, ah
When it was on, we was on fire
Even let you and your girls go whip the Ghost 'round town
Draped you head to toe in Gucci Ghost, wow
And I never got a single fuckin' thank you from you
Or, "I love you daddy"
You ungrateful bitch
The more the baddie, more the bratty
Man, I'd take you out for dinners
Take you shopping for them clothes
Before I got so distant
And you got so fucking cold
I miss the old you
I miss the old you
I used to hold you
I used to hold you
And that ain't cost nothing, baby
Real love don't cost a motherfuckin' penny
I miss the old me
I miss the way I used to be
I miss…" - Black Bear - "I miss the old you"

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Kinda reminds me of another song... but, that is a different blog my little pretties...

what say you...

does it bring back any memories...

thanks for the read...

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easy_going2014 52M
10594 posts
6/17/2017 7:33 pm

"I'm gonna sing my way away from blue
I'm gonna find another you
When I was your lover
No one else would do
If I'm forced to find another
I hope she looks like you
Yeah, and she's nicer too..." - John Mayer - "I'm gonna find another you"

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sexyldy1000 58F  
3459 posts
6/17/2017 7:58 pm

For such an 'easy going' man, you sure have had an interesting week! You have the ability to put all women at 'ease' which is a an admirable quality.
I love the line, 'When it was on, we was on fire'. Isn't that what we would all want when we are with our lover ? Doesn't matter if it's the 1st or the 100th time.


Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.


bifun50 69M
298 posts
6/17/2017 9:03 pm

Wow, from the heart and so special, thank you for sharing


kinkyfem73 46F

6/17/2017 9:18 pm

I loved this post!! I think its great when men and women can spend time together with no sexual tension. Just relaxed and enjoying each others company.

Cum visit my blog Kinkyland


easy_going2014 52M
10594 posts
6/17/2017 11:50 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    For such an 'easy going' man, you sure have had an interesting week! You have the ability to put all women at 'ease' which is a an admirable quality.
    I love the line, 'When it was on, we was on fire'. Isn't that what we would all want when we are with our lover ? Doesn't matter if it's the 1st or the 100th time.

Hi sexyldy1000.

thanks for your visit and comments on this blog...

It was an interesting week...

I wish I had the knack to put all women at ease... I cannot say that that is true... but, for the precious few that 'see' me... we can find a comfortable place to just be... to exchange ideas freely... I like it when that happens, knowing that it is a rare experience...

yes... I would want us to be on fire... should we ever be together... like "together and be" from "The XX"...

My emphasis on "firsts" is that I cherish them... It's not just a "slam bam, thank you ma 'am"... at least not for me... I want my intimate moments to be special...

I want the first to be wonderful... I want the next first to be wonderful... and, so on... and, so on... just sayin'...

have a great Sunday!!!

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easy_going2014 52M
10594 posts
6/17/2017 11:51 pm

    Quoting bifun50:
    Wow, from the heart and so special, thank you for sharing
Hi bifun50.

thanks for your visit.

I'm glad that you liked these words...

I appreciate the kind words...

Have a great day this Father's day!

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easy_going2014 52M
10594 posts
6/17/2017 11:56 pm

    Quoting kinkyfem73:
    I loved this post!! I think its great when men and women can spend time together with no sexual tension. Just relaxed and enjoying each others company.
Hi kinkyfem73.

thanks for visiting and commenting on this blog...

I luv it when my posts move people...

I thought about the three happenings this week... and shared them...

I try to give back to this site, as I get so much enjoyment from readings posts here as well...

to be able to spend time with someone away from the office made me feel so good... and, I didn't expect her to pick up the tab... the waiter gave me the check... and, she demanded that I let her pay...

thanks again for the kind words...

Have a great Sunday!

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pocogato12 67F  
27733 posts
6/18/2017 6:27 am

Happy Sunday my Friend. I love the words to this! but I went and listened to it and I do not care for the music. It's a good share and i ma glad your week was stellar

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easy_going2014 52M
10594 posts
6/18/2017 7:01 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Happy Sunday my Friend. I love the words to this! but I went and listened to it and I do not care for the music. It's a good share and i ma glad your week was stellar
Hi pocogato12.

thanks for your visit and comments...

you always give me your point of view... I like that in your blogs and the pics that you've shared...

the songs aren't always for everyone... I introduced my son to the music of Sofia Karlberg yesterday... you know... I have written about her in several blogs... he fell in luv with her instantly... I asked him if he would be comfortable calling her "mommy"... he quoted Kim Cesarion's "Undressed"... "Hi my name is... whatever you call me..."

that was funny...

I'm glad that you enjoyed the read...

have a great day...

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lyavu 46F  
1223 posts
6/18/2017 10:45 am

Nice thanks for sharing


easy_going2014 52M
10594 posts
6/18/2017 4:13 pm

    Quoting lyavu:
    Nice thanks for sharing
Hi lyavu.

Thanks for the visit and the comments!

I'm so glad that you liked this blog,

Have a great week!

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