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Blogs > ilovethewind > The Mind is too Sexy to Waste

In Praise of the Art of Sensual Suggestion: A Request  

ilovethewind 46F
36 posts
9/9/2017 9:09 am
In Praise of the Art of Sensual Suggestion: A Request

I am a creature of creativity. Setting the right tone for anything is super important in assuring my long term engagement. In order for magic to happen (magic defined by me as an immersive and deep co-creative engagement with surrender and grace) the right color, tone, attitude, and intention are deeply important. This is true for me when cooking, dancing, conversing, or engaging in the erotic (of which I am a very attentive ).

So you see, when all I see are images of your anatomy without context, it does nothing for me. It leaves me a bit cheated, actually. I want to earn the privilege of seeing your beautiful self. I want lay awake at night contemplating the mystery of you. How you smell, how you feel, how you taste, and how you look. I don't compartmentalize my sexuality or sexual acts-to me they are so deeply connected to nature and the human experience that summing people up to mere body parts cuts off the flow of the exchange for me.

Don't get me wrong, I am not a prude and nor without a sense of humor. I love a beautiful body. I adore it. Yet, when all I get is a "Hi" accompanied by images of aroused parts of a body, that doesn't work for me. Now, if you feel so inclined to share with me your beautiful naked self, by all means.....but make it worth my while. Leave me a question you ponder,

write me about an experience you've had,

tell me what your needs are....

hell, tell me your favorite food.

Bring your human self, because that is always the sexiest thing you can bring.

I get that some of you love the anonymity this site can offer and that such pics can stimulate and fulfill fantasy for you. I get this and wish you many lovely opportunities for you to satisfy that. This is Meelp, after all. I am just letting you what works for me.

I want dynamism in the erotic.

"Don't kiss me. Make me bite my lip." -Michael Faudet

gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
9/9/2017 11:01 am

 Well said... perhaps that's where the blogs come in.
Thoughts from the Garden...


ilovethewind 46F
8 posts
9/10/2017 10:58 am

 Absolutely. I am a lover of people, not just bodies.

Thank you for adding that.


juanrico75 63M
Ask me for a photo
11 posts
10/20/2017 6:48 pm

 Since childhood I have been slave to my senses. Intoxicated by scents. Made to tremble by texture and ensorcelled by breath and food. This is the way we were meant to live but in this country there are many who say they are attracted to this and in the end are threatened or repelled by it. Most religious sects say to love the creator but not the creation. I find it impossible to separate the two.


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