Random thoughts by Lonely  

lonelybackagain 45F  
69 posts
6/15/2017 10:47 pm
Random thoughts by Lonely

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lonelybackagain 45F  
22 posts
6/15/2017 10:47 pm

Be nice LOL

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Oldmanaz2 60M
270 posts
6/15/2017 11:10 pm

I think it's great that this avenue is available to vent. I'm really new to Meelp but I'm guessing you'll find many that read this that will give you their support. I can't relate to you situation but here's hoping for a quick recovery.


lonelybackagain 45F  
22 posts
6/15/2017 11:50 pm

Thanks so much!

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fun4us667 34M/34F  
20 posts
6/15/2017 11:55 pm

Such a Bummer


d0gdaize 66M
289 posts
6/15/2017 11:56 pm

Yes, it is a shame that even if one is on this site (or any others for that matter) , that at the least be honest with one another. I guess some tend to forget that there are people behind the words written here. Some like playing games and while some despise it. I been through my share. For me I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and open up way to soon. Like most, i just hate the hurt. Honesty would have eased it some, but this is the internet and I guess people can be anyone they want. Maybe I should open up a new account and be a rich buisness owner.... NOT ! I will just be me and hopefully someone will appreciate it.
I feel bad for what happened to you , but maybe one day you can look back, take a deep breath, and say you're glad it didn't go any further. I don't like to presume, but maybe this guy who ditched you was a player . Someone will appreciate you for being you. Keep smiling.


lonelybackagain 45F  
22 posts
6/16/2017 12:23 am

Sometimes I think I am too honest myself and put too much out there. But I would rather be me at the end of the day. I'm not perfect and can be a bit of a mess but overall I like who I am and if someone can't appreciate me for who I am then I don't need them in my life! And if I am in your life then I would say you are a fortunate person. And if I end up in your bed then you are pretty damned lucky!!!

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MagnumXXL01 49M  
15 posts
6/16/2017 4:03 am

That happens all the time on here, people are flakey, say they will meet then never return texts or emails


lonelybackagain 45F  
22 posts
6/16/2017 5:00 am

The irony is that on his profile he complains about women being all talk and no action!

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greekphilosopher 56M
4084 posts
6/16/2017 5:04 am

Oh the joys of online dating! Here or else where. The filtering process can be so long. And then, POOF, and all disappears! But what can the rest of us do about it? Not much, apart from dust off, and go again! Best of luck with the next one.


Rumble59 59M
173 posts
6/16/2017 6:12 am

Regardless of gender, this is a frequent occurrence. Could be cat fishing, could be a liar. Either way, you spend time and emotional energy getting to know someone, just to have it fall apart when it moves to real life.

After being burned several times, I have just gone to asking for a meet and greet right at the start. Let's go to public place, enjoy some adult or non adult beverages, and see if we connect. You come in your car and I come in my truck. If we connect, great. If not, we can talk, laugh, and enjoy ourselves like adults.

I know a lot of women are resistant to meeting up front. But I also know women complain about men being liars and fakes. As a result, it seems most women construct hurdles to weed out the undesirable men. Sometimes, all you are doing is omitting the real men and giving access to the liars or catfishes. Just saying.

Rumble in the Jungle


reno57inboston 62M
17 posts
6/21/2017 9:49 pm

What an Ass, not to put his ass where his mouth was Sorry to hear that you had to go thru that. Some people are just rude, crude and not as lewd as we might want Hate liars and best of luck next go round beautiful. We all deserve respect AND a little bit of FUN xox


lonelybackagain 45F  
22 posts
6/22/2017 1:16 am

Thank you for all the supportive comments!! I have decided that this guy just prefers to fuck his hand on cam than have a real woman in his bed It is definitely his loss!! I didn't do anything wrong. I am awesome and he is an idiot not to have realized it!! There are other men who do and one of them will be lucky enough to have me for a lover.

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