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Posted:Nov 3, 2016 11:08 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2017 9:58 pm

I have been struggling with this for a couple of years now. I have now reached a point where I can no longer do this. It has become a thankless time eating chore.

So before I explain why, I need to thank 3 people who have helped me over the years. First a huge thanks to our former group Hosts clydecouple2 or as many know them as Bill and June. Guys you have helped set up, been there for advice and a listening post all these years. I feel as if I have let you down for doing this. Next and just as important was slow_n_easy007. She helped me with finding guys and running the parties. Thank you for helping with clean up and set up.

I have been asked by a couple of people what happened? I honestly can not say, but the end result is a lack of people attending. I can stab some guesses as to why. Its not a Hotel party, I charge everyone, My home is old and the stairs suck going upstairs. My house is not nice enough for folks. Lack of big TV. No music, not wild enough. Lack of Gold membership.

Over the years I have been told by most everyone how much they enjoyed the party and they can not wait for the next one. Then with that they pretty much disappear never to be heard from again. I have screened people to keep out the riff raff. This takes time. A lot of time. I hear all the time how I need to do more parties. Every month at least. So early in the start up of this I tried to fill in with smaller parties. And people stopped attending. Flash forward to the last few months where every month has had something going on. The result ,,, the same, people stop attending. This time I barely had 5 guys.

As your Host I always do not get to play. Nor do I always have the time to set and wait for a space. There are times when if you want a bonfire, I have to set out there and light the fire and watch it through the evening, Yes for the first couple hours of the party I was on my phone a lot. This seemed to have rubbed some people the wrong way. Well I was on it directing others to the party, taking calls about being late and of course the I can't show up calls. I thought hosting would open doors for me. However it seems to have closed doors for me. I know of several events that happened and no invite was extended. Or in one case an invite was extended then the info was never sent along. I have had one couple, time4fun662 that has ever invited me to anything. On a side note this couple and clydecouple2 are the only ones where the ladies ever gave me a huge thank you hug and kiss at the end of the night. Thank you Ladies!

So where does this bring us to for the here and now? Good question and one to be honest I am not sure of. I hope that perhaps people will use the group site for events or meeting local people. There may be some gangbangs from time to time. I have a large project in the house coming up. If I get this done and depending on how things go, I may have a party in the summer. No promises. What I would do is turn the group over to someone else. What ever I am doing is not working. So if someone else wishes to step up let me know. I have asked for ideas and suggestions on this blog and all I get is more silence each time. I just can not go on like this.

To all that attended over the years, my honest thanks for attending. To my regulars, I am sorry I let you down. I had hoped for more.

Private Message
Posted:Jul 9, 2015 5:21 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 11:46 am

This post has been set to private. Only the host can see your message. Have a question or need to contact us then leave it here. You can leave party info here also.
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Who we are and the rules, Please read
Posted:Jul 7, 2015 8:05 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2019 6:56 am

We are a no drama group that meets a few times a year. We are older, most of our couples are in their 40's. We accept couples, females and males. We have a no pressure to play policy, this means you can show up and not have to play.

Our parties have been so far at private homes. Since you are coming into someones home expect to be screened.

The old rules

1 No means NO

2 Respect others

3 no drugs, this covers pot also. Drinking in moderation is ok.

The NEW rules
1 If you desire to attend you will send the host a face picture, phone number and a non Meelp way to contact you.

2 Three strikes and you are out rule. If you break one of the old rules that is a strike against you. 3 times you are out. For those that cancel with out a good excuse within 24 hours of the party this is considered 1 strike. If you are a no call no show that is 2 strikes against you. If you are a day of the party request/invite and you no call no show that is 3 strikes and you will be blocked.

3 If you sign up as a couple and your partner backs out then you are now a single. Single females we always have a spot for. Let us know so that we may invite another male. For men you will go on the single male list. You may no longer be invited because we may have all the men we need. You will go on a back up list. IF YOU SHOW UP AT THE PARTY WITHOUT LETTING US KNOW BEFORE THE PARTY,YOU WILL BE TURNED AWAY and this will be 2 strikes against you.
Looking at the parties and learning something
Posted:Nov 8, 2015 7:32 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2015 9:48 am

So why do we leave the party postings up from past parties? I have been asked this recently. Well they are left up for others to learn from. I will not make comments about those that show. People who show up once may not like our parties and decided not to attend more. Sometimes someone will not be a fit or act strangely and not be invited back. Where the real education comes from are those that are listed as no call, no shows. These are people that often times have begged to attend, then just never show up. Beware of these fakes. If they do not show at a party, will they show up for you? Answer is probably not. Those listed as a cancellation have called and said they could not make it.
That just threw a wrench in things
Posted:Jul 20, 2019 5:10 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2019 5:58 pm

So IM has been acting up on here for the last several days. First it was thing now its something else....or is it, hmmm. So I notice the other night the message about standard members not getting more than 3 IMs a day was gone. Yup as another nail in the coffin of Meelp, they have now taken away IM standard members. Not that as a single guy I ever meet many on here, but host the was another topic. So not sure how to at going on from here.

Ideas please! is join just for a month before the parties. So thats like 30 bucks which I guess I could spread guests. Another is figure a way me with their info so I can them. Any ideas here???
Fall 2019 party?
Posted:Jul 20, 2019 10:16 am
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2019 10:24 pm

So I have been working on the house. Depending if I get some more things done and I can solve one little problem... looking at a swing party in late fall. Right now I am seeing how much interest there is. Now remember I need couples and single woman along with some guys. So just hearing from guys alone is not going to cut it.
Summer 2018 party
Posted:Mar 20, 2018 12:39 am
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2019 10:17 am

I am THINKING, notice the word thinking of maybe a party in July. Hosted at my home same things as last time. Before I even start planning, who is interested in attending?
Thanks all
Posted:Oct 10, 2017 10:59 pm
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2017 3:05 pm

Well the summer party is well over now. The change of seasons always gives me pause to think about life in general. Lots of thoughts have been going on lately. This group has been one of them. Some concerns I have shared before on other posts. Some I have shared privately.

I have decided to close this group. It is to much work for one person to do on a regular basis. This is the main reason. There are others that also factored in. But its over at this point and I do not feel like getting into them.

Best of luck to all the regulars. Thank you to all that actually showed up. To the three that helped me, you know who you are thanks!

I will leave the group account and blog up for around a month. Then it will be deleted.
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July swing House Party
Posted:Jun 10, 2017 7:27 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2017 10:39 pm

Well it seems like that the people have spoken. So once again we will have our Summer House party.

When; Sat, July 22 at 7 pm till ?

Where; Private Home

Who; Any one over 30 can ask to attend. We do allow a number of single males in but keep it around a 2 guys per lady.

How to attend: First read the rules above. Second have a g rated face picture to send to me. Next if you have not attended a party here before, WE MUST CHAT. This means all, females, males and couples. So I will need a Phone number.
The group is a standard member so I can not reply to many of you. If you look above there is a private message section you can leave info at.

This party will be stripped down. There will be no basement or Pool, since no one ever used them. There will be a bonfire out back at dark, so if you desire to play in the yard you may do so.

Anyone have any ideas on what they would like to see?

Couples 7
R & J (called off)
R& K
1HotButt ( 2nd no show, Yes folks they were the couple that sat in their Car for 15 to 20 minutes then drove off without so much of a word. ATTENTION folks this couple just plays games so if you are planning on meeting you have warned)
Naughtynun69 & D

single females 2
Nan (no call no show)

Single males 10


Rahim ( no call no show)
What is fair?
Posted:Sep 11, 2016 8:04 pm
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2019 10:54 pm

So I was on IM today having a rare chat with a gentleman. He told me that he had found a party that was asking for single males. When he inquired he was told that single females and couples were free. Single males pay $80.

The first thought that comes to mind is, what the hell? I understand that it does cost money to rent a hotel room. But at that price two guys or three at the most should be able to rent one hell of a room. Where is the rest going?

So allow me to break this down on several levels. First, why is it just assumed or expected that it is correct to charge the man? Do we not have equality? I understand that many men make more money than women. There is a couple on Meelp that clearly posts they will only talk to Gold members. I suspect that they feel it is their way of insuring great people. Just because you have money to spend on a gold membership, it does not make you a better person.

So another way to look at this. You are a woman and are having a gangbang for you. Most men can cum once some twice. How many times can you cum? Me guess is several times more. So who is getting more out of the GB? Now in NO way am I suggesting that some how this leaves men off the hook. This does not mean that men now get in free and women have to shoulder the burden.

How much is something worth to you? I gave a person I knew several years ago a car for free. The Dealer wanted to give me nothing for it so they needed a car at the time. Within a couple of months the car was backed into a pole and smashed the rear. Had the one door smashed in. Trashed inside and several others thing done to it. So to answer the question what is free worth? Nothing. So give a party away to women and couples it becomes worth nothing to them. Over charge the men and now they will feel they are entitled to something.

Not to explain all the bad behavior of men here. But when you make one part pay the burden for everyone else what do you expect? There is a better way in my view. How about all pay some? Then all see a value. No one sex feels they are more special than the other because they are free or are supporting everyone else.
and you wonder why you did not get invited??
Posted:Jul 27, 2016 11:15 pm
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2018 12:36 am

I have heard this in the past, well I want to attend but..... but what? So here are some recent examples from our 2016 Summer party of bad behavior, no follow through and just plain head shaking.

So first off I must have 20 emails from gold members in my mail box. Why are they sitting there you ask? Great question, well the group is a standard member (non paying) and as such I can not open your mail unless you pay an extra fee to allow me to. So there they will set unless we get enough views to get gold and be able to open them. Of course at this point the party is over.

Next, IM why IM? I before the party will open IM up for anyone wishing to contact us through it. At one time I did get a few people that way. Now I get people that start chatting then just stop chatting. Why tell me how great the party looks, or wow that hot can I get invited, just to suddenly stop talking to me?

Failure to follow directions. You will not get an invite without a face picture and some way to be able to contact you. A DICK PIC IS NOT A FACE PICTURE. I said face picture not a head shot. There is a difference! The bottom half of your face also is not a face picture.

I can not believe the bad behavior. GUYS you wonder why its so hard to meet on here?
Here is a great example of a guy that contacts me Sat mourning of the party at 10 am to ask for an invite to attend. The party starts at 7 pm. After our conversation he contacts me On Sunday mourning after the party at 6;58 am. No name just asks how the party went. says its was to humid to attend. so not knowing off the top of ny head it was this guy I follow up a day later,

NWO So why did you even ask to attend? Another dude filled in for you.
( Side note this guy was asked to attend because of his size that one of the ladies was looking for. This was explained to him on Sat mourning)

him Wow sorry I missed out. did want to attend, but it was just to humid.

Him Would it had been Ok if I brought a female with me?

NWO WTF! Central air in house.

him Know I now about the female

Him I owe her a few orgasms

NWO Was there anything said about you bring anyone? If you actually had the balls to attend. Which you do not. You would have been turned away.

him Ok, just asking you did mention couples

Very big balls! Again i would have have to shower again once I got there, I need to recharge the AC in my truck

What about your wife?

Again very big balls

NWO You owe her nothing! ou were told about her that mourning. So you just decide to blow us off? You think you get invited another time? Wrong!

Him Does she like BBC

Wow it was 104+ that day.

but ok

NWO You have no Fing balls! Scum bag I am done reading your shit.

Him A blow off I texted the next day

Scum because it was over 104 brother dripping in sweet as soon as I walk out of my house.

This is the why you guys get slapped down so much on here. I try to be a great host. I think if you ask anyone that has attended before they will agree. My home is mostly open except for the office. You can shower anytime. Even my is friendly!
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Our Summer party for 2016
Posted:May 25, 2016 9:51 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2016 9:21 am

So its our Summer party. Still working on a theme. Thinking tropical maybe????

When Sat. July 23 2016

Time starts at 7 pm.

Where. Private Home by invite

The Host will supply Soda, snacks, ice, and condoms. Weather permitting there will be a fire outside to play by, or relax. Some games and social time.

You must ask for an invite. Please have a way to reach you, the group is standard members. If you have been to our parties before you know what to expect. If you have not you will need to meet or chat with the Host before you will be invited. You are coming into my home, so you will be asked for a PG picture, for my use only.

Sign up will start with Couples and single ladies first. Starting on July 2 Single males may begin to ask for invites.

Couples 5

ClydeCouple 2
AlnDe (no call no show)
Jimnruth (no call no show)

single females 3
rm_jadinmarin (excused)
slowneasy007 (excused)

Single males 11 SPECIAL request need a long and thick guy!
mikefromtiffan (SLS)
shortdog (SLS)
2016 Feb Party
Posted:Jan 6, 2016 10:30 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2016 9:30 am

Ok I have set the date of Feb 6 at 7pm for the first party of the new Year. This will be at a private home. Soda, snacks and condoms provided. We have 3 bedrooms and a light kink area in the basement. So newbies, read the rules above before you contact me. If you ask for an invite, plan on attending! We will have couples and single ladies sign up first. On Jan. 18th single guys may start to sign up.

Any questions ask me

Couples 4
bbwNimp (sort of no show)

Single ladies 1

Single guys 4

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