What do you do when you find yourself awake in the middle of the night?  

secret_lade 46F
8961 posts
11/19/2020 2:02 am
What do you do when you find yourself awake in the middle of the night?

There are a lot of things I'd like to be doing when I'm awake in the night.

Snuggling with a special someone... Middle of the night sex with a lover... Sleeping!!

But, what do I really find myself doing?

Tonight I found myself listening to 'Man Eater' after calling this crazy hotline number.



Cause, yah! I'm that person who sees this crazy stuff on faceplace and thinks...

I'm trying it!

secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/23/2020 3:50 am

    Quoting lunchandconvo:
    i am listening to spandau ballet "true" on the uuutube.
    oh! now we are on thompson twins "hold me now".

    while....
    eating croutons.
    they seem to be my snack lately.
    i rationalize to myself that it's like i'm having toast.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who eats plain croutons... What ones are you favorite? I prefer the garlic cheese.


lunchandconvo 50F
2820 posts
11/22/2020 11:28 pm

i am listening to spandau ballet "true" on the uuutube.
oh! now we are on thompson twins "hold me now".

while....
eating croutons.
they seem to be my snack lately.
i rationalize to myself that it's like i'm having toast.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/20/2020 3:57 pm

    Quoting bustinout20202:
    OMG! Hall and Oates! Absolute fav! The first time I saw them in concert I thought I was going to see a solo artist named Holland Oates!! lol! The next day I went to Music Millennium [a Portland landmark!] and bought every record they had ever made up to that point! I was in love! I decorated my bedroom with their album covers. I loved their album cuts, especially "I'm just a kid, don't make me feel like a man"; not a hit, but a sexy John Oates song on the Abandoned Luncheonette album.
    Okay so now it reads like he's a grown ass man trying to pick up teenagers, but at the time it spoke to me!!

    For me, in the middle of the night, I will usually catch up on youtube vids that I subscribe to or that's when I do most of my writing. That's usually when the inspiration hits.
So, tell me.... Did you call the hotline number??? LOL


bustinout20202 63F  
180 posts
11/20/2020 11:10 am

OMG! Hall and Oates! Absolute fav! The first time I saw them in concert I thought I was going to see a solo artist named Holland Oates!! lol! The next day I went to Music Millennium [a Portland landmark!] and bought every record they had ever made up to that point! I was in love! I decorated my bedroom with their album covers. I loved their album cuts, especially "I'm just a kid, don't make me feel like a man"; not a hit, but a sexy John Oates song on the Abandoned Luncheonette album.
Okay so now it reads like he's a grown ass man trying to pick up teenagers, but at the time it spoke to me!!

For me, in the middle of the night, I will usually catch up on youtube vids that I subscribe to or that's when I do most of my writing. That's usually when the inspiration hits.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/20/2020 2:26 am

    Quoting tickles4us:
    Lol. Hall & Oates. Well, sometimes I turn the TV on and search for something to watch. Sometimes I turn on the tv and switch to the computer input and find some porn to watch and or porn/erotic stories to read...and then..something happens and I find myself feeling sleepy...zzzzzz. ...\8
Something, huh... I wonder what that something could be... LOL


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/20/2020 2:24 am

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    I can’t go for that. (Hehe)
    It sure sounds like you reaped what you sow, and you were sowing your Oates.
    If your name is Sara, I hope you smiled.
    And for the middle of the night activity, your kiss is on my list.

    Yes I am a huge Daryl Hall & John Oates fan. That blue eyed soul pop duo was the best thing of the 80’s.

    I really should hire some Private Eyes to find my collection....
I'm of the age that I LOVE Hall and Oates.... So many good songs! I actually called that number again on my way home from work to listen to another song. LOL Because, yah, I'm nerdy like that.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/20/2020 2:22 am

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    well, at least you got to listen to a good song

    I have a noise machine that konks me out

    this time a year the acorns are popping all over the roof

    be safe

    Auður - "I’d Love"

    It seems that you’re the open type
    The type that tries out something new
    Sick of staying at the same place all night
    New, new

    I’ve seen you in my fantasies
    Protagonist of dirty dreams
    You’re the one that i wanna get to know better
    Wanna know better

    Id love to get to know ya
    In ways that no ones done before
    Id love to get to know ya
    Open your chest and lets explore
    You’re my amazon
    You’re my special one
    You’re my amazon
    You’re a special one

    Nothings new under the sun
    But it can’t see what the moon has done
    Stelpa how do you behave when theres no light
    Secrets of the night
I've had a few people tell me I should get a white noise machine, that they help you to sleep through the night. When I was seeing the Hippie, he couldn't sleep without the fan on, and, that drove me crazy! Couldn't stand the sound of it... I don't think the white noise thing would work for me.


MrWrong4RghtNow 54M  
1076 posts
11/20/2020 12:49 am

I can’t go for that. (Hehe)
It sure sounds like you reaped what you sow, and you were sowing your Oates.
If your name is Sara, I hope you smiled.
And for the middle of the night activity, your kiss is on my list.

Yes I am a huge Daryl Hall & John Oates fan. That blue eyed soul pop duo was the best thing of the 80’s.

I really should hire some Private Eyes to find my collection....

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


easy_going2014 54M
14366 posts
11/19/2020 9:18 pm

well, at least you got to listen to a good song

I have a noise machine that konks me out

this time a year the acorns are popping all over the roof

be safe

Auður - "I’d Love"

It seems that you’re the open type
The type that tries out something new
Sick of staying at the same place all night
New, new

I’ve seen you in my fantasies
Protagonist of dirty dreams
You’re the one that i wanna get to know better
Wanna know better

Id love to get to know ya
In ways that no ones done before
Id love to get to know ya
Open your chest and lets explore
You’re my amazon
You’re my special one
You’re my amazon
You’re a special one

Nothings new under the sun
But it can’t see what the moon has done
Stelpa how do you behave when theres no light
Secrets of the night

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secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:33 pm

    Quoting luv2suk1966:
    I haven't heard that song in ages! When I wake up, I try my hardest to go right back to sleep, otherwise my brain takes over and I'm screwed!
That is almost always my problem. Too much stress and activity going on.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:31 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I keep the remote right there. If I wake up I can find some bad sitcom rerun to put me back to sleep.
I do too... but it's usually lost somewhere in my bed. It can be an ordeal just finding the remote.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:29 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Hmmm... interesting.
    I usually sit on the couch, put on the golf channel, check out activity on the island 🏝 and listen to the silence.
    Although now... I guess I'll have another option...

    ... or not. 😊 👍 🍷🍷❗😎
My ex husband used to love to watch golf.... it looked a little boring to me.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:26 pm

    Quoting XHamburgDave:
    Secret I would prefer the Snuggling / middle of the night Sex option

    Sure to be on the Tube place, cheaper than calling a Toll Number
Snuggling is my first choice.....


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:24 pm

    Quoting Massass1963:
    I seldom wake up in the middle of the night. If I do, it is usually very brief. I have on a few occasions turned on the computer, found some good porn and played....then fell back asleep! On other occasions I turn on the TV, scan for a good movie, and watch about 20 or so minutes and then I'm back to sleep!
I turn on a movie.... if that doesn't work I come here and catch up on my reading. Sometimes I write a lil something.


tickles4us 59M
7254 posts
11/19/2020 8:24 pm

Lol. Hall & Oates. Well, sometimes I turn the TV on and search for something to watch. Sometimes I turn on the tv and switch to the computer input and find some porn to watch and or porn/erotic stories to read...and then..something happens and I find myself feeling sleepy...zzzzzz. ...\8

Vive La Difference


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:22 pm

    Quoting freespirit11501:
    I hate when that happens. I will usually go online and see if I find something interesting to read, if not, I will try and just get back to sleep. Either way, the following day will be a mess.
This has become a bad issue for me.... I wake up nearly every day in the middle of the night. I miss the days when I slept through the night.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:19 pm

    Quoting coolpoolguy3:
    Once I'm awake it is very hard for me to go back to sleep. Sometimes reading helps.
I'm the same way. Unfortunately, I've got some severe sleep issues.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:18 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:


    Ah McLade, you do make me laugh........

    Other things you could try might include calling random numbers in Toronto and pretending you're from Amazon, or calling the speaking clock in the UK to listen to it tell the time?

    Alternatively, please just keep blogging because aye, ye're very good at it!!
The speaking clock.... what is this speaking clock?? Now I want to call it....


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:17 pm

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:


    Hall and Oates was the jam back in the day.

    I have go to youtube videos that I turn on when I'm trying to go back to sleep in the middle of the night. They work like a charm.
I have a couple of movies that I'll put on... sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Last night was a rough one.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:10 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I must have slept all of three hours last night My foot was in agony!
    I'm due to see the podiatrist next week and then I'm booked for an x-ray on my foot (again).
    I hope I sleep better tonight. I can't go for that...no can do!
I woke up at 2:30 and never tell back to sleep.... It was a long day.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:08 pm

    Quoting jolielaide:
    wow, hall n' oats in the middle of the night?? it's got to be "one on one"
I almost picked that one to listen to.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:07 pm

    Quoting KX450F2016:
    Well, I know if you are looking for a good time, call 867-5309 & ask for Jenny!
I just heard that song not to long ago.... It's still one of my favorites.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:05 pm

    Quoting KX450F2016:
    I sure hope I can read your blog after the 22nd when I'm not a gold member anymore!!
You can still read it.... I think you watch my blog so it should show up in your list of watched blogs. Or, you can go to the blog main page. I haven't been a good member this time around and can still read my favorite blogs.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 8:02 pm

    Quoting topherific:
    omg! you're not gonna believe this but that song was going thru my h ead as i opened your blog
I called it again on my way home from work to hear another song..... Lol


topherific 58M
4824 posts
11/19/2020 4:35 pm

omg! you're not gonna believe this but that song was going thru my h ead as i opened your blog


KX450F2016 52M
161 posts
11/19/2020 3:17 pm

I sure hope I can read your blog after the 22nd when I'm not a gold member anymore!!


KX450F2016 52M
161 posts
11/19/2020 3:04 pm

Well, I know if you are looking for a good time, call 867-5309 & ask for Jenny!


jolielaide 49F  
1555 posts
11/19/2020 1:03 pm

    Quoting secret_lade:
    Watch out boy, she'll chew you up...
wow, hall n' oats in the middle of the night?? it's got to be "one on one"


citizen4722 63M  
69764 posts
11/19/2020 9:01 am

I must have slept all of three hours last night My foot was in agony!
I'm due to see the podiatrist next week and then I'm booked for an x-ray on my foot (again).
I hope I sleep better tonight. I can't go for that...no can do!


hardguy0051 69M
284 posts
11/19/2020 8:33 am

    Quoting luv2suk1966:
    I haven't heard that song in ages! When I wake up, I try my hardest to go right back to sleep, otherwise my brain takes over and I'm screwed!
I tune in to a comedy radio station when that happens. It keeps my mind from running out of control and keeping me awake.


EnigmaInitiative 52F
4246 posts
11/19/2020 8:01 am



Hall and Oates was the jam back in the day.

I have go to youtube videos that I turn on when I'm trying to go back to sleep in the middle of the night. They work like a charm.

In a sense, sexuality is the built-in psychedelic experience that only a very few people manage to evade.

~Terence McKenna


lindoboy100 58M
22632 posts
11/19/2020 7:05 am



Ah McLade, you do make me laugh........

Other things you could try might include calling random numbers in Toronto and pretending you're from Amazon, or calling the speaking clock in the UK to listen to it tell the time?

Alternatively, please just keep blogging because aye, ye're very good at it!!

Pull ma finger.........


coolpoolguy3 54M
3049 posts
11/19/2020 6:54 am

Once I'm awake it is very hard for me to go back to sleep. Sometimes reading helps.


freespirit11501 50M
1461 posts
11/19/2020 6:44 am

I hate when that happens. I will usually go online and see if I find something interesting to read, if not, I will try and just get back to sleep. Either way, the following day will be a mess.

PLEASE COME AND CHECK OUT MY BLOG AND IF YOU ENJOYED IT LEAVE ME A COMMENT. KEEP IT SEXY!!


Massass1963 57M
790 posts
11/19/2020 5:40 am

I seldom wake up in the middle of the night. If I do, it is usually very brief. I have on a few occasions turned on the computer, found some good porn and played....then fell back asleep! On other occasions I turn on the TV, scan for a good movie, and watch about 20 or so minutes and then I'm back to sleep!


XHamburgDave 77M  
10462 posts
11/19/2020 5:05 am

Secret I would prefer the Snuggling / middle of the night Sex option

Sure to be on the Tube place, cheaper than calling a Toll Number


Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


Paulxx001 63M
17886 posts
11/19/2020 4:53 am

Hmmm... interesting.
I usually sit on the couch, put on the golf channel, check out activity on the island 🏝 and listen to the silence.
Although now... I guess I'll have another option...

... or not. 😊 👍 🍷🍷❗😎


mc_justmc 60M  
6820 posts
11/19/2020 4:15 am

I keep the remote right there. If I wake up I can find some bad sitcom rerun to put me back to sleep.


luv2suk1966 60M/54F
1477 posts
11/19/2020 3:49 am

I haven't heard that song in ages! When I wake up, I try my hardest to go right back to sleep, otherwise my brain takes over and I'm screwed!

Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


secret_lade 46F
5787 posts
11/19/2020 2:03 am

Watch out boy, she'll chew you up...


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